Just sharing the joy with my brown sugar sisters. As a single mom you dread getting a phone call that your kid is sick. You can’t even think about your sick kid you’re more concerned with how you’re gonna get out of work. Will there be repercussions? How will we live missing those hours, that money? It felt really good to just think about my kid sashaying out the office to spend the afternoon cuddling, changing diapers and online shopping with daddy’s card because “man that must have been rough on baby girl” you’re damn right it was :) . Knowing I could make the money I’d make in that whole day ten times over in a few hours tonight once she resting soundly in bed if I wanted to is the most comforting feeling I’ve EVER FUCKING FELT.
So Christmas is here. Right now I’m teetering between two older men that spoil me. My long distance hoe is making a dream of mine come true and getting my DNA analyzed so I’ll know exactly what I am and where my ancestors come from. I told the other I just wanted a personal check for the condo fund. I found a great investment property I want to buy and lease out. It’s all I can think about.
Gifts for SD
I got HD a Netflix gift card that I’m going to attatch to a gift box of delicious Sheila G brownie brittle. He just bough a new 65 inch smart tv. And a pack of goddam coffee cups. He actually saves and reuses Starbucks cups and taught me today that if you ask for “double cup” they’ll give you two lmao. But I guess that’s how the rich stay rich.
I got Packer a pocket pussy because he’s out of town yet completely devoted to my vagina only.
My visit home went great. The gentleman I met on OKC that flew us (my daughter and I) out was just that, a gentleman. And much more handsome in person. He already had travel plans for thanksgiving so our trips over lapped to where we’d have just one night. He took me shopping where I picked up this over priced lingerie set that I’m obsessed with. Modeled live from his bachelor pad bathroom . For dinner we went to a delicious Fogo De Chao knock off. He was pretty head over heels for me so hopefully this will be a reoccurring tryst. It was so good seeing all my family and friends. Even better that it didn’t cost me anything.
Taking a very special trip. It’s a sugaring milestone. The thing that first thrusted me into sugaring in May is that I wanted to go home to visit my family. I ended up paying for that trip my self. It’s expensive paying for me and my daughter. 6 months later flying us both home for Thanksgiving on the dime of a man I’ve done nothing but text with. He’s from my home town found me on okcupid. My SD here in town is taking care of my rental car, hair, and a new luggage set ✈ ️United fucked mine up in May. Full circle.
Haven’t posted in awhile I see the messages and yes I’m alive. The past couple of months I’ve been trying to get out of the bowl be “normal”. But they always say when you stop looking for it, it will find you. I got an allowance and a spa get away this weekend from a man I actually like a lot. I’ve also got a great splenda/sidehoe combo that enjoys tricking on the weekend. Things are going pretty well.
Had a POT date yesterday with a man I met on AM. He offered me $200 to have coffee $400 if we could go back to my place. He was really nice and someone I fealt I could beat up if need be. He’s 59 about 120 pounds 5'5 Warning : NEVER UNDERESTIMATE ANYONE! After walking and chatting awhile we got in my car even though the Starbucks was 5 seconds from my house I drove around awhile and stopped at the carwash and took back roads to keep him from remembering the way. Once we got there and got to fooling around I asked for my money which of course he didn’t have because he was “rushing”. Not sure why these joes insist on trying me . So we had to get dressed and go to an ATM because I put no trust in these hoes. After he gave me the money his dick stayed in marshmallow form. Easy Peasy.
Doesn’t believe in global warming…. Wtf. He’s exhausting. My favorite part of dating old rich white men is deprogramming their brains of the ignorance. We’ve already had the “why is there no white entertainment television” debate and the “#allLivesMatter” conversation. He can now spot micro aggression. And responds accordingly. I feel like I’m doing a service to future generations.
Taking money from regular guys is different. This man works three jobs and told me he could probably help me with my nails and a new dress Friday when he got paid. I guess I sounded a little sad today so he figured out how to get it to me today, Tuesday. While whales and big-money are important. It’s also important to collect men like this along the way. Men who care about you and want to see you happy. Whom maybe can’t give you the world but would if they had it.
Start investing with Acorns like, today! Download it from the app store like, now! It invest your spare change so when you buy a pair of Christian Louboutin So Kate Pumps (On my list for Daddy) and it comes up to $726.68. It will invest the .32 into an diversified investment portfolio. With actual good investment returns! I forgot i downloaded it and accidentally saved up $200 dollars that could have ended up under my couch cushions. Every Starbucks swipe, every pedicure. Now i can take my girls for happy hour. Daddy was so proud of me for being a “go getter”. He linked his expense account to it “for my cute little coin collection”.
Do yourself a favor. Get it. And if you use the code 6XH6UP They will give you $5 to help start.
But that’s over. Sugaring is something that comes so natural to me now. It seeps through my pores. I’m ready to hoe again. I stepped away for a bit to focus on life and getting my daughter potty trained. Even attempted to date nice regular men….yawn.. HD my Splenda daddy is back in the picture and tricking like crazy our relationship is even more platonic than it was before he “broke my heart” :) Use that sympathy. RULE #1 : ALWAYS END THINGS UNDERSTANDINGLY, Because these hoes always come back. At this point of life i feel like i have checked off literally every materialistic desire I have ever had. Now i just want to continue to grow my savings and my daughters college fund. Maybe a new car.
I have a pot date this afternoon with a man looking for a Sugar Baby I convinced I had no idea what a SD was lololol Fingers Crossed.
My little girl loves the beach but I’ve been so busy this summer we haven’t had a few days to escape. Daddy couldn’t have that so he booked a beach front room for the two of us and told me to take a couple days off work because I don’t need the money and he’s right. It was perfect, schools back in session so we had the whole deserted resort at our beck and call not to mention a private beach. She had a great time and it was just the recharge I needed.
The worst is when you can kinda feel your sugar daddy falling in love. Last time I checked I don’t have an account on eharmony. I’m the girl you occasionally spoil I’m not your girl. Run that check tho
my most recent post about dating well is all over the place, but what I’m trying to say is that I have no issue with young black women advising others to date well off men ( I advocate for it) but the bashing of other women as well as the anti blackness they spew in regards to BM needs to stop.
I go in on BM all the time but there’s a line between calling them out and projecting self hate/anti blackness. The tweet I was referring on Twitter was
Most of these women giving advice literally have nothing to show for it, and most of the time the advice is trash. Don’t let these women make you feel like you can’t date a regular dude and that can’t be “leveling up”. If he does right by you what does it matter? I think standards like the guy having his own shit (car, crib etc) and obviously having job is basic. But expecting every nigga to fly you out, take you shopping and so forth is very unrealistic for most women. But I’m gonna save rest of my thoughts on this for podcast Chile
I can go live about this topic on twitter, if I get atleast 10-20 followers.
One thing I have come to learn over the years is that there really aren’t any “rules” or “guidelines to follow when it comes to dating. Especially if you want to date someone with means so you can potentially become a “spoiled gf”.
