#very fun

hey, so i’ve been wanting to make this post for a few days now just as a general note and apology.

content on my blog has been very slow for the past… while. as i’m sure you’ve all noticed. i keep thinking i’ll finally get back into the swing of posting again, create content more consistently, find the creative drive i lost months ago. but i haven’t done any of that. and i feel awful every time i finally post something and immediately fall back into a rut for weeks after.

the truth of this whole matter, as i’m slowly coming to realize, is that i’m reallynot well. in a multitude of ways.

i’ll be working on it as best i can, but until i reach a point where i’m able to create more freely and easily again, expect the lack of content and posting here to persist.

again, i apologize for my general lack of presence. i promise i’m always hanging around, but my drive and capacity have been at an all time low, especially in these past weeks.

i’ll do what i can when i can, and we’ll just have to go from there. thank you to all of you that have borne with me thus far.

3liza:

i cannot emphasize enough how important it is to have gossipy bitchy littl pirvate group chats or discord servers with like 4 people in them whose stated purpose is posting “new kind of guy” or “this reddit post is so fuckin dumb” or “i got into a fight on twitter today look at this idiot’s reply” so your homies can still see it and laugh and back you up but more importantly, so you are not tempted to post these kinds of things on main

for real this helps so much. Also makes you feel a lot less alone when you’re questioning the state of the internet and wondering if you’re going insane.

ershebet:

reference

He was tired

arodirk:

Pride ask game. Feel free to RB, and remember it’s good etiquette to send an ask to the person you’re RBing from.

1. Gender and pronouns?
2. Romantic orientation?
3. Sexual orientation?
4. Past labels you’ve used?
5. How long have you been using your current labels?
6. What made you realize your current labels fit you?
7. What made you pick your name?
8. What names have you gone by previously?
9. What names have you considered using?
10. When did you realize you weren’t cishet?
11. Do you like your flag(s)?
12. Favorite flag(s) visually?
13. Favorite colors?
14. Favorite animals?
15. Favorite things about being LGBT+?
16. Are you dysphoric?
17. Are you religious?
18. Are you questioning your identity?
19. Are you in a relationship?
20. Are you out of the closet IRL?
21. Is your family supportive?
22. Favorite LGBT+ celebrity or historical figure?
23. Favorite LGBT+ couple IRL?
24. Favorite LGBT+ canon character?
25. Favorite LGBT+ canon fictional couple?
26. Some characters you headcanon as LGBT+?
27. Some LGBT+ pairings you ship?
28. Any celebrity crushes?
29. Any fictional crushes?
30. A trope you dislike about your identity?
31. A trope about your identity that applies to you?
32. Something you wish people understood about your identity?
33. Something you dislike about being LGBT+?
34. If you’re not cis, do you want HRT and/or surgery?
35. If you’re not straight, who was your first same-gender crush?
36. Do you align with any gay subcategories? (Butch/femme, bear/twink, etc.)
37. Do you have any LGBT+ idols?
38. Do you own pride merch? Would you like to?
39. Do you have a type in partners?
40. Do you have a type in friends?

sunfish(ing)

loathsome:

rayj4ck:

This has LITERALLY been the only ad I’ve gotten for the past few weeks and as someone who does not possess balls, I find it immensely funny

mischiefinyoureyes:

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