#i dont understand people

Why do people make out that being rejected for a date is a bad thing? I would much rather be full on rejected than led on and made to think that they like me when they don’t. 

I’m sorry, but I need to let this out. I just really don’t understand how some people think you’re lying when you tell them about how traumatized you are about your past just because you seem “okay”.Can’t some of you understand that people like me need to pretend to be okay and build walls up so that we won’t get judged by those like you?