I consider my chastity cage and collar both to symbolize my Goddess’s ownership over me. They are symbols of my slave status and commitment and faithful devotion to her and her alone.
The slave’s job is to obey and please the pussy that owns and controls him. Chastity and denial keep him always eager and willing to do this. Orgasms are not for the slave. They all belong to the owner.
This is true. I gave my cock to my Goddess and allowed her to lock it up so she would have complete control over me and my pleasure as a symbol of my devotion and submission to her authority. My reward from her is denial which keeps me horny and desperate which keeps me always eager to pleasure her. I’ve learned to glean my pleasure from her pleasure and orgasms.
I love being dominated and used like this. When she rides my face, I am nothing more than a toy for her pleasure. It shows who’s in charge and who’s pleasure matters.
Every time. No exceptions. My Goddess allowing an emission is rare. An orgasm, even more rare, but if cum comes out of her cock, I know I am required to swallow every drop.
I hear people ask what’s in it for a submissive or slave? The benefits for the Domme are apparent. Control and power. You get someone who’s dedicated and committed to your pleasure and happiness. But what’s in it for the submissive? How does being controlled, used, abused, and denied benefit him? Allow me to give you my response.
I can only speak from my own personal experience, but I’d be willing to bet that it mirrors many other submissive’s experiences. I’m a natural submissive and I’ve known it since childhood. When I first entered the workforce out of high school I landed a job with zero structure and accountability. It was maddening for me. It is as chaos, and I didn’t do well there. I learned that I needed structure. I needed rules and polices to give me guidance, and I needed firm management to keep me on task. I eventually found a job that offered this, and I thrived. Structure and guidance is very important to me.
Left to my own devices free will, I make poor decisions and get myself in trouble. This is why I need a strong, firm woman in my life who can take control and implement rules to give me the structure and guidance I need. When my wife and I reconnected in 2019, I was a drug addict, active alcoholic, and pornography addict. As soon as I recognized she could be the one, I offered to submit to her. I saw in her, that she could be the one to help lead me into being a better man and Christian. We married in October of 2020, and under her leadership and authority, I’m in recovery with drugs and alcohol and no longer watch or view pornography, and even rarely check out other women.
I believe true submissives and slaves recognize they do better with structure, guidance, and discipline. We know that if we want to be the best men we can be, we need a dominant, firm, strong willed, and intelligent woman to lead and guide us, and that’s what’s in it for a submissive or slave. Being a better man.
Yes! I’m addicted to my Goddess’s scent. I love when she allows me to crawl between her legs and inhale it! I would love to be told to breathe in her scent for 40 minutes.
My Goddess loves the power my chastity gives her. She enjoys being in complete control of my manhood. It gives her peace too, knowing I’m not masturbating behind her back and I’m totally incapable of being unfaithful. It’s her cock, and she prefers to keep it denied and locked up.
This is so true! Chastity and denial makes a man an enthusiastic pussy licker! I stay focused on my Goddess’s pussy. I am desperate just for the scent. When she finally allows me between her legs, I feast on her pussy like a madman.
There is a secret to long lasting cunnilingus. When you focus all your energy into flicking your tongue over the clit, your tongue will tire. If you spend time sucking on the clit, in combination with rubbing your face up and down the vulva, you can last.
So true. I’ve been locked up so long now, that when I’m free, it feels unnatural. I need and depend on chastity. I don’t want to be free anymore. I know I can’t be trusted to be alone with my Goddess’s cock.
Yes! A man’s sexual pleasure is a gift given by a woman. A man has no right to give himself pleasure. This was my mistake before I met my Goddess. While I should have been waiting for her to take control, instead I was masturbating incessantly and fucking other women. As penance for these sins, I am denied sexual pleasure and kept in strict chastity.
The keyholder is always right, the time might never be…
Absolutely! My Goddess has forbidden me from ever asking for a release and stimulation, and I would never dare. I know that only she can make that decision. I know that she knows what’s best for us and for me. If she decides to never allow me out, then I will happily comply because I trust her decisions.
I’m always caged. I cannot be trusted to be alone with her cock. I’m always collared. The world must know I am her slave. She must always know where I am. I am tracked via GPS on an app on my phone which I am unable to turn off, and I must have her permission to leave the house. This is the way for a beta male slave.
Yes! That’s what cunnilingus, or face sitting/riding is in a D/s relationship. A showcase of the woman’s power, control, authority, dominance, and superiority.
