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At some point in my life I discovered the nick case website, which contain some games about social behavior and mental health among other kind of works.

Sometimes I don’t feel good and I think about these games again. Well, especially one that I remember the most which is about anxiety and help to feel a bit better.

Adventures with anxiety

Adventure with anxiety is based on the native american belief that we have two wolfs fighting inside us: The wolf of compassion, love, understanding and generosity ; and the wolf of cruelty, hate, fear and selfishness. According to that belief, the one who’ll win is the one you’ll feed.

In that game Nick Case use a wolf to represent anxiety and how it can hurt us if we don’t learn how to communicate with it. Actually we even play as the wolf, whose goal is to protect our human!

It’s an interesting way to teach how to deal with anxiety while not saying we should reject it. The game is all about nuances : yes we should listen to it because the only purpose of our anxiety is to protect us, but no we shouldn’t always listen to it and when it’s wrong then the best way to deal with it is to try to reason with it.

Example:

My wolf: “Aaaah!!! They’ll hate our post on the nicky case project!!! We should stop you’ll be ha…”

Me: “Come on! I posted many things that people liked and…”

My wolf: “And sometimes people didn’t like it! What makes you think they won’t hate this one? Do you want people to hate you or laugh at y….”

Me: “OK OK I’ll show it to someone else before posting it and they’ll tell us if it’s worth it or not. Do you feel better?”

My wolf: “Ah! You are thinking about that guy? Well, I can work with that.”

Me: “Nice! It’s settled then.”

And this is how that game suggests to deal with the anxiety. A good one!

Well, to be honest in my head there was way more things about mental health, but in reality most of the interactive games are rather about social behaviors. In that category I can talk about some of them among the most interesting. Like…

The wisdom and/or Madness of crowds

That one is less than an adventure than a puzzle game. At each step you have a text explaining something about history or a fact about connection, and it makes you connect the heads with each other to see how an information or a behavior can spread.

More of an essay than a game as are most interactive games on the website, The wisdom and/or madness of crowds is a good way to understand how our connections can affect people and ourselves, how we can act good or badly depending of who we are around us. For example when among our friends we have half drinkers and half non-drinkers you easily starts to think half of the world drinks. Or when challenger was launched in 1986 despite engineers warnings and it killed 7 people because the big boss only listened to the other big bosses they usually agree with. Or when a fake news appears and you don’t see many people refuting it.

You have all of these in it, and it’s pretty interesting! Give it a try!


As another kind of game you can find there is one I found while looking at the list of Nicky Case’s projects :

Coming out simulator.

Here we have one of Nicky’s first games. A very personal one where they talk about their coming out, what was said, and what happened next. Well, half-what happened.

You know I’m pansexual and I made my coming out too but I had the chance to have tolerant parent (my mom said something upsetting though). So what was in that game… I wasn’t ready for it. Like I wondered how we even could say things like that or act like their parents did. But they said it was full of things that was said so I believe them. Yet I didn’t feel comfortable at all while playing.

But that game is worth playing! Because he was seriously well-made, and the start as well as the end was rather funny. Well, not entirely but you feel Nicky takes it lightly today and is more like “yeah it happened and now I’m good, everything is going well for me”.


I’ll just talked about another one. One I hesitated to shared but it actually is good so…

Nothing to hide

A big brother kind of game in which you live in a world where people agree to say they don’t need a private life, that we should watch everyone 24/7 and that if someone isn’t visible by the cameras so they are suspicious and must be arrested immediately. Thus in that game you must manage to be seen by them all along while trying to flee your father, the minister in that world.

The hardest of them all! Especially for my puzzle game skills that are pretty low. And worst: my skills at 3 am! Where I’m the most impatient!

But it’s honestly an well-built world I wanna know more of and it’s pretty fun to do. So it’s worth a try! Just know that it’s the demo of game since long dead, which I’m incredibly sad about.



With these examples you have an idea of what you can wait from that website. Well, most of what I didn’t talk about are more essays like The wisdom and/or madness of crowds but they’re all interesting in some ways. And it teaches a lot with the media of interactive stories.

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On the last week of November 2015, I lost someone indescribably special & influential to me&hell

On the last week of November 2015, I lost someone indescribably special & influential to me…

My beloved big brother, Kingsley, Abiola, Oginni was the person behind my artistic gifts… He trained & nurtured me from as early as 11yrs old through to my teenage years. In the early 90’s he would teach me how to draw, at first copying characters out of video game magazines (‘Mean Machine’ games mag), then later more advanced principals using 'The Marvel Way to Draw Comics’ book… He would also set up a regular 'drawing club’ for me & my younger brother in our bedroom where he’d provide us with paper, pencils, colours & other resources. He’d grade me & my brother out of 10, & I was always proud to get top marks from him.

Since his transition, I’ve been unable to work on any of my own personal projects. I didn’t know what it was before, only that it was directly linked to him. I had been working on several illustrations prior to what happened, but since then I hadn’t been able to bring myself to continue… I took the last few weeks to try to analyse what was going on & how I needed to deal with it. Finally it came to me… Because my brother Kingsley was so paramount to the development & cultivation of my gifts, consciously & unconsciously my art/ artistic journey & career has always been connected to him. I can only describe it as him having guided me throughout my entire growth as an artist, which had been a very intimate thing… As a result of his passing, I hadn’t anticipated the reality of continuing this journey without him & the emotions it would bring up.

I’ve come to the acceptance now that he would want me to stay on the path (without his physical presence) & keep pressing on. So as an act of accepting his transition, I felt very strongly that before I could do anything else, I had to first honor him for all he was/ is (still) to me with this illustration.

It’s been VERY emotional working on it as it brought to memory so much I love & recall about him; but at the same time I felt a peace within me that seemed to grow with each line I drew. Finally it’s now completed, & I feel ready to move forward knowing I have paid this homage to him & have his blessing.

I titled this illustration, 'The Creator’.

May his Spirit rest in blissful Peace

You Biola…
Your bro, Folabi

-M-


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Jason: Pixie! Since when did you have a Tiktok account?


Marinette: Since Paris? Why wouldn’t I have it? ..Jason?


Jason: [Furiously scrolls through account.] Who is that in your video? [..reads caption] Adrien?! Is this the same Adrien who’s going to be staying here?


Dick: Did I hear an Adrien?


Damian: Yes. Yes you did.


Marinette: [Faces Damian, and makes a ‘you’re dead’ movement.] [She tries to escape while she can.]


Jason: Oh no no no! You aren’t off the hook young lady! ‘You used the song Apple bottom jeans?!!’


Marinette: [Mumbles angrily.] Can the ground consume me?


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