#f i dont have a gender to conform toin the first place

maybe its something to do with feeling alienated from gender period. like i feel like i can get close to it when i think about gender as a presentation thing but even when it comes to like agender as an identity it didnt sit right with me because its an identity in its self and i feel like i dont have that. like the only way i can accurately describe myself is genderless because its not a noun its an adjective. its like answering ‘whats your gender’ with ‘i dont have one’ instead of ‘agender’ which feels like too much substance. to me, anyway. if other people like it thats obviously fine