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With campaigns like It’s On Us,#DearBetsy, and End Rape On Campus, the prevalence of sexual violence on college campuses is beginning to be demystified. The 1 in 4 statistic, that approximately 20% of women will be sexually assaulted during their time in college, has hit mainstream media, but measures for survivors to feel safe, report their perpetrator, receive accommodations, complete their education, and begin their healing processes are more difficult to find.

Title IX, the federal law that protects students against sexual violence, affords survivors with a myriad of rights and protections that are rarely publicized or known. It states that, “no person in the United States shall, on the basis of sex, be excluded from participation in, be denied the benefits of, or be subjected to discrimination under any education program or activity receiving Federal financial assistance.” (Title IX of the Education Amendments of 1920, 20 U.S.C. §1681)

What this boils down to is any educational institution that receives federal funding (most colleges fall under this category) is legally required to respond to any complaints brought forward about sexual assault. Your school cannot ignore an allegation!

Title IX requires that particular measures be followed to ensure best practices in supporting survivors. Your school MUST have -

A Title IX Coordinator: the point person for survivors to go to if they want to report their assault. This person coordinates the subsequent investigation and disciplinary process. Their name/title, office address, phone number, and email should be easily accessible to all students.

You have the right to ask for an advisor to be there with you throughout the reporting process. This person can be an internal support person such as a professor, friend, family member, or external support person, including lawyers. Reporting sexual assault can be isolating and terrifying, but you deserve support and care from your trusted allies. You are allowed to share any/all details about the complaints made with your advisor.

Clear grievance procedures: aka an accessible process by which discrimination can be reported. This procedure must be PROMPT and equitable. Investigations should take no more than 60 calendar days. This time frame is often adjusted based on the complexities of the case.

You have the right to report your school to the Office of Civil Rights if the Title IX complaint process is unreasonably delayed. This is a violation of Title IX!

Employee Training: any employees of the college that may receive reports of sexual assault are required to be trained on how to identify and respond to disclosures. These employees could include professors, administrators, coaches, health center staff, and resident advisors.

You have the right to know who is a Mandated Reporter and who is not. A Mandated Reporter has an obligation to report instances of sexual assault or violence to the college. Confidential resources, on the other hand, will not disclose anything about the assault without the survivor’s consent. Your autonomy in making decisions about what to do after your assault takes priority. You know what is best for you and your healing process!  

Reporting options: Under the Clery Act, colleges must inform survivors of their reporting options through the school and to the police.

The Clery Act is a federal law that requires colleges to report crimes that occur on campus. It includes the Campus Sexual Assault Victim’s Bill of Rights, which requires colleges to disclose educational programming, disciplinary processes, and survivor rights during the reporting process.

You have the right to accommodations whether or not you choose to report to the police or pursue reporting internally through the school’s grievance procedures. This means that you are entitled to changes in your academic or extracurricular schedules to prevent hostile environments that might compromise your education, safety measures, such as no contact orders or a restraining order. Your school must provide you with tutoring, counseling, or other support services at no cost to you if you need them to continue your education.

If your school does not provide you with these resources, they are in violation of Title IX policy and can be reported to the Office of Civil Rights. Discrimination complaints can be filed online at https://www2.ed.gov/about/offices/list/ocr/docs/howto.html.

Sources:

https://www.knowyourix.org/

https://www2.ed.gov/about/offices/list/ocr/docs/tix_dis.html

https://pomona.callistocampus.org/reporting/pomona-policies/#your-title-ix-rights

Sagarika Gami is a senior at Pomona College studying Gender & Women’s Studies. She enjoys reading memoirs and listening to spoken word poetry on youtube (she stumbled across this piece last night and it might be a new favourite - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1gSCEImUey8).

Something I was always told. That I would never be able to fully heal unless I forgave the people th

Something I was always told. That I would never be able to fully heal unless I forgave the people that hurt me. It took me until very recently to realized that it’s very much not true. It doesn’t help me in the least, and they do not deserve an ounce of my sympathy. They deserve to rot with that feeling for what they did.
#stopvictimblaming #stopvictimshaming #noforgiveness #endrapeculture #stopsilencingrapesurvivors
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::::TRIGGER WARNING::: mention of Rapist and self healing through the years, but this is an importan

::::TRIGGER WARNING::: mention of Rapist and self healing through the years, but this is an important message for my family and people that knew my late brother.


This is something I have to start doing. I’m sorry to any and all family members this may offend, upset or piss off, but as of this coming December, 12th, and next June the 4th, the anniversary and birthday of my late brother Louis Baron, I will not be online. And probably be unable to reach. Every single year, for the last almost 10 years, it’s hard seeing his face flood my news feed. These are days that I cannot and will not be reminded of him. I’m refusing to allow those days to bring me down any longer. The horrible things he did to me (among other people, with whom I will not mention) cannot ever leave my mind, randomly sending me into flashback after flashback that literally take me out of reality and send me back, even 21 years later. It’s definitely one of the many sources of my C-PTSD, and D.I.D. I understand it’s not easy for people to read about someone they love, but it’s even harder as someone that went through it for a year to talk about. I love you all, but I’m not sorry. This is something I have to do for myself. If at all possible, please try to stop tagging me in anything that is related to him. I know it’s not your intentions, but I can’t. If you made it this far.. thank you for taking the time to read..
#dissociativeidentitydisorder #cptsd #survivortherapy #endrapeculture #stopthesilence #traumatherapy #traumahealing #stopsilencingrapesurvivors #loubaron #traumaticflashbacks
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