#sfw ddlb
Unsure where to start with punishments? Here’s some basics:
Write lines
A good starter is 10 lines for a minor or one time offense and no more than 35-40 for a more severe or repeated one
Take away a favorite toy
This is usually a good go-to punishment, but it is important to remember to NEVER take away multiple items at one time and NEVER TAKE A COMFORT ITEM (paci, blanket, etc) that helps them with mental illness or emotions
Early bedtime
Obviously, this may not work in certain instances, so it is important to judge when this would and would not be effective.
Spanking
YouMUST discuss this with your little prior to trying it (as you should all of these, but this is the most important) Never hit your little anywhere besides the butt unless they’ve specifically said it is okay, and always make it clear to your little why you are doing it before you do it.
Unsure where to start with rewards for your little? All littles vary and you should always ask, but here’s a starting point:
- Extra playtime
- Later bedtime than usual
- Sweet treat
- Activity of their choice
- A new toy, coloring book, etc
Pacifier Tip #2
If you buy an adult pacifier and love the shield but don’t love the nipple, don’t fret!! You can pop the button of the pacifier off, giving you access to the nipple. You can buy a different nipple to replace it with!!
Pacifier Tip #1
Even if you’re desperate, don’t use baby pacifiers long term! They will mess up your mouth with long term use.
Daddy/mommy/caregiver new to caregiving? Tell them what you like/don’t like (punishments, rules, rewards, etc) and try to let them see you little. This will help them learn to care for you.
No caregiver? Set a time every day or at least once a week where you can color, play with toys, anything that makes you feel little. If you have little friends, make it a play date!
Long distance caregiver? Make a time every day if time allows to video call. Let them color with you, play with you, etc over the call. Have them send you reminders to complete tasks and send photos as proof. Just because they’re far away doesn’t mean they can’t take care of you
Little Tips
I think I’m gonna set up a queue with tips for littles with no caregivers, long distance caregivers, caregivers who are learning to be a caregiver, etc
I’m sorry I won’t be able to post as much and be as active! In 165 Days I PROMISE ON ALL THE STUFFIES, I will be extremely active and I will make up for time I miss. Thank you <3
I don’t know how to skip.
I don’t know how to dance.
I don’t know how to snap with my left hand.
I don’t know how to whistle.
I NEED help.
Thanks for 100+ Followers!
Short Summary
Hello there. My name is Aisling Starr. I live in Las Vegas, Nevada and I’m a little, involved in the CG/L community. I’m an artist, a gamer, and an aspiring youtuber. My hobbies are drawing, painting, singing, swimming, gaming, browsing the web, and, overall, being creative. This campaign is for my shop that i’m creating for the CGL/ADBL/etc. community (and anyone who is interested) and to let out my creative side. I’ve noticed there are a lot of littles that want certain ideas to be brought to life in fashion, so part of the shop will be dedicated to that side of the imagination. The other part of the shop is carepackages. Carepackages are these boxes you can get in the mail. There are different carepackages you can get, such as the “baby girl” package, which is pink-themed and have multiple things inside, such as a blanket, toys, a sippy cup, an adult soother, a stuffy, etc. These packages are also suppose to help with depressed littles/middles/bigs/etc. This is important to me because this shop helps me deal with my suicide and depression. It’s also a dream of mine to make people who share so much in common with me feel happy because they got a gift that’s, technically, from me to them.
It would mean the world to me if you could all help out by donating and giving us the chance to bring- not only my ideas- but the ideas of other littles and caretakers dreams to life. They want to feel LITTLE.
I want most of what I make to be available to almost everyone, expanding the audience a bit wider than just CGL.
What We Need & What You Get
We’ll need 5k for the materials to make carepackages, such as boxes, glitter, paint, and the materials for what will be inside the boxes (stuffies, snacks, etc.). If you’re able to donate $40+ to this campaign, we will put your email into a list of people that have donated as well and send each person who donated gets one-two carepackage(s) (depending on how much you donated). We’re hoping to also do small giveaways on tumblr (thatonebabygirlsub.tumblr.com) for a celebration for the company.
Our goal is 5k. We will also be opening up a web page for pre-orders.
The Impact
This project is really important for those, not only involved with CGL, but the carepackages we make can be used for gifts for those with depression. Just something to make them feel better. The “Happy pills” are suppose to make them feel better (side note: happy pills are not consumable and do not contain drugs or any sort of proscription. They are empty capsules that you open up and take out the note inside. The note contains something positive, something funny, etc. ).
I’m sure we all have someone who really NEEDS something like this, even if they aren’t a part of CGL. I need this, the people working with us need this, and there’s a high chance that you probably need it as well.
Risks & Challenges
I have to constantly battle depression, anxiety, etcetera everyday and it really sucks (let’s be honest, there’s no other way to describe depression. Mixed with anxiety? If you don’t know what it’s like…it sucks), and I have to put on a smile and watch others around me battle it was well. This will be some type of relief for a lot of people, I’m sure of it. I’m devoting all my time to designing, making, and putting together almost all the merchandise we plan on selling in the future. It would mean the world to me if you all could help.
I plan on doing my best in the future to make my company grow and make many people happy. I don’t want the company to just vanish, just because we didn’t have any funds to make it work.
Other Ways You Can Help
If you can’t donate, you can share it. Please, share this on tumblr, twitter, youtube, facebook, instagram, anywhere you can to MAKE THIS WORK.…………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….
Packages For Littles:
~Package for Baby Girl~
1 Stuffie. (Chosen at random)
1 Pink Blanket ( If you are allergic to fleece, let me know and I will choose a different blanket. You will have to pay 2 or more dollars, depending on the price. If you want a blanket with designs, you will have to pay an extra 6 dollars. )
1 Bag of candy (Meaning one bag that has the same candy inside. Example: Konpeito. Chosen at random.)
1 Case of “Happy Pills”. (Happy pills are for motivation or a small “Pick me up”. You open up small pill capsules and unfold a small note that’s inside, and it’ll have something that is suppose to make you feel better inside, or help you in little space.)
1 Princess coloring book (Choose between “Art Therapy” and “Children”.)
1 Pack of Coloring pencils
1 Baggie of Chocolate (Choose Between Milk Chocolate, Dark Chocolate, or White Chocolate)
1 Baggie of Sugar Candy (Choose Between Lolipops, Rock Candy, or Pixie Sticks)
2 Baggies of Fruit Snacks (Princess)
5 Bonus candies (Chosen at random)
1 Bonus toy (Chosen at random)
1 Pacifier (Pink)
1 Juice box (Refillable)
1 Disney Movie (Of your choice)
1 Pack of Bath drops
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
~Package For Baby Boy~
1 Stuffie. (Chosen at random)
1 Blue Blanket ( If you are allergic to fleece, let me know and I will choose a different blanket. You will have to pay 2 or more dollars, depending on the price. If you want a blanket with designs, you will have to pay an extra 6 dollars. )
1 Bag of candy (Meaning one bag that has the same candy inside. Example: Konpeito. Chosen at random.)
1 Case of “Happy Pills”. (Happy pills are for motivation or a small “Pick me up”. You open up small pill capsules and unfold a small note that’s inside, and it’ll have something that is suppose to make you feel better inside, or help you in little space.)
1 Disney coloring book (Choose between “Art Therapy” and “Children”.)
1 Pack of Coloring pencils
1 Baggie of Chocolate (Choose Between Milk Chocolate, Dark Chocolate, or White Chocolate)
1 Baggie of Sugar Candy (Choose Between Lolipops, Rock Candy, or Pixie Sticks)
2 Baggies of Fruit Snacks (Disney)
5 Bonus candies (Chosen at random)
1 Bonus toy (Chosen at random)
1 Pacifier (Blue)
1 Juice box (Refillable)
1 Disney Movie (Of your choice)
1 Pack of Bath drops
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
~Package For You!~ (Customization) (Prices Vary)
Choose for every option. Otherwise, it will be chosen at random.
1 Stuffie.
1 Blanket ( If you are allergic to fleece, let me know and I will choose a different blanket. You will have to pay 2 or more dollars, depending on the price. If you want a blanket with designs, you will have to pay an extra 6 dollars. )
1 Bag of candy (Meaning one bag that has the same candy inside. Example: Konpeito.)
1 Case of “Happy Pills”. (Happy pills are for motivation or a small “Pick me up”. You open up small pill capsules and unfold a small note that’s inside, and it’ll have something that is suppose to make you feel better inside, or help you in little space.)
1 Coloring book (Choose between “Art Therapy” and “Children”.)
1 Pack of Coloring pencils
1 Baggie of Chocolate (Choose Between Milk Chocolate, Dark Chocolate, or White Chocolate)
1 Baggie of Sugar Candy (Choose Between Lolipops, Rock Candy, or Pixie Sticks)
2 Baggies of Fruit Snacks
5 Bonus candies
1 Bonus toy 1 Pacifier
1 Juice box (Refillable)
1 Disney Movie (Of your choice)
1 Pack of Bath Drops
(Anything else added, you will be paying extra. Minimum of 10 dollars.)
____________________________________________________________________________________
Packages for Caregivers:
~Package For Daddy~
1 Mug (Message Varies)
1 Zen Board
1 T-Shirt (Customizable)
1 Bundle Of Candy
1 Candle
1 10 Dollar Amazon Card
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~Package For Mommy~
1 Mug (Message Varies)
1 Zen Board
1 T-Shirt (Customizable)
1 Bundle Of Candy
1 Candle
1 10 Dollar Amazon Card
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
~Package For you!~ (Customization) (Price Varies)
~Package For Mommy~
1 Mug (Message Varies)
1 Zen Board
1 T-Shirt (Customizable)
1 Bundle Of Candy
1 Candle
1 10 Dollar Amazon Card
(Anything added or changed for something else, you will be paying extra for.)
Packages for daddy and mommy are more expensive because the t-shirt prices vary. ^^
You can buy these for any person at any time.
If you need this at a specific time, please let me know a month beforehand so I can get everything ready and make sure everything is inside and so it has time to ship to you.
If you donate to the company, you will get a free package once we reach our goal of $5000.
The method of payment we are accepting is:
*Paypal (PM us if you don’t know how to use paypal or you want to know how to send money @thatonegamergirl .
*Amazon Gift Cards (we will be buying products from amazon and one other supplier.)
Our Email is [email protected]Read notes
Short Summary
Hello there. My name is Aisling Starr. I live in Las Vegas, Nevada and I’m a little, involved in the CG/L community. I’m an artist, a gamer, and an aspiring youtuber. My hobbies are drawing, painting, singing, swimming, gaming, browsing the web, and, overall, being creative. This campaign is for my shop that i’m creating for the CGL/ADBL/etc. community (and anyone who is interested) and to let out my creative side. I’ve noticed there are a lot of littles that want certain ideas to be brought to life in fashion, so part of the shop will be dedicated to that side of the imagination. The other part of the shop is carepackages. Carepackages are these boxes you can get in the mail. There are different carepackages you can get, such as the “baby girl” package, which is pink-themed and have multiple things inside, such as a blanket, toys, a sippy cup, an adult soother, a stuffy, etc. These packages are also suppose to help with depressed littles/middles/bigs/etc. This is important to me because this shop helps me deal with my suicide and depression. It’s also a dream of mine to make people who share so much in common with me feel happy because they got a gift that’s, technically, from me to them.
It would mean the world to me if you could all help out by donating and giving us the chance to bring- not only my ideas- but the ideas of other littles and caretakers dreams to life. They want to feel LITTLE.
I want most of what I make to be available to almost everyone, expanding the audience a bit wider than just CGL.
What We Need & What You Get
We’ll need 5k for the materials to make carepackages, such as boxes, glitter, paint, and the materials for what will be inside the boxes (stuffies, snacks, etc.). If you’re able to donate $40+ to this campaign, we will put your email into a list of people that have donated as well and send each person who donated gets one-two carepackage(s) (depending on how much you donated). We’re hoping to also do small giveaways on tumblr (thatonebabygirlsub.tumblr.com) for a celebration for the company.
Our goal is 5k. We will also be opening up a web page for pre-orders.
The Impact
This project is really important for those, not only involved with CGL, but the carepackages we make can be used for gifts for those with depression. Just something to make them feel better. The “Happy pills” are suppose to make them feel better (side note: happy pills are not consumable and do not contain drugs or any sort of proscription. They are empty capsules that you open up and take out the note inside. The note contains something positive, something funny, etc. ).
I’m sure we all have someone who really NEEDS something like this, even if they aren’t a part of CGL. I need this, the people working with us need this, and there’s a high chance that you probably need it as well.
Risks & Challenges
I have to constantly battle depression, anxiety, etcetera everyday and it really sucks (let’s be honest, there’s no other way to describe depression. Mixed with anxiety? If you don’t know what it’s like…it sucks), and I have to put on a smile and watch others around me battle it was well. This will be some type of relief for a lot of people, I’m sure of it. I’m devoting all my time to designing, making, and putting together almost all the merchandise we plan on selling in the future. It would mean the world to me if you all could help.
I plan on doing my best in the future to make my company grow and make many people happy. I don’t want the company to just vanish, just because we didn’t have any funds to make it work.
Other Ways You Can Help
If you can’t donate, you can share it. Please, share this on tumblr, twitter, youtube, facebook, instagram, anywhere you can to MAKE THIS WORK.…………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….
Packages For Littles:
~Package for Baby Girl~
1 Stuffie. (Chosen at random)
1 Pink Blanket ( If you are allergic to fleece, let me know and I will choose a different blanket. You will have to pay 2 or more dollars, depending on the price. If you want a blanket with designs, you will have to pay an extra 6 dollars. )
1 Bag of candy (Meaning one bag that has the same candy inside. Example: Konpeito. Chosen at random.)
1 Case of “Happy Pills”. (Happy pills are for motivation or a small “Pick me up”. You open up small pill capsules and unfold a small note that’s inside, and it’ll have something that is suppose to make you feel better inside, or help you in little space.)
1 Princess coloring book (Choose between “Art Therapy” and “Children”.)
1 Pack of Coloring pencils
1 Baggie of Chocolate (Choose Between Milk Chocolate, Dark Chocolate, or White Chocolate)
1 Baggie of Sugar Candy (Choose Between Lolipops, Rock Candy, or Pixie Sticks)
2 Baggies of Fruit Snacks (Princess)
5 Bonus candies (Chosen at random)
1 Bonus toy (Chosen at random)
1 Pacifier (Pink)
1 Juice box (Refillable)
1 Disney Movie (Of your choice)
1 Pack of Bath drops
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
~Package For Baby Boy~
1 Stuffie. (Chosen at random)
1 Blue Blanket ( If you are allergic to fleece, let me know and I will choose a different blanket. You will have to pay 2 or more dollars, depending on the price. If you want a blanket with designs, you will have to pay an extra 6 dollars. )
1 Bag of candy (Meaning one bag that has the same candy inside. Example: Konpeito. Chosen at random.)
1 Case of “Happy Pills”. (Happy pills are for motivation or a small “Pick me up”. You open up small pill capsules and unfold a small note that’s inside, and it’ll have something that is suppose to make you feel better inside, or help you in little space.)
1 Disney coloring book (Choose between “Art Therapy” and “Children”.)
1 Pack of Coloring pencils
1 Baggie of Chocolate (Choose Between Milk Chocolate, Dark Chocolate, or White Chocolate)
1 Baggie of Sugar Candy (Choose Between Lolipops, Rock Candy, or Pixie Sticks)
2 Baggies of Fruit Snacks (Disney)
5 Bonus candies (Chosen at random)
1 Bonus toy (Chosen at random)
1 Pacifier (Blue)
1 Juice box (Refillable)
1 Disney Movie (Of your choice)
1 Pack of Bath drops
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
~Package For You!~ (Customization) (Prices Vary)
Choose for every option. Otherwise, it will be chosen at random.
1 Stuffie.
1 Blanket ( If you are allergic to fleece, let me know and I will choose a different blanket. You will have to pay 2 or more dollars, depending on the price. If you want a blanket with designs, you will have to pay an extra 6 dollars. )
1 Bag of candy (Meaning one bag that has the same candy inside. Example: Konpeito.)
1 Case of “Happy Pills”. (Happy pills are for motivation or a small “Pick me up”. You open up small pill capsules and unfold a small note that’s inside, and it’ll have something that is suppose to make you feel better inside, or help you in little space.)
1 Coloring book (Choose between “Art Therapy” and “Children”.)
1 Pack of Coloring pencils
1 Baggie of Chocolate (Choose Between Milk Chocolate, Dark Chocolate, or White Chocolate)
1 Baggie of Sugar Candy (Choose Between Lolipops, Rock Candy, or Pixie Sticks)
2 Baggies of Fruit Snacks
5 Bonus candies
1 Bonus toy 1 Pacifier
1 Juice box (Refillable)
1 Disney Movie (Of your choice)
1 Pack of Bath Drops
(Anything else added, you will be paying extra. Minimum of 10 dollars.)
____________________________________________________________________________________
Packages for Caregivers:
~Package For Daddy~
1 Mug (Message Varies)
1 Zen Board
1 T-Shirt (Customizable)
1 Bundle Of Candy
1 Candle
1 10 Dollar Amazon Card
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
~Package For Mommy~
1 Mug (Message Varies)
1 Zen Board
1 T-Shirt (Customizable)
1 Bundle Of Candy
1 Candle
1 10 Dollar Amazon Card
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
~Package For you!~ (Customization) (Price Varies)
~Package For Mommy~
1 Mug (Message Varies)
1 Zen Board
1 T-Shirt (Customizable)
1 Bundle Of Candy
1 Candle
1 10 Dollar Amazon Card
(Anything added or changed for something else, you will be paying extra for.)
Packages for daddy and mommy are more expensive because the t-shirt prices vary. ^^
You can buy these for any person at any time.
If you need this at a specific time, please let me know a month beforehand so I can get everything ready and make sure everything is inside and so it has time to ship to you.
If you donate to the company, you will get a free package once we reach our goal of $5000.
The method of payment we are accepting is:
*Paypal (PM us if you don’t know how to use paypal or you want to know how to send money @thatonegamergirl .
*Amazon Gift Cards (we will be buying products from amazon and one other supplier.)
Our Email is [email protected]
