#rp psa
Your headcanon means that it’s Your headcanon.
Headcanon.
Not Canon.
While you may have Your interpretations of a character, these may not be the same for others, and it does not mean that You get to force Your headcanons onto other role players or fiction writers. Everyone is entitled to their own headcanons, even if they are – in your opinion – so far out of character as it gets, to you.
Don’t police people for their headcanons.
Respect role players’ boundaries. If they state that they don’t have the time for plotting right now, respect that and come back later, or leave the door open for them to come to you when they have the time. If they state that they are overwhelmed at the moment, step back and let them breathe.Role playing is a hobby, not a job.
Normalize deleting asks role players no longer feel.
Normalize authors needing to clear their space.
Normalize a role player’s fluctuating interest in topics.
If you send me an ask, and I don’t respond to it/delete it, please don’t take it personal. Sometimes I reblog ask memes, feeling them right in that very moment, and I lose track of time and lose interest. It’s not me saying that I’m losing interest in you, but the topicI wanted in thatexact moment. Some asks I might hoard for months, others might get deleted. And this needs to be normalized.
Fun addition for Sunday; stop calling sexual Sunday for “Sinday”. Sex is not a sin. Stop enabling the usage of that description.
Sex is valid. Sex is okay. Sex is natural.
Too many authors find shame in writing erotica. Too many people find shame in having sexual interest. Too many people find shame in having sexual relations.
Listen.
Stop using “Sinday” instead of calling it sexual Sunday.
Ground rule; always ask another author for their permission and input before you start twisting and turning their original canon. What you might see as canon foryour character might not be canon for the other character. Talk it out with the person before jumping in and taking over their canon with yours.
