#tuesday thoughts

I’m trying to figure out how to balance coping with Sir being busy while also serving him.

Emotionally, it helps if I stay as busy as possible while he’s away doing what he needs to do. I overbook my schedule to make sure that I’m never home alone moping or feeling sorry for my needy whore self.

On the other hand, Sir has clear expectations that I continue to maintain my his holes for him, create content for the blog, and that I am always illustrating to him that I’m his filthy whore - even when he’s busy.

But if I stay home and make content at night, I get lowkey depressed. If I go out, I️ end up doing my fuckhole stretches close to 1am and I’m exhausted the next day. Sometimes when I go on tumblr, I’m sad that he’s not around to browse through content with. Last night I was busy, and I now I feel guilty for not spending more time trying to spoil him. BUT I know if I was home last night, I would have felt my sadness and loneliness creep back in. ‍♀️

We’re always working towards improving our relationship and dynamic… this is just my latest challenge. Something for me to think about.

In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

️ Nine things which you’re not afraid to do when Allah the Almighty blesses you with a strong personality (true confidence):

1] When you have a strong personality, you’re not afraid of standing out from a crowd or behaving differently from the majority of people, as long as you firmly believe that whatever you’re doing is something which Allah the Most Wise and His noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu ‘alaihi wa sallam love.

2] When you have a strong personality, you’re not afraid of speaking up and correcting a person’s misinformation or misinterpretation which could mislead others.

3] When you have a strong personality, you’re not afraid to disappoint people and decline requests which you’re incapable of doing, whether you refuse to comply because you’ve got other tasks to prioritize or doing that favor would conflict with your values.

4] When you have a strong personality, you’re not afraid to verbally defend a Muslim who’s the subject of some lousy gossip and rumors, or if you can’t say anything in their defense, without hesitation you are not afraid to walk away from the toxic discussion.

5] When you have a strong personality, you’re not afraid of saying sorry and sincerely apologizing to individuals whom you have knowingly or unintentionally mistreated.

6] When you have a strong personality, you’re not afraid of looking weird, seeming strange to others and getting laughed at for doing something which not everybody can readily approve of.

7] When you have a strong personality, you’re not afraid of making mistakes and encountering failures, as you always trust Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala Who knows what’s best for you, and you’re willing to learn from any mistake you commit.

8] When you have a strong personality, you’re not afraid of giving something a second and third try after failing in the first attempt. If it doesn’t work out again, you’re not afraid of canceling it or conducting different plans to reach the same goal.

9] When you have a strong personality, you’re not afraid of solitude and appearing “lonely” if you decide to quit trying to be close friends with individuals who are untrustworthy or whose vibes are not good for you.

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Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “Help your brother, whether he is an oppressor or is being oppressed.” It was said, “O Messenger of Allah, we help the oppressed, but how do we help an oppressor?” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “By seizing his hand (by preventing the oppressor from oppressing).”

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 2312

Sahih Muslim 2584

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills.” Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan.“

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/note-on-being-one-of-allahs-allies.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/09/note-on-fearing-only-allah-almighty.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/09/tips-signs-of-females-with-very-weak.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/03/tips-eleven-tips-to-become-more.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-eleven-signs-of-people-with-strong.html

https://youtu.be/UH2Xbg1C-SU

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