#immoral

We learn ethics, but we don’t study it. We learn it by experience. Ethics is not a word to be explained by a simple “who”, “what”, “when”, and “where”, but to be answered by “how” and “why”. It teaches us right from wrong, moral from immoral. In life, we gain knowledge through experiences. Experience is what we get in life. Without it, we have nothing to live for. Living a life without experience is useless, senseless. What do we have to live for? Nothing. For us to learn, we should experience first. Experience is the best teacher. It teaches us life. It doesn’t tell us what life is, but tells us how life is. Experiences can be good or bad. Yes, we experience both to have a balanced life. According to Albert Einstein, it’s just like riding a bicycle. In order to stay balance, we should keep moving. And by moving, we keep on experiencing. Through experiences in life, we learn that what may come and go, ethics is part of life. A just example to this topic is love. Do we study love? No. We don’t study it because it cannot be studied. In order to know love, we need to feel it. And by feeling it, we would learn and understand what love is. Another example, though it is still under the category of love, is how to love and be loved. We also don’t study those. We never study  those. There are no rules, such as a step-by-step procedure, for  us to carry out or to take orders from. Does an accepted and proven study shows that we should and that we are obliged? None. Simply because it cannot be. Not all things in life are guaranteed for us to follow and study in order to acquire and gain knowledge. There are certain things that are bound for us to learn without the sense of studying, but must be taught by and through experiences in life. With these, we learn ethics.

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