#thy diva
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As I have disappeared from the face of the Earth for a bit, I was faced with many challenges and new oppurtunities over the past six months. Let me give you a rundown of what happened during my hiatus, my sirens…
To start this off, law school has been both a breeze and a hassle at the same time. I found my classes fairly interesting and the professors I had were incredibly helpful throughout the semester. I was able to push through the neverending workload and readings every week, on the exemption of French literature which focused on contemporary Quebec stories, a class I had dropped to pursue another literature course instead. School has been one of the main reasons why I needed the hiatus for I needed to focus on my education and will continue to do so, but at least now I have a greater grasp of how it works so I can manage my time more.
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Secondly, there was a the issue of my break up.
I had broken up with my former boyfriend after two years together around the first week of June 2021. It was hard and sudden at first but I was able to move on from it fairly quickly thanks to me choosing solidarity in those hard moments, I was able to truly focus on my emotions, let them overwhelm me when needed and without letting them get past me. I am now in a better place and met some amazing people, my socializing and networking skills have never been better! I’m trying to focus on myself much more and make a better life for myself as well as ensure a good future not only for me, but for my family.
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Moreover my sirens, an incident had occurred on the first day of November last year, I was left severely damaged both mentally and physically. However, I will get into that on another post as it is a touchy topic. There is no need for worry though, I am now healed and still healing, I’m only getting stronger and I survived what had happened to me with my head held high knowing that I am my only protector at the end of the day and I prevailed in doing that for myself.
I have also decided to take a break from sugaring as I have become a bit weary from it all. I am going to instead focus more on my studies and nurturing not only myself but my relationships with those around me. I will eventually get back into the sugar bowl but until my mind is ready to dive back in, I will enjoy my vacation. Not to mention there might be a person of interest prying into my heart at this moment… (more on them later!)
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In other news! Thy Diva is moving out, my sirens!
I am more than excited to share the news with all of you! This was a sudden decision as well as a hard one but I simply reached my ticking point living in my house. Things have become too toxic for my mental health and I cannot for the life of me spend another year in this house. I have spent six years here and the conditions gradually worsened as each year passed. I am going to go through it after this move, I am well aware of that, but I am ready to close this book and start a new chapter in my life. I have found someone to live with for the time being as we both plan on getting an apartment together in the summer months. I will keep you all updated as I continue to prepare myself for this huge shift in my life.
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I do hope you enjoyed our little catchup, I missed this place and I am ready to create and post some more content for you! If you have any suggestions for future posts, feel free to comment or leave an ask, I will be sure to take a look at it!
Have a blessed week, my sirens, for we all deserve to rejoice and have brightness in this mundane reality! See you soon… and remember: Nothing less, only more.
-Thy Diva
