Sorry that I haven’t been updating my blog for a while. These last 7 months I have been going through and preparing for a life changing experience. This Deaf girl is going to become……

A DEAF MUM!!!

I have a baby boy due in just over 10 weeks, and I am so excited yet nervous to become a mum. I have so many questions and choices to make going around in my head. Choices such as bottle Vs breast feeding, what do I want in my birth plan. But one main question that stands out is, will my little boy be deaf like his mummy or hearing like his daddy? And the one answer I do know to that question is that I will love him whole heartily, and purely.

I do love the idea of having a deaf child, that I can shared my knowledge of my deafness, encourage integration to both Deaf and hearing world, and I feel there would be more of a connection between me and my deaf child. I’m not saying I wouldn’t be able to connect with a hearing child, but it would be different. I’m finding hard to put into writing what this connection is. We connect with people, but having a large ‘something’ in common can form a unique connection, and that can be same race, religion, disability for example… I hope I make sense! But then I wonder should I be wanting a deaf child, and to see them grow in a world that isn’t as accepting, accommodating, or easy to be in. I must remind myself, yes it can be hard being deaf, but I have had many great experiences and met many great people. The hardship I’ve faced has made me the person I am today, and because of that I know I would be a great mummy to a little deaf boy.

I can imagine that some hearing people would be like ‘why would you wish for a child that’s ‘disabled’?’, and it’s a shame because deafness is so much more than a disability. We have history, culture, and most importantly we have a beautiful visual language. Which I’m also very happy to say that my partner, who is hearing, is learning the basics of BSL (British Sign Language). And I want our child to grow up with both oral and signing skills, even if he is hearing.

Either way, if our baby is happy and healthy, then I’m a happy mummy. I cannot wait to start this new chapter in my life.

Hey! So I’m going to keep this post short and sweet.

I’ve had some amazing experience in the past and have loved every minute of it. If you’re a woman who is pregnant, loves pregnancy or otherwise please feel free to send me a message and we can have a chat.

There is nothing more beautiful and I must say.. sexy than pregnancy, growing life inside of you as the rest of your body changed, grows wider, rounder, heavier is just such a femine and erotic thought.

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