#second wave feminism
Erica Jong: Fear of Flying (1973)
The 1960′s spurred a large feminist movement, also known as “second-wave feminism”. This of course refers to the first large feminist movement for women’s suffrage in the 1920′s, making the 1960′s movement the second “wave” of feminism. Prior to the movement, women were expected to only aspire to and live as a mother and wife. There was an extremely small amount of women in the workforce as a result of this, and women who had other ambitions than the ones enforced suffered widely. These women struck back, and like all aspects of life, clothing was affected. Wishing to shed the conservative idea of fashion previously held, women made a big change in their everyday style. The mini-skirt became a huge symbol of women’s freedom after its creation in 1965. Women were allowed to express their defiance, sexuality, and carefree attitude through these shorter hemlines. To this day the miniskirt remains symbolic not only of the feminist movement, but of the 60′s as a whole.
March for Women’s Liberation
Passionate Supporters of the Miniskirt
Miniskirt Takeover
Save the Mini
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Not to be a feminist on main, but reading the 1997 edition of The Feminine Mystique with all three of Betty Friedan’s forewords is really interesting. Reading from most recent foreword back to the original text in the beginning of the book is like a walk backwards through the decline of feminism. As time went on, Friedan became less and less radical and forceful in her thought.
This culminates in her statements in the 1997 foreword that feminism is now more of a united front between men and women and that issues like abortion are almost “obsolete” (paraphrasing because it’s early in the morning and I don’t want to dig for the quotes). She walks her determined radicalism back into a tame moderate liberalism.
This process, especially the statement about abortion, is particularly interesting because it represents a dream unfulfilled. Friedan, and other feminists, slowed down, perhaps becoming complacent, as the century ended, and now we live in an era of uncertain bodily autonomy, the rise of “men’s rights” (violently misogynist) movements, and the loss of the social awareness so hard-won just 30-50 years ago.
As I begin The Feminine Mystique, I’m just finishing Men Who Hate Women: From Incels to Pick-Up Artistis by Laura Bates (a 2020 book dealing with the online MGTOW, MRA, and incel movements). Unbeknownst to me when I started Men Who Hate Women at the beginning of the year, I think I’ve created a particularly enlightening reading order. It’s interesting to see Friedan, in her 1997 foreword, confidently announce the end of the sort of misogyny Bates investigates in her 2020 book.
All this is not to discredit the work that Friedan has done. She and her work were, and continue to be, revolutionary in their impact and genius in their craft. I’m still less than a quarter of the way through the original text of The Feminine Mystique and already I’ve been moved almost to tears thinking of my grandmother, who I have the incredible fortune to know very well. The Western world is changed (and improved) perhaps permanently by Friedan’s work, but it’s important to consider her walking back of feminist ideals near the end of her life when reading her work.
I plan on doing some more research into Friedan. This is the first work of hers I’ve read, and I’m only broadly and tangentially aware of her larger set of work and ideas, so if this turns out to be a gross misreading of the 1997 and 1973 forewords, I’ll come back to this and add on.
Okay, Gen Z, younger millennials, please tell me, are you aware of what the title Ms. means? And how to pronounce it?
Because I just listened to several young 20-somethings pronounce it Miss and talk about how it means you’re not married. And…I’m feeling weird about it, considering that’s the title I use.
(It means my marital status is none of your business. I use it because I’m married but I kept my maiden name so I’m not Mrs. anyone.)
These comments really are fascinating and it seems especially people whose first language isn’t English aren’t sure about this, which is fair. But as I suspected some young folks aren’t clear either?
It seems like Ms. has been conflated with Miss and Miss has fallen out of favor, which is fair, but the meanings have been confused.
So here:
Ms.has some antique origins similar to Mrs. and Miss (all short for Mistress) but was revived in the 20th century (mostly in the 60s and 70s) by feminists as an all-purpose female title.
The problem with Miss and Mrs. is that they are tied specifically to marital status. (Miss is SPECIFICALLY an unmarried woman and Mrs. is a woman who is married or has been married. Yes, even older women can be Miss and a widow is still Mrs. (of course if they so choose).
While Mr. isn’t tied to marital status for men, of course. So Ms. is the female equivalent to Mr., intended to be used both as a default term when you don’t know someone’s marital status and ALSO as a term of choice when you don’t wish to be defined by your relationship to a man.
This was very much a political thing, part of second-wave feminism (which of course has it’s flaws). (Ms. magazine was a feminist women’s magazine which popularized the term.)
It’s pronounced something like Miz or Mzz.
So for me, I’ve used Ms. basically since I got out of college anytime I’m asked for a title. First because I didn’t want my marital status to be a thing of concern in professional settings. And when I was living with my now-husband but we weren’t married. And then after we were married and I kept my own last name because IMO neither of the other options was relevant.
(The keeping your own name thing is a different discussion probably, but I did it partly out of desire to stay the same “person” and partly out of apathy. Also my husband’s last name isn’t even the same as his parents (because remarriage) so there was no pressure there to change it and he gave no fucks about it. In fact, he’s almost seriously thought about changing his name to mine because he likes my family better, lol.)
But anyway, I feel like it’s important to keep the intention of Ms. alive because it’s so very useful and needed to have an equal partner to Mr. And more useful than ever with so many situations where you may be married/committed but not using your partner’s name (ie. gay married, poly relationships, not legally married for reasons of disability, idk whatever).
But Ms. does NOT mean unmarried. It means someone could be of ANY marital status: never married, currently married, divorced, widowed, etc. It means “it’s not your business because you don’t ask a man his marital status the first second you meet him so buzz off.”