This is feeling like how people were treating Jrox.
I know it’s disappointing not seeing your favorite actor at the stage door, but that does not give you a right to harass actors telling them how upset you were at not getting to meet them. They don’t owe you a meeting or anything. Please treat actors with respect and don’t get pissed when they don’t want to do stagedoor or decline taking a photo/signing something. Especially after the pandemic even more actors have anxiety about stagedoor meetings, so please just respect their wishes.