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thegyusorcerer:

People be like “everyone’s demiromantic” and then blind dates, dating apps, set ups with random people and asking out someone you just met; are all a thing. The point is that the romantic attraction, romantic interest, in that person is there since the beginning. If not you wouldn’t have agreed to all of those romantic gestures and events.

Someone that’s demiromantic does not get that initial attraction, romantic interest in a person. It usually takes weeks, months if not years! for a demiromantic person to feel romantic attraction towards someone and they only do so BECAUSE they’ve formed a close, emotional bond with the person beforehand. The “oh, shit. what’s this feeling?” moment, that comes after a long time of knowing one person.

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