#brownsugarbaby
I’ll be updating this list fairly frequently, so feel free to suggest anything.
Safety first.
- Drink Safe Tech- Date Rape Drug TESTS &EXAMPLES
- Basic Online Dating Precautions
- SB safety advice from Seeking Arrangement
- Advice from a SB
- More from Chemistry.com
- What is and isn’t a red flag
- What rapists look for
- Criminal records search
Be confident.
- SB mentality
- Ted talk-Body Language
Mind Your Manners.
- Etiquette By Emily Post
- The 48 Laws Of Power By Robert Green
- How to ‘ignore’ an asshole
- Dealing with problematic people
- Relationship skills to practice
- Wine guide
SB/SD websites
- Seeking Arrangement (SA)
- Sugar Daddy For Me (SD4M)
- Miss Travel (Not an “actual” SB/SD relationship)
- What’s Your Price?(WYP)
- Ashley Madison(AM)
Before and During your date
Allowance/Finances
- Asking for money on the first date
- Set a baseline based on YOUR NEEDS
- Get some goals.
- What to do with your allowance
- 14k in gifts tax free
- More ways to be paid
- How to ask for a higher allowance
- Prioritize your cash
The science of love and sex
- Ted talk- Desire in long term relationships
- Femdom advice
- How to get him, keep him, and make him beg for more$
- The Art Of Seduction By Robert Green
- Keep him hooked
- Anticipation
Misc.
12.20.2015
So Christmas is here. Right now I’m teetering between two older men that spoil me. My long distance hoe is making a dream of mine come true and getting my DNA analyzed so I’ll know exactly what I am and where my ancestors come from. I told the other I just wanted a personal check for the condo fund. I found a great investment property I want to buy and lease out. It’s all I can think about.
Gifts for SD
I got HD a Netflix gift card that I’m going to attatch to a gift box of delicious Sheila G brownie brittle. He just bough a new 65 inch smart tv. And a pack of goddam coffee cups. He actually saves and reuses Starbucks cups and taught me today that if you ask for “double cup” they’ll give you two lmao. But I guess that’s how the rich stay rich.
I got Packer a pocket pussy because he’s out of town yet completely devoted to my vagina only.
Xoxox,
Ursula
12.1.2015
My visit home went great. The gentleman I met on OKC that flew us (my daughter and I) out was just that, a gentleman. And much more handsome in person. He already had travel plans for thanksgiving so our trips over lapped to where we’d have just one night. He took me shopping where I picked up this over priced lingerie set that I’m obsessed with. Modeled live from his bachelor pad bathroom .
For dinner we went to a delicious Fogo De Chao knock off. He was pretty head over heels for me so hopefully this will be a reoccurring tryst. It was so good seeing all my family and friends. Even better that it didn’t cost me anything.
Xoxox,
Ursula
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Taking a very special trip. It’s a sugaring milestone. The thing that first thrusted me into sugaring in May is that I wanted to go home to visit my family. I ended up paying for that trip my self. It’s expensive paying for me and my daughter. 6 months later flying us both home for Thanksgiving on the dime of a man I’ve done nothing but text with. He’s from my home town found me on okcupid. My SD here in town is taking care of my rental car, hair, and a new luggage set ✈ ️United fucked mine up in May. Full circle.
Xoxox,
Ursula
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Haven’t posted in awhile I see the messages and yes I’m alive. The past couple of months I’ve been trying to get out of the bowl be “normal”. But they always say when you stop looking for it, it will find you. I got an allowance and a spa get away this weekend from a man I actually like a lot. I’ve also got a great splenda/sidehoe combo that enjoys tricking on the weekend. Things are going pretty well.
Xoxoxo,
Ursula
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Niggas want my time. Call me Clinton. I’m Billin these Niggas.
Nicki Minaj
Had a POT date yesterday with a man I met on AM. He offered me $200 to have coffee $400 if we could go back to my place. He was really nice and someone I fealt I could beat up if need be. He’s 59 about 120 pounds 5'5 Warning : NEVER UNDERESTIMATE ANYONE! After walking and chatting awhile we got in my car even though the Starbucks was 5 seconds from my house I drove around awhile and stopped at the carwash and took back roads to keep him from remembering the way. Once we got there and got to fooling around I asked for my money which of course he didn’t have because he was “rushing”. Not sure why these joes insist on trying me . So we had to get dressed and go to an ATM because I put no trust in these hoes. After he gave me the money his dick stayed in marshmallow form. Easy Peasy.
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Doesn’t believe in global warming…. Wtf. He’s exhausting. My favorite part of dating old rich white men is deprogramming their brains of the ignorance. We’ve already had the “why is there no white entertainment television” debate and the “#allLivesMatter” conversation. He can now spot micro aggression. And responds accordingly. I feel like I’m doing a service to future generations.
Taking money from regular guys is different. This man works three jobs and told me he could probably help me with my nails and a new dress Friday when he got paid. I guess I sounded a little sad today so he figured out how to get it to me today, Tuesday. While whales and big-money are important. It’s also important to collect men like this along the way. Men who care about you and want to see you happy. Whom maybe can’t give you the world but would if they had it.
Xoxox,
Ursula
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4.25.16
But that’s over. Sugaring is something that comes so natural to me now. It seeps through my pores. I’m ready to hoe again. I stepped away for a bit to focus on life and getting my daughter potty trained. Even attempted to date nice regular men….yawn.. HD my Splenda daddy is back in the picture and tricking like crazy our relationship is even more platonic than it was before he “broke my heart” :) Use that sympathy. RULE #1 : ALWAYS END THINGS UNDERSTANDINGLY, Because these hoes always come back. At this point of life i feel like i have checked off literally every materialistic desire I have ever had. Now i just want to continue to grow my savings and my daughters college fund. Maybe a new car.
I have a pot date this afternoon with a man looking for a Sugar Baby I convinced I had no idea what a SD was lololol Fingers Crossed.
Just Two months later and I have a new Lexus. Look at Sugar God.
6.16.16
Thank god for a generous Splenda daddy I wrecked my car last week and had no fucking clue what I was going to do. HD makes sure I never have to worry about a thing. A true God send. My car was a POS and now I drive a Lexus. What is life….
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4.25.16
But that’s over. Sugaring is something that comes so natural to me now. It seeps through my pores. I’m ready to hoe again. I stepped away for a bit to focus on life and getting my daughter potty trained. Even attempted to date nice regular men….yawn.. HD my Splenda daddy is back in the picture and tricking like crazy our relationship is even more platonic than it was before he “broke my heart” :) Use that sympathy. RULE #1 : ALWAYS END THINGS UNDERSTANDINGLY, Because these hoes always come back. At this point of life i feel like i have checked off literally every materialistic desire I have ever had. Now i just want to continue to grow my savings and my daughters college fund. Maybe a new car.
I have a pot date this afternoon with a man looking for a Sugar Baby I convinced I had no idea what a SD was lololol Fingers Crossed.
Xoxo, UrsulaI have kids your age.
OK, and I have parents yours… so what’s good?
