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Valuing your existence

I came across a youtube video a couple of days back of a young girls talking about valuing your existence. What she said was so empowering…

1. Do not always apolozise for who you are, how you look , how you dressed up eg. Women have a habit of always apolozising like ‘o sorry, i didnot dress well actually i did not know you were coming.’ Its okay how you dressed up , what you wore. That defines you and instead of saying sorry. U can add 'I didnot know you were coming, thanks for understanding.’

2. You didnot reply to your friend’s message due to any of the circumstances. Stop saying sorry and compensating like, ’ I’m so sorry. Actually i was busy . I didnot see your text.’ instead you can add ’ Hey, I was busy somewhere and saw your message now. Thanks for understanding, wanna chat.’

We tend to say so much of sorry because women are raised this way to be always humble and not to raise voice. Then another reason comes when we want praise from others so that others should like us and this only happens when we lack self love and are insecure about ourselves.

Master the skills of when to say sorry and when not to.