“Dressing as I did did not make me ‘happy’ necessarily, but it unified me – and that is what we must all do with our lives. There are always penalties up to any age for presenting the world with a highly individualized image, but if it is the genuine you and not some affectation (a distinction which, I realize, may take years to sort out) then you must be what you are, honestly and bravely, with all the taste and intelligence you can muster. Life will be more difficult if you try to fulfill yourself, but avoiding this difficulty renders life meaningless. To arrive at the end of your life thinking, I never did anything I really wanted to do…must be one of the most profound miseries the human soul is capable of feeling – and one for which there is no last-minute cure or consolation.”
So glad to be back from my buissiniess trip in Orlando, Florida. So much stuff I need to do to catch back up.
My partner George picked me up from the airport and then we went out to eat and he told me about this movie he had watched. Despite how tired I was I wanted to see it for myself. It was absolutely amazing so I wanted to recomend it.
Its called Love Is Strange, I definately recomend watching it.
He’s deliciously bound to the world of sensuality, but he also touches the outer reaches of the universe every time he communes with his creative muse.
He’s unforgettably extroverted, but he’s also intensely private and needs down time to recharge.
He is athletic and kinetic, but he is also easily lost in his reading, his ideas, the ideas of others.
He is unique, admirable, inspiring.
He just is, seemingly with fewer restrictions and rules for his existence than many others have.
❤️❤️❤️
This is like a haiku or would make an awesome spoken-word poem. I love it.
These are actually non basic clothing tips that can definitely help you
CC:
[So, when you want to put together outfits that feel more androgynous, it’s important to consider not just what you’re wearing, but how you’re wearing it. Depending on the way you place pieces of clothing on your body will determine whether they’re masculinizing or feminizing and how that works with the rest of you.
A hat worn against the back of your head is far more feminizing because it frames and circles your face, where as a hat worn across the brow jars your features more, thus making you feel more masculine.
A shirt that is not tucked into your pants may give you a more feminine shape because it softens your silhouette, where as one that is, sharpens it.
It’s also important to consider that large glasses will feminize your face, whereas small glasses will masculinize it.
When piecing these things together it can really make a difference about how your outfit is read
But keep in mind that your appearance has nothing to do with your gender identity, these are just some tips]
‘Holding Back Birds’, digital painting, 2015. Trying to hold back one’s own inner nature is like holding back a flock of birds; no matter how determined you are, things are going to keep slipping through. What would you be capable of, if you could free yourself of the task? If you weren’t spending all your energy on not being yourself?
The tree isn’t the only thing getting LIT this holiday season! We are officially hosting our Dapper Holiday Social on Dec.9th. Dress up in your favorite tie or bow-tie and get down with us!
We’re offering advance tickets for the open bar, which includes custom drinks that the lovely bartenders have crafted just for us! (cocktails usually $11 to $13)
If you aren’t drinking admission is free, just RSVP! Guests must be 21+
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