#shy sadist solidarity

dear dommes/doms/dominants who are any or all of these:

• shy
  
• anxious
  
• gentle
  
• disabled
  
• neurodivergent
  
• just learning and starting out
  
• just coming to terms w your sadism
  
• not an archetype of your sexuality 
  
• not always an unshakable pillar of confidence and strength
  

you’re all babes, don’t worry about making yourself into someone your not, there will be subs who think you are the most glorious being in the world and want to fill all of your wildest desires, don’t compromise your comfort or boundaries, communicate always, don’t compare yourself to other people, there’s so much to learn but your work is your work and despite all the traditions of bdsm everyone does kink in their own way, stay true to yourself as best you can