more random observations

hey, it’s me :-) I haven’t had time to make the detailed posts I want to, so here are some things I’ve been noticing in my studies lately

• sun in the 7th house/sun opposite ascendant is a dangerous placement for someone to have, as you might risk becoming overly dependent on your relationship status/your partner and co-dependent dynamics. you discover yourself through relationships, but always remember that the knowledge remains even when your partner is gone and you’ll always have yourself.
• neptune in the 8th people have no boundaries. point blank. it might even be something you’re not aware of, but people can easily take advantage of your energy and suck the life out of you. please analyze your relationship dynamics more closely.
• sun conjunct north node people usually have a big ego since they know they’re on this planet for a reason, there’s no “oh why was I born” shit. the danger is leaning completely into the sign they’re in and ignoring your south node completely. balance is power.
• being a capricorn moon, i have a famous love for my fellow saturn-ruled aquarius moons, but the closer i get the more i see how different we are. repressing my feelings is a conscious thing for me; i know i’m an emotional wreck but people do not, and i’m always mistaken for a stone-cold bitch (not something I try to change though). aquarius moons, though… you guys project such a friendly/open (not exactly warm or intimate) exterior and people often mistake you as more emotional than you really are. you try to rationalize emotions rather than feel them, as inwardly, unlike me, you’re pretty detached and cool.
• moon-pluto (conj/square/opposite) aspects please seek therapy to help you deal with all of that, i’m begging you. living is better than just surviving.
• moon conjunct/trine mars have a terrible time saying sorry because they always feel right about whatever they do, good or bad. they might know they’re on the wrong, but they somehow rationalize their actions and align it with their emotions.
• moon opposite chiron is a bottomless pit of need. there’s an empty feeling you don’t think will ever be filled. that’s because your emotional wounds/traumas are extremely slow to heal and you can’t ignore it, so you end up focusing on it the wrong way. make that extra effort to be vulnerable, please, it’ll all work out.
• ascendant conj lilith/lilith in the 1st people are extremely self-conscious; you might be obsessed w your looks or attitude. this aspect gives you a magnetic energy which attracts all kinds of people, some who are bad for you. don’t run away from this or your sexuality; it’s a part of you. just be careful.
• having a conversation with a scorpio mercury is like “wait… i just vented for 2h and learned nothing about them”. you’re not the person who interrupts your friends just to say “i know, because when that happened to ME,” and we love it, but we also want to know how you feel.
• i love the ability people with mercury in the 7th have to always stay detached in relationships and think them through (or at least you think you can).
• virgo venuses/venus in the 6th, there’s nothing wrong with you. you deserve just as every bit of happiness and kindness as everyone else. you don’t have to be lesser than your partner or to have them just tolerating you. i know me saying this won’t mean shit but you need someone who will tell you this while looking into your eyes, and if you don’t: fuck them.
• wherever your sun is placed is where you are most likely to seek affirmation of your own personality/feel most like yourself: sun in 11th might only feel seen when they’re being seen by their friends: in the 7th that might only happen with their partner; in the 4th, they might only feel real at home; in the 10th when at work or being seen by the public, etc.
• libras will always have that ultimate need for peace/no conflict even if it’s a single placement, it’s always there. the problem is that they put themselves in situations there’ll be inevitable disagreements and so they’ll be the ones to smooth things over and look like the peacekeepers/manipulators. i have a libra friend with an aries moon so she’ll always need a little conflict to feel safe, but whenever we call her out for it she’s like “me?? but i would never do that, i just want us all to get along!” and it just makes her look bad.
• scorpio venuses are so secretive even about their crushes and likes, i mean… they love talking about sex/kinks in general terms, but when you ask their own experiences it’s literally crickets. i understand there’s a lot of trauma in that area, but you guys won’t heal until you let others in.
• virgo mars are unbelievably controlling, to a level that shocked even me, a virgo sun. you guys need to let some things go, please, there’s no way you can control everything happening around you or be prepared for everything.