#offensive single men

So last night for the first time in my life I was directly verbally abused by some fucking homophobic deuce-bag. It happened at my Manila hostel in my hostel dorm right next to my bunk bed. I just met one of my fellow dorm-roomies while getting ready to go to bed. And during my only three minutes of interaction with him I learned that he was going to buy some heavy-duty guns the next day, that I’m a bitch, that I look like a German lesbian, and that lesbians eat shit according to the fucking deuce-bag. He kept calling me “sweetie” or “bitch” and he looked completely mental, to the point that I felt very threatened.

This maybe American maybe British late 20-s/early 30-s white male was the most dangerous and offensive person I have met this whole trip around SE Asia. And it was the first time I shed tears in a very long time. I can’t imagine what it’s like for other LGBT people to be bullied and discriminated against every day. No wonder so many commit suicide. I felt absolutely horrible for the whole night and following day from that short interaction.

I walked away from him in mid-sentence and requested a private room because I was offended and scared and the hostel staff moved me at no charge. However he was let to stay at the hostel the following day even though he made sexist remarks to many other female guests. I’m pretty disappointed in my hostel - MNL Boutique Hostel in Makati City. Thank goodness I’m leaving tonight.