onelittlekingdom:

Red Flags 101

D-types who make you feel like you are a pain in the ass for asking for their time and attention.

Part of having a healthy D/s relationship is having very open and honest communication between yourself and your partner. If your partner discourages you from communicating your wants and needs, and makes you feel badly for wanting them attended to, they are discouraging open and honest communication from you, and making your relationship more dysfunctional. You are not a pain in the ass for wanting your dom(me)s time and attention. You placed them in charge so you could get it.

JD