If you go to a concert and you try and push your way to the front, you don’t deserve to be there! Accept the fact that you didn’t get VIP/wait long enough to get a better spot. Wherever you are in line is where you deserve to stay in the venue! My partner had multiple anxiety attacks, we watched a girl throw up and no one would let her through so she could get out. I had to leave second row and miss out watching the band I paid for because of this!
BE CONSIDERATE AT CONCERTS!

Valuing your existence

I came across a youtube video a couple of days back of a young girls talking about valuing your existence. What she said was so empowering…

1. Do not always apolozise for who you are, how you look , how you dressed up eg. Women have a habit of always apolozising like ‘o sorry, i didnot dress well actually i did not know you were coming.’ Its okay how you dressed up , what you wore. That defines you and instead of saying sorry. U can add 'I didnot know you were coming, thanks for understanding.’

2. You didnot reply to your friend’s message due to any of the circumstances. Stop saying sorry and compensating like, ’ I’m so sorry. Actually i was busy . I didnot see your text.’ instead you can add ’ Hey, I was busy somewhere and saw your message now. Thanks for understanding, wanna chat.’

We tend to say so much of sorry because women are raised this way to be always humble and not to raise voice. Then another reason comes when we want praise from others so that others should like us and this only happens when we lack self love and are insecure about ourselves.

Master the skills of when to say sorry and when not to.