I know in the rr/gfd community one of the more popular elements is the guys being coddled and cared for and resting their heads on chests and having their hair played with and being the ones who are held but I think it’s important and necessary to remember that everyone needs to be held and cared for and relationships are never rigidly one way or another when it comes to doling out or reciprocating affection, thanks for tuning in
If this isn’t a statement on American health care, I don’t know what is.
I skipped a step, going down the stairs today (I was texting while walking- it was the hubby and about the kid, so sue me, this is why I don’t text and drive) and badlyrolled my ankle. In the few moments between hearing the pop of the side of my ankle meeting pavement, and the confirmation that I could in fact still walk on it, albeit painfully, the only thing I could think of was the fact that I have no health insurance, I can’t afford to have a broken anything.
In those moments, the only thing I should have been concerned with about a broken bone was how I was going to keep up with my year and a half old. Not $$. Yet, here I am a few hours later, willing the swelling and pain to be gone.
Don’t self reject. If there is something you want or think you are qualified for: Ask/apply. You can not get less than you already have. If you are unsure if you are good enough: Apply/ask. Worst case scenario: You waste a bit of time asking/applying, and nothing changes. Best case scenario: You get it. Even if you lose here, nothing really happens, cause you just stay where you are, but if you self reject? You will 100 % stay where you are. Take the chance, and see what happens.
my attraction to andrew garfield in under the silver lake does, unfortunately, prove that my standards are not as high as i thought they were. this man looks like he works at a gas station and smells like marlboros. he voluntarily goes to kid rock concerts and drinks bud light. he brings you back to his place to fuck and his mattress is on the floor with no sheets and very mysterious stains.
girls don’t like boys, girls like the pastoral escapist fantasy of living in a large house with many friends and several pets on a beautiful chunk of land with no financial, political, or medical anxieties. also, bread.
i just wanna apologize for being so absent. i want to draw and contribute and do things but !!!! i just can’t !!!!!!! i jsut sit there feeling empty and awful and i use up everything i can as a distraction bc i don’t wanna face anything with art or talk about it at all
If you would have told me three years ago that I would be selling my fucking dirty underwear to buy candle making supplies I would have just died on the spot
hello everyone i am once again reminding you that, based on what we see in the movie, joe’s fighting style is going to involve more speed + being light on his feet because he is wielding a (mostly) one handed weapon. nicky’s is gonna involve more strength and probably less quick movement because he is wielding a longsword and it is two handed therefore requiring more power behind the swings bc those things are Heavy. thank you
dps character /tank character romance <333 we love to see it
fandom wide mandate that everyone has to re-watch the source material in steady intervals to minimize intense fandomization of tropes and characterizations that happens when people go without new source material for too long
hi why is this, my jokey ‘fandom people should re-watch the source material from time to time’ -post blowing up with notes and why are people trying to argue with me. if u think u don’t have to watch the source material, guess what? don’t! I’m not your mom and I made a jokey post online. pls let me experience tranquillity and go make your own post based on your experiences
yes oh my gosh. like, okay, you don’t have to engage with the source material if you don’t want to but please, i am begging, if you are going to actually argue or make posts about a character or something at least be aware of what your discussing. keep canon and hc’s separate.
if people are talking about canon, don’t start arguing with them by pulling out points from a hc or fanfic and call them “facts” like no. that’s a characterization from a fanfic and that’s an opinion based on a headcanon. that is not actually in the source material please stop.
Sagittarius are the some weird combination of nerdy and fucking wild. Like y’all be having algorithms developed for the most mundane things, and also somehow go harder than everyone else in any challenge thrown your way?? It’s probably a centaur thing. Head of a human, body of a stallion
not to be neurodivergent and transgender on main but the sero-fucking-tonin of having ur name read out in the youtube chat??? like Holy Fuck oh my God andy said my name and my brain has melted there is a god
Being loved is NOT a reward for being beneficial or useful in any way. You don’t become less deserving of being loved if you aren’t productive for a day or if you have a bad day and can’t get out of bed.
I promise. Being loved has nothing to do with how you “help” the world or those around you.
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