#careful
“We’ve all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That’s who we really are.” - J.K. Rowling
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Ephesians 5:15-16 (NIV) -
Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.
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I fell the need to share my story so we can keep our community safe:
A couple of months ago I installed a relationship app for kinksters. The idea is quite good, since one can find Doms (Masters, Daddies etc), Subs, Switches, Kinksters etc. It’s a place where you should feel comfortable to, at least, express your kinky, right? Wrong!
By the end of June I met this guy, allegedly from Barcelona, and we talked a lot. Unlikely some guys there, this one didn’t start giving orders or demanding nudes or any bullshit just because he was a Top. (As a sidenote, this was a behaviour I always observe and value when looking for a Dom… For me, the Dominance only begins after the submission, never before…)
After a whole month of talking everyday and multiple times a day about a range of different subjects (from politics to tourism, from economy to the kind of sex toys we enjoyed), with needs and wants in a relationship verbalized by us both, I felt comfortable enough to tell him my name and to send him some pictures… some innocent, with my face on it. And some very naughty… like those I used to share on my extinct blog, never showing my face or any sign that could identify me. And than he asked for my email.
In his email (sent by a different name and with his IP muffled), he told me he had all my porn material, with my personal and professional information (That I assume he obtained through a search by my email, name or telephone number) and that I should not open up about my kinky so easily. And now he asked for more than €8,000.00 or he would send this file to each and every contact he obtained. He gave me 2 weeks
Now… I’m sure many would freak out. Yes, I felt betrayed… And that led to anger… how can someone dare to take advantage of the necessary trust that BDSM relationships demand to make threats and extortion?But his threat will backfire. I’m not ashamed of being a submissive, of enjoying sex… the base of this is Safe, Sane and Consensual. I’m not doing anything wrong, I’m not cheating or disrespecting anyone…
So instead of paying him, I went to the police. And I believe that eventually he (or the organised crime that this might be) will get caught.Meanwhile this is a testimony, for all the kinky people out there to reflect and adopt the due actions to avoid becoming a scam victim.
Be careful out there, people. And above all, be smart.
Devotional Training: Be Careful.
Matt‘s seductive dance on the first night during Uprising
Followed but this little tap dance
After going trick-or-treating last night with friends and hearing quite a few warnings about being careful with what candy we eat or to be careful due to our costumes, it really struck me how dangerous a fun tradition has become.
Love,
Your Old Fashioned Girl ♥
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pedetentous a. proceeding gradually or cautiously
“I know you’ve not tried this before, Lolly. But have no fear, Darling; I shall be pedetentous.”
Hard on you
My shoulders still shake from the raw emotions
Hunger appears irrelevant to my thoughts
Exhaustion masks my true identity
My dreams are haunted with foggy, broken memories of you.
Reaching for a clearer image to cherish
Searching for a compromise knowing I’ll let myself down.
Monster to this sickness
With the only solution in an orange cylinder.
Subjects taunting him to get to me with the pain pinching and poking my willpower.
Feb. 2018 14-19th
