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Bru/no x Anto/nio x Mir/abel (En/can/to) moodboard theme: forbidden love, healthy relationship, magical powers, helping Each other through trauma

Requested by: @rdg-anon


afronerdism:

afronerdism:

afronerdism:

I hate man caves. I absolutely hate them.

It’s just the sentiment behind them that I find so reprehensible. It’s this idea that men need a retreat away from the responsibilities of family life whereas women do not. I very seldom see people who have man caves also have a space for the woman and if they do it’s always significantly smaller, less equipped, and seldom used.

And the thing is men will often argue this point by saying “well she has the rest of the house” because they think that forcing their wives/girlfriends to do all of the administrative work around the house constitutes personal space. So they force their partners to become household managers wherein a daily flow is created that they are not involved enough to feel a part of, this creates a sense of disconnect from family life, and makes men feel as if they’re being bossed around in their wife’s home , which creates a need to “get away.” Which basically results in him hiding while his wife runs the household. Men think this is fair because they think that it’s natural for women to be household managers rather than realize she’s just picking up his slack.

Toxic relationship sex but in a healthy relationship.

viomma:Um no. That’s actually really unhealthy in a relationship. Being scared of losing someone can

viomma:

Um no. That’s actually really unhealthy in a relationship. Being scared of losing someone can lead to jealousy and possessiveness.

What@viomma says.  Because all of the obsessive love romantic nonsense aside, we need to love and be loved without that kind of fear.  It’s okay to be a mindful, to treasure your lover, but don’t dread the possibility that the relationship will cease - instead enjoy it while it’s happening and remember it fondly if it ends.  As Tennyson observed in Memoriam, (which was actually about a deceased friend, not a lover who split,) 

‘Tis better to have loved and lost

Than never to have loved at all.


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