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hey, it’s me :-) I haven’t had time to make the detailed posts I want to, so here are some things I’ve been noticing in my studies lately
sun in the 7th house/sun opposite ascendant is a dangerous placement for someone to have, as you might risk becoming overly dependent on your relationship status/your partner and co-dependent dynamics. you discover yourself through relationships, but always remember that the knowledge remains even when your partner is gone and you’ll always have yourself.
neptune in the 8th people have no boundaries. point blank. it might even be something you’re not aware of, but people can easily take advantage of your energy and suck the life out of you. please analyze your relationship dynamics more closely.
sun conjunct north node people usually have a big ego since they know they’re on this planet for a reason, there’s no “oh why was I born” shit. the danger is leaning completely into the sign they’re in and ignoring your south node completely. balance is power.
being a capricorn moon, i have a famous love for my fellow saturn-ruled aquarius moons, but the closer i get the more i see how different we are. repressing my feelings is a conscious thing for me; i know i’m an emotional wreck but people do not, and i’m always mistaken for a stone-cold bitch (not something I try to change though). aquarius moons, though… you guys project such a friendly/open (not exactly warm or intimate) exterior and people often mistake you as more emotional than you really are. you try to rationalize emotions rather than feel them, as inwardly, unlike me, you’re pretty detached and cool.
moon-pluto (conj/square/opposite) aspects please seek therapy to help you deal with all of that, i’m begging you. living is better than just surviving.
moon conjunct/trine mars have a terrible time saying sorry because they always feel right about whatever they do, good or bad. they might know they’re on the wrong, but they somehow rationalize their actions and align it with their emotions.
moon opposite chiron is a bottomless pit of need. there’s an empty feeling you don’t think will ever be filled. that’s because your emotional wounds/traumas are extremely slow to heal and you can’t ignore it, so you end up focusing on it the wrong way. make that extra effort to be vulnerable, please, it’ll all work out.
ascendant conj lilith/lilith in the 1st people are extremely self-conscious; you might be obsessed w your looks or attitude. this aspect gives you a magnetic energy which attracts all kinds of people, some who are bad for you. don’t run away from this or your sexuality; it’s a part of you. just be careful.
having a conversation with a scorpio mercury is like “wait… i just vented for 2h and learned nothing about them”. you’re not the person who interrupts your friends just to say “i know, because when that happened to ME,” and we love it, but we also want to know how you feel.
i love the ability people with mercury in the 7th have to always stay detached in relationships and think them through (or at least you think you can).
virgo venuses/venus in the 6th, there’s nothing wrong with you. you deserve just as every bit of happiness and kindness as everyone else. you don’t have to be lesser than your partner or to have them just tolerating you. i know me saying this won’t mean shit but you need someone who will tell you this while looking into your eyes, and if you don’t: fuck them.
wherever your sun is placed is where you are most likely to seek affirmation of your own personality/feel most like yourself: sun in 11th might only feel seen when they’re being seen by their friends: in the 7th that might only happen with their partner; in the 4th, they might only feel real at home; in the 10th when at work or being seen by the public, etc.
libras will always have that ultimate need for peace/no conflict even if it’s a single placement, it’s always there. the problem is that they put themselves in situations there’ll be inevitable disagreements and so they’ll be the ones to smooth things over and look like the peacekeepers/manipulators. i have a libra friend with an aries moon so she’ll always need a little conflict to feel safe, but whenever we call her out for it she’s like “me?? but i would never do that, i just want us all to get along!” and it just makes her look bad.
scorpio venuses are so secretive even about their crushes and likes, i mean… they love talking about sex/kinks in general terms, but when you ask their own experiences it’s literally crickets. i understand there’s a lot of trauma in that area, but you guys won’t heal until you let others in.
virgo mars are unbelievably controlling, to a level that shocked even me, a virgo sun. you guys need to let some things go, please, there’s no way you can control everything happening around you or be prepared for everything.
Dreamy, passive, unbalanced. This is the energy that can be felt today. This can make us hypersensitive, which can weaken our nervous system and create unknown or easily influenced anxiety. We may want to be alone with our thoughts early in the morning. Avoiding the truth could be possible as well. Expect to have realistically, vivid dreams with a heightened imagination. Emotions run high, so unexplained crying or overreactions can become present.
Scorpio Mercury rx opposite Taurus Lilith- 0633 EST
Challenging secrets may be revealed. Taurus Lilith encourages us to survive & stand our ground. With this energy, some may have to do whatever is needed to be done to survive, despite external judgement. In turn, this can create a hostile conversation or unpleasant realization. Something that no one wants to acknowledge could find its way to the surface.
A really positive energy that can bring us social success and material gains today. Can create a positive outlook on life with the feeling of sincerity. Interests may peak in art/crafts. Optimistic & feeling good.
This energy awakens our sentimental endeavors. We actually will feel enjoyment with action and adventure. There may be a desire to travel or plan a trip. Be sure to double check any reservations or planning with Mercury & Mars still in retrograde!
*The 3 favorable aspects of the Pisces Moon and Neptune, Jupiter, and Pluto gives us a powerful opening for spiritual stimulation. Meditation could bring an awakening or epiphany. These aspects also gives us stronger imaginations, gain in sympathy, positive outcomes in legal cases, and intense feelings of love and interests.*
Venus leaves Virgo & enters Libra ♎️- 2133 EST (ends November 21, 2020)
Today is a big Libra energy day! With both Venus & Mercury entering Libra within minutes apart, a break from any negative astrological transits should be in order. Venus enters it’s home sign of Libra bringing friendly, kind, and extremely personable influences. We can find us taking interest in all things beautiful; music, art, fashion, creativity, poetry. Libra Venus can help us remember what we love about the people closest to us & put us in a better mood for compromising.
Mercury rx leaves Scorpio & enters Libra ♎️- 2149 EST (Libra Mercury rx goes direct November 3, 2020 & enters back into Scorpio on November 10, 2020)
With all the Libra energy happening at once, the urge to show off our artistic talents can emerge. The collective should show a higher aesthetic sense and we should all seek harmony & balance more than usual. Mercury rx encourages us to face our shadow, and in Libra, it brings out relationship issues & karma once again to make sure we are working on finding healthier connections & eliminating any extra baggage that is in the way of finding balance. It can bring up issues from September (when Mercury was in Libra then) and invite us to review the lessons we went through before entering intense, deep Scorpio for a second time. Any underlying manipulation or controlling dynamic needs to be uncovered and solved. This means communication with the people we love needs to be open & honest.
This aspect will make today go by very quickly. There may be conflicts in social relationships. Be careful with how you deliver your communication with others. It can be easily confused for having an attitude, especially with miscommunications during Mercury retrograde. There may be difficulty in channeling productive mentality today. Feelings of being scattered and overwhelmed may happen.  you may want to begin new projects and put older projects on hold. A lack of sensitivity may have you coming off as arrogant and can push people away unless you remember to take others feelings into consideration. Inner erratic agitation can cause much anxiety and nervousness today.
~Virgo Venus trine Capricorn Jupiter 0° orb
This is one of the most looked forward to aspects to occur due to the harmony and expansion of love it creates!! It will lessen any hardships and bring love and joy into life. It’s easier to show love and affection during this transit, even to yourself.  It’s a great time for finding love and socializing.  Shopping is favored if finances allow it. So, buy that thing you’ve been wanting but have been putting off buying! Gifts, compliments, and really great offers should be accepted during this time. Don’t let a great opportunity pass by!

~ Aries Mars RX Square Capricorn Jupiter 0° orb
 Immense energy and initiative to get shit done! This aspect gives courage to take on a defensive approach if you are being threatened. Do not attack others during this time, especially without provocation. This can cause accidents and injuries. Choose your battles wisely. This energy will make you feel invincible but be sure to ration it out properly or it will cause emotional and physical exhaustion.
attention span is not long. may ditch old ideas, if they get bored, or find something more interesting. HAS to win an argument. may think being the louder one during an argument is the way to win lmao. talks in a dynamic way. argumentive. may make a good public speaker. may text too fast, and mess up on a few words. communication style is aggressive(always has to be right, loud, might scapegoat, etc). humor may be childish(fart jokes, butt jokes, burp jokes, just dumb shit in general lol), or humor that involves getting injured(hitting your head on something, tripping, etc). slapstick humor
great attention span, but may be a slow learner or talker. talks with stability/most likely doesn’t stutter. doesn’t mind staying on the same topic/not changing the subject. like aries, in an argument they will rarely admit they were wrong, hard-headed. arguing with these ppl are the worst, since they don’t allow others to have opinions which is annoying asf(my sister has this lmao, and i have a taurus mars, so you could imagine). your mind rarely changes, once made up. not the most open minded. talks with practicality. may type slow tbh lmao, and dry. may also take a century to reply. communication style may be passive aggressive(may not like being straightforward, “i didn’t think you’d pass this class, but good job”, etc) humor may be well written skits, or roasts.
attention span is fleeting. curious about numerous of things. may stutter thanks to gemini jittery energy. rarely turns down a debate, might even lie in a disagreement to win. first to speak if it’s too quiet for too long. type of person to have random knowledge or may know fun facts. talks with wit. types fast, replies fast, just very active on social media. meme user. sends messages in short patches instead of just one big paragraph. communication style is passive aggressive(may mumble under breath, etc). humor may be random. may love puns.
attention span is good, esp if it’s topics they feel with. may be bias in an argument between other ppl. may want to “hug” it out lmao. may like to talk abt emotional topics. talks with care. probably uses emojis a lot. writes paragraphs/in long sentences. communication style varies tbh. i’m just gonna do passive-aggressive(backhanded compliments, talks behind your back instead of confronting you) or assertive(expressing your wants and needs, while considering others feelings). inside jokes are your thing, goofy asf with ppl you’re comfortable with. dry humor
attention span may be short lived. may only talk abt themselves which can be annoying. believe it or not, they may take a calm/chill approach in an argument. overdramatic in their speech. talks with confidence. keeps the conversation interesting/not dry. initiator in group chats. usually replies fast. communication style is assertive(uses “i”, knows their worth, etc). playful name calling is their type of humor.
attention span may not be that good tbh(like their opposite sign, they daydream off into the distance). talks with practicality. make sure to fact check, when arguing with these ppl, or they may verbally violate you. very nit picky ppl, and may be big complainers. may abbreviate a lot of words lmao. another dry texting placement, and rarely uses emojis. communication style is passive aggressive(throws shade lmao, may like to just go with the flow, etc). may make fun of yourself to get laughs. might like humor that criticizes/makes fun of things/ppl in general. their humor has some truth to it.
attention span is usually good. easy going in speech. talks with equality. can also be charismatic. may ppl please. in arguments, they can try to compromise, and fix everything, even when it’s unfixable. dislikes conflict, and may need to learn to embrace them. may dislike ppl that curse a lot, or are loud. the way you text may be unclear to some. also texting isn’t direct, and may use things like “k” or “nice”. communication style is passive(lacks eye contact, doesn’t want any conflict even though they feel some type of way, etc). another placement that likes well written jokes, and may have a strong dislike for dark/inappropriate humor lol.
attention span is attentive. you’re not easy to read, and it can take time to truly know you. you may over analyze and get suspicious over the dumbest things. observant, and might be into psychology. in arguments, doesn’t tolerate dumb shit. can be a bit of a ghost when it comes to texting. tries to get in your business and asks random shit. might not text too much info, since they don’t want ppl to screenshot the chat lmao. assertive is your communication style(considers others feelings, uses “i”, etc) or aggressive(yells, tries to intimidate you, etc). humor may be dark, offensive, and/or taboo/inappropriate. sexual jokes.
attention span is actually good, if they’re interested, if not then it’s non existent. either rlly open or rlly closed minded. you may mistake being blunt for being honest or some ppl may mistake your realness for being rude. talks with rowdiness. in arguments, may be hostile. uses “:), </3” instead of “” in text. but then again, may use actual emojis a bit. communication style is aggressive(loud, doesn’t consider others feelings, etc). humor may be mocking accents, sarcasm, and/or satire.
attention span is short, if what you’re talking abt isn’t important to us. fluent in atleast 2 languages, which are sarcasm, and facts. we don’t have time or patience for ignorance. we may come off as standoffish, when in reality we just stick to ourselves or we’re just too honest. talks with common sense. talking is soothing, atleast i’ve been told. i feel like we use facts in an argument more than emotions, but me personally i try to include both(this is my placement :)). probably doesn’t use caps in text. may have a lot of ppl on delivered. reply game varies based on person, only replies fast to important ppl. communication style is most likely assertive(has a backbone, stands up for themselves without being loud, etc). humor is satire, dark/offensive, and/or sarcastic. if you have tiktok, you definitely know abt satire humor LMAO.
attention span is only good if they care. says random things. takes forever to reply. talks with detachment. observant. in arguments, probably doesn’t think of others feelings, and just says whatever. may be harsh in arguing. another placement that probably uses this “<3, :), etc” instead of “❤️”. may ghost your messages. communication style is passive aggressive(talks shit behind your back, may not care to confront others, etc). surreal humor, humor is eccentric lol. may like adult animated shows
attention span isn’t good, since they daydream a lot. might say personal stuff in accident. relatable. great listeners. talks with warm heartedness. cool in arguments, and will stand up for what they feel is right if necessary. another placement that may use emojis a lot. texting may be emotional. shitty grammar. communication style is passive(goes with the flow, bad eye contact/body language, hates drama, etc). another placement that makes jokes abt sex. may joke abt drugs(other ppl doing it or themselves, or ppl acting like their on drugs lmao)
please keep in mind that other things will affect certain traits, like your moon sign. don’t plagiarize, and have a good day
Best Mercury Signs To Have Deep Conversations With
Virgo
When it comes to deep conversations, Virgo is always down to have them. A Virgo mercuries mind is always filled with many thoughts, it’s very opinionated and having deep conversations is one thing they would love since it allows them to express their opinions on certain topics. Virgo being mutable is great for deep conversations, because it allows them to be able to have a deep conversation on almost everything! they are always naturally prepared. Virgo mercury may stutter a bit or get nervous from time to time, but they always get their point across. Their intellect is striking and most of all they’re great listeners.
Aquarius
Oh Aquarius, you expected to see your sign on here didn’t you? Well it’s no suprise, as a sign who’s extremely creative and interested in deep topics in the first place. Deep conversation makes your heart jump, and makes your mind happpy. Having a deep conversation with an Aquarius would last long, and it’ll always be interesting. Aquarius mercury always has something to stir the conversation up, and since they’re intelligent it wont sound like random words falling all over the place. Aquarius mercury can see things from different perspectives making it easier to have a deep conversation with someone who has different theories than you.
Scorpio
This mercury sign is rather intense and already deep natured, so it’s natural that they would be good during a deep conversation. Scorpio mercury is very passionate, and loves a challange. So discussing different opinions on the same topic they would enjoy the most. Scorpio mercury being very observational and skeptical, and intriguing another person can make a conversation go on for hours and hours, making it intense but interesting at the same time. Scorpio mercury can be a great conversationalist, but only if you can tolerate them.
I absolutely adore Scorpio Mercuries, they’re so intense with wording things. I absolutely love it as a Virgo Mercury
Cancer Venuses in my eyes are the most caring and loving Venus signs, they have so much to offer. I love their protectiveness over loved ones too.
Fire moons are ok, they can be immature but sometimes I wish I could be as carefree as them.
I tend to get really close with fire moons though, really surprising since I’m an earth moon.
Scorpios, Virgo’s, Cancers, Aquarius and Geminis are really misunderstood being mainly seen as their stereotype or negative traits
I hate none of the signs, every single sign has their bad traits. I see signs I don’t get along with as challenging rather than toxic. I say challenging because a challenge, can be overcome. There’s a goal and the goal is understanding and good compatibility, to reach that goal you must overcome the challenge. Every sign can work out, a simple bad relationship with a Scorpio Venus, wont make me hate Scorpio Venuses, I’ll just try better to overcome the challenges on my next encounter. You can die in a video game when you fail an obstacle, but you always have chances to start over.
Aries: brusque truths, an unhindered and combative flow, enthusiastic inquiries, impassioned polemic, hasty candor of the moment, playful goading and provoking, grand words, indecent persuasions, an eagerness to impress, childlike humor.
Taurus: cemented opinions, laconic and unhurried in speech, will never admit they’re wrong, protective sentiments, warm approaches, delayed reactions, sentimentality, plain-spoken sincerity, indulgence in listening, practical-minded mentality, aversion to verbal ambiguity, devoted reassurance, comfortable topics.
Gemini: a silver-tongued flow, keen discussions, impertinent questionings, mastered cajolery, monologues, an adaptive tone, storaged facts, frivolous dissipation, unduly opinionated in everything, sly remarks, gossip and fabricated “truths”, quick-paced reasoning, verbally resourceful.
Cancer:a lachrymose tone, language overgrown with sentiment, masters of disarming, dedications, meandrous thoughts, an immersive inner world, reminiscing, tête-à-têtes, mid-conversation pauses, atmospheric storytelling, bashful reactions, delicate consciousness, confessions.
Leo: panache, unanswered questions, conversation as performance, brilliant raconteurs, baiting, revelations, language curled with humor, an indestructible morale, gilded soliloquies, white lies, lively interactions, chameleon-like expression, masterful feigning, permeating influence.
Virgo: seasoned in finding le mot juste, interesting debates, calculated ripostes, an analytical mindset, meticulous schemes, perfectionism, masters of critique, attention to detail, conversational symmetry, acridness, precise timing.
Libra: a diplomatic standpoint, flowery words, smooth persuasion, airy evasions, speaks with care, idealized sentiments, politeness, softly observant, wide perspectives, easily suggestible, gilded flattery, a lightness of spirit and humor, engaging questions, illusive deference.
Scorpio: trenchant truths, intense sentiments, secrecy, speaking in absolute terms, brooding, a leery perspective, loaded questions, great discerners of insincerity, verbally hypnotic, a dark sense of humor, overwhelming reactions.
Capricorn:an economy of words, focused attention, felicitous courtesies, great confidantes, formal approaches, unsentimental judgments, adopted pragmatism, advisory remarks, deep-rooted beliefs, renaissance attitudes, clear intentions, kept promises, solemnity of perspective.
Aquarius: a roundabout expression, distance, cryptic and vague statements, a mastered use of silence, erratic responses, a knowing tone, habitual wringing of concepts, conversation as play, lofty ideals, an itch to contradict, stirring influence, adopted absurdity.
Pisces: absorptive listeners, a fanciful outlook, internal monologues, overflowing sentiments, touching words, pensive silences, drifting off, boundless exchanges, lingering sentiments, dreamlike logic, recitals, a lulling softness in tone.
