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In this post I’ll be summarising the results of a survey I ran for eight days, from 15th to 23rd April 2016.

The survey sought to find out how Mx is pronounced, splitting results by group. It asked people how they pronounced Mx, and it also asked whether the participant’s title was Mx, about gender identity, about location (UK and outside UK), where the participant identified on the trans/cis spectrum (if anywhere), and where the participant identified on the nonbinary/binary spectrum (if anywhere).

It was promoted mainly through Twitter, Tumblr, and Reddit - and some participants told me that they would share with interested friends too. After removing 4 abusive responses there were 505 usable responses.

You can see the full results here on Google Sheets.

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Here are two more visual summaries of the responses:

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I recently blogged a link to someone else’s informal results analysis of their survey into neopronouns, and they rightly said that sometimes you have to prove things that everyone already knows. This survey is no exception.

We learned that:

  • Cis and binary people are far less likely to know how to pronounce Mx, topped only by people whose title is not Mx.
  • Trans and nonbinary people are more confident about its pronunciation, and people whose title is Mx are most confident.
  • My experience that UK folks like the schwa and non-UK folks prefer Mix was confirmed, but I was interested to find that people in the UK are far more confident of its pronunciation generally.

And finally, out of curiosity I put together a table to compare various groups.

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[Note: “Are Mx” includes people whose title is sometimes or always Mx.]

These results appear to support the hypothesis that nonbinary and trans people are much more likely to use the title Mx for themselves, which is perhaps not surprising.

It is also worth noting that 20% of nonbinary people don’t use Mx as their title, and that number is likely to be higher outside of this survey - there will have been bias due to Mx being mentioned in promotion of the survey, resulting in a disproportionate number of people taking part who use Mx as their title.

There are other curious snippets to be gleaned from this table - such as:

  • Nonbinary participants were much more likely to feel that the cis/trans spectrum didn’t fit them. (3% of binary respondents identified as neither cis nor trans, whereas 29% of nonbinary respondents did.)
  • People whose title is Mx are apparently more likely to identify with the cis/trans spectrum. (18% of participants whose title was not Mx didn’t feel the cis/trans spectrum fit them, whereas only 16% of participants who were Mx didn’t fit that spectrum.)
  • The 9 binary people who use Mx do so “sometimes”, but of the 10 cis people who use Mx, 3 do so “always”. These numbers are not high enough to be representative, but I found them interesting anyway.

And finally, I was reassured that there were several responses in the feedback box telling me that they had never heard of Mx. It told me that the survey had made it out of the usual small circle of nonbinary and trans followers, which I think makes the data more useful.

Thank you everyone for your support, promotion and participation! These results are more useful and more detailed than the last set, and I am grateful for everyone’s efforts. I hope this summary has been helpful and/or interesting.

practicalandrogyny: The first recorded use of the gender-inclusive title Mx in print, from The Singlpracticalandrogyny: The first recorded use of the gender-inclusive title Mx in print, from The Singlpracticalandrogyny: The first recorded use of the gender-inclusive title Mx in print, from The Singl

practicalandrogyny:

Thefirst recorded use of the gender-inclusive title Mx in print, from The Single Parent magazine, volume 20, April 1977.

The letters page ‘In The Chapters’ by Ann Parks, page 21, gives some context - it appears that a previous issue had asked a question to which Mx was one of the suggested answers:

There has been some response to the question of what to call men and women (other than Mr. and Mrs./Ms.).  Ex–husbands are WASbands, of course.  Pat Kite (Single-Again Scrapbook, April SINGLE PARENT) felt that both sexes should be designated MX.  But Dalynn Hoeflin (Solano County, CA 92) feels that males should be

But the actual first use in print is on Page 16 in an article called ‘Single-Again Scrapbook’ by Pat Kite. This appears to be a short story, possibly part of a serial, involving a flirtatious encounter at a party:

“THE WORST PROBLEM facing the single woman today is having to decide whether she is Miss., Mrs., or Ms.,” said the Blue-Eyed Man as he sat sipping his rosé.

  “Ooohh, really?” I gasped, swallowing my frito whole.

  “I’m glad you agree,” nodded the Man, taking the matches from my hand to light my cigarette. “Now, where I work we make it a point to call every female ‘Ms.’  It took me quite a while, but I made it.  Now everybody’s happy.”

  “Where do you work?” I asked.

  “The welfare bureau.”

  “Do you mean if you get a widow who was married forty-eight years in your office, and you address her as Ms., she likesit?”

  “Why not?” said the Man.

  “Frankly the term Mizzzz reminds me of the servant section of a pre Civil War Southern plantation,” I commented, drawing out the words through clenched teeth.

  “Oh, that was in the past” smiled the happy Man. “Now Ms. for everyone connotes individuality.  What tile do you go by?”

  “Mrs.” I replied with a shrug.

  “Why Mrs.?”

  “Because I have four children and I like them to look legitimate, that’s why. Anyhow, if Mrs. and Miss are to be shortened to Ms., then I think Mister and Master should be changed to Muster … abbreviated Mu. On second thought, maybe both sexes should be called Mx.  That would solve the gender problem entirely.”

  “Are you a women’s libber or something?” said the horrified Man.  "Then how come you didn’t get mad when I lit your cigarette?“

  “Because it was a gesture of courtesy,” I answered, “and I don’t think good manners ever go out of style.  Besides, I love having doors opened for me, and my heavy packages carried.”

  “Oh, then you’re not a libber!” said the Man with a sigh of relief.

  “It all depends on how you look at it,” I replied.  "For instance, if you’ll give me my matches back, I’ll be able to light your cigarettes.  We could take turns.“

  "You wouldn’t.  .  .  .!”

  “Why not?” I said with a tiny smirk.

  “You know, the biggest problem women have today is whether to be Miss, Mrs., or Ms.,” said the Man, as he took the matches from his pocket and lit my Bel-air.

  “Not quite, kind Sir,” I commented, trying to change the topic to the artistic merits of Alice Cooper.

 "Yes really, Ma'am,“ laughed the Man as he got up to dance.

 And we mixed our whimsey with our wine until well past midnight.”

There are also a number of examples of people discussing Mx on Usenet newsgroups starting from 1982, with the first person mentioning that they have used the title for themself appearing in 1998.

Mx is currently being considered for inclusion in the next edition of the Oxford English Dictionary.

(Thanks to Alex from Nonbinary Inclusion Project and several Twitter users, including Altivo, who helped a great deal in tracking down this article.)


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