cis women are like id rather die than do the slightest thing to include transmascs and nonbinary people in my activism
you’ll tell a cis woman that there are non women who need menstrual products or uterovaginal care and they act like you personally invented misogyny
Trans man: Hey, I need help here. If I leave my gender as F I can’t get testosterone, and if I change it to M I can’t get a gynecology appointment or abortion.
Cis women: How dare you! Traitor! Misogynist! This is why I can’t break the glass ceiling! Invader! (points at trans woman)
Trans woman, looking up from trying to schedule a prostate exam: Huh?
tampons/pads marketed to young kids who just started getting their periods
should be a thing
wrappers with dinosaurs and planets and glitter and cats and sea creatures
make kids feel comfortable about something natural that happens to their bodies.
and for goodness sake
don’t sexualize it
No. Actually. Why do you need this? You don’t. Getting your period means you are starting to mature, which means you need to drive them AWAY from needless things like that. Also, you all bitch enough as it is about paying for these things, imagine how much more money companies will charge for those things? Or, maybe EDUCATE them, so they will already feel comfortable about it. Jesus fucking christ.
Tell that to ten-year-old me, who still hadn’t had the period talk yet in school. I was crying and freaking out because I thought I was dying. Then my mother comes up to me and says with a smile “You’re becoming a woman!” I didn’t want to grow up yet. I was ten. Fucking ten and was told to start to grow up. My mom wanted me to get away from silly little kids things because I’m fucking bleeding out my goddamn vagina.
Also some people are children at heart and like to be silly and having a dinosaur-patterned maxi-pad would be pretty fuckin’ hilarious and I’m sure there’d be a huge market for that.
Not all people with vaginas are stoic and serious and want the same frilly, swirly boring-ass pads and tampons.
Plus if you’ve been having a miserable day and say you bought the character variety pack of pads. Sitting in the bathroom stall wanting to stab everyone and you open up some baby dinosaur pads. You’ve got dinosaurs in your underwear. No ones gonna ruin your day now.
U by Kotex has these, Tween pads. Sparkly box, cute designs on the pad and wrapper. There are even “period facts and myths” in each box, and the inner wrapper has instructions for how to use a pad properly. What’s more is they are smaller than standard pads. (I use these pads because I’m a petite person). Best part? Everywhere I buy them, one box of pads is less than $5.
^^^^^^^ THESE ARE THE BEST BTW. VERY SOFT AND FUN AND COLORFUL. DID YOU KNOW THAT EVEN SEEING PRETTY COLORS CAN LIFT YOUR MOOD? I DIDN’T. NOW I DO.
BUT REALLY THESE ARE THE BEST OK
BECAUSE WHEN MY TEN-YEAR-OLD SISTER GOT HER PERIOD SHE WAS SUPER SCARED BUT I GAVE HER MY PACK AND SHE’S LIKE THIS LOOKS KINDA COOL AND NOW SHE THINKS SHE’S SO AWESOME AND COOL BECAUSE SHE WEARS COLORFUL PADS WITH SHOOTING STARS AND HEARTS ON THEM AND SHE’S SO CONFIDENT IT’S SO AWESOME
SO YOU TRY TELLING ME THAT SEEING A TEN YEAR OLD GIRLDEPRESSED AND ASHAMED OF A NATURAL BODY FUNCTION IS PREFERABLE TO SEEING HER SHOWING OFF HER UFO AND SHOOTING STAR-PATTERNED PADS TO HER BFFS
YOU WOULDN’T GIVE A FOUR-YEAR-OLD BOY A BORING BEIGE BAND-AID NO YOU’D GO OUT AND BUY THE HECK OUTTA THOSE SPONGEBOB AND TOY STORY SHITS BECAUSE IT MAKES THEM HAPPY DON’T MAKE YOUR GIRLS GROW OUT OF THINGS THAT MAKE THEM HAPPY BEFORE THEY’VE EVEN LEFT ELEMENTARY SCHOOL
Ok but U by Kotex has got all of our backs. This brand dose great and empowering things for all women and even girls :)
Why are people with vaginas expected to be grown ass adults at 10 but people with dicks aren’t expected to act like adults until their 20’s??
AlsoParty in My Pants makes dinosaur pads! You don’t have to be a kid to enjoy them. :) They also frequently have designs with spaceships and cartoon cats/animals and other cute stuff!
If companies can make brightly colored and glow-in-the-dark condoms for grown-ass people with penises, then companies can sure as hell make colorful and fun-themed menstruation products for young people (and all people, young or not) with periods.
The first girl in my class to get her period was 10. It was the beginning of the school year so some of us were still only 9. None of us had been given “the talk” so all we knew is that one of us was suddenly bleeding for no reason in a scary place.
If we all could have been told “it’s OK, you still get to be kids; here are some dinosaurs” that would have gone down a lot better than the “Georgie’s ready to make babies now and the rest of you will be ready for motherhood very soon”
Why are people with vaginas expected to be grown ass adults at 10 but people with dicks aren’t expected to act like adults until their 20’s??
Because there are far more people who would like to have sex with 16-, 15-, and 12-year old girls than would like to have sex with boys. See also “girls mature faster than boys.” Also, many of the adults grew up with “boys will be boys,” and the men want the endorsement of all the %$@& they did and too many of the women adopt the “I had to put up with it, so you have to too” strategy with younger girls.
“The recall is limited to specific lots of U by Kotex® Sleek® Tampons, Regular Absorbency, that were manufactured between October 7, 2016 and October 16, 2018 and distributed between October 17, 2016 and October 23, 2018. Consumers can identify this product by looking for specific lot numbers found on the bottom of the package. A full list of recalled lot numbers is available on the U by Kotex® website. Retailers have been alerted to remove the recalled lot numbers from shelves and post a notification in their stores. “
I’ve been using it for six months and things are both good and bad about it.
Good;
Wear all of the time. To bed, as a just in case before my period officially starts, for all activities (swimming and exercise).
My period has shortened from seven days to five.
Nothing to throw out.
Bad;
I do leak on my first two days (the heaviest). Have started emptying it more frequently because of it.
It needs to be boiled for four to five minutes before the first use (just wash with soapy water when emptying and reinsert during the period). This meant I had to buy a separate pot to boil it.
It is made from silicone which cannot be recycled at the end. My fault, should have gone for the rubber one (even if it was in a yucky brown colour).
Side notes;
At first it felt like I was being penetrated when I inserted. Now, it doesn’t feel like that and in fact, my vagina feels tighter. Perhaps the cup has been helping to train my muscles.
TMI I know, but I am really happy with it. If you’re in Australia look up menstrual cups Australia and find the website. They have different options available and all for the same price (at least they were when I purchased) and free national shipping if your order is over fifty dollars. Have a look there first before checking other places. Or if inserting isn’t for you, period panties or reusable pads are out there. Which I am looking into the panties so I can wear them with the cup on my heavy days and not fear the leak.
Incredibly fucking crucial information for Americans where period tracking digitally is concerned: DELETE YOUR DATA, DELETE YOUR ACCOUNT AND DELETE YOUR APPS
Like yes, very important, but also…did people seriously not already know and realize this? I don’t mean this in a “you have no right to get angry” kind of why I’m just confused as to why people are acting shocked now. Was this not obvious before?
