Demigirls who menstruate are STRONG

Demigirl? No, I think you mean demigoddess.

“What’s it like to be a demigirl?”

Hello! Figuring out your gender identity can be really tricky and rather stressful at times, and may include a lot of asking yourself, “does this label fit?” One of the things that helped me most was reading the experiences of people with different identities and seeing what aligned with my own feelings!

Being demigender means having a partial connection to a certain gender.

I’m a demigirl that was afab. On any given day I feel a fluctuating level of attachment to femininity. Sometimes I’ll feel comfortable enough as feminine to tolerate my birth name/she her pronouns/etc. However, I extremely rarely feel fully female.

Other times I will be extremely disassociated from it, and feel body dysphoria (where my feminine features make me feel extremely uncomfortable), and social dysphoria (where being labeled with those pronouns and birth name, or being called a girl, feels very wrong.)

When detached from femininity, the feelings that I do have would be best described as nonbinary. Not female does not always mean male, but sometimes something that is outside of those two boxes. “Nonbinary” is used as a term for having a gender outside the two binary genders- male and female.

I hope this is helpful to those of you figuring things out! It’s okay to be unsure of your identity, and to try on new labels as you go along. Or, if you don’t feel like a gender label is a thing for you, that’s perfectly okay too! If you’re questioning and reading this, I love you and support you, and feel free to ask any questions you may have!

Dear Demigirls,

Hi! Here’s a flower- it’s just for you!

It’s super gorgeous, just like you are!

If you’re ever feeling down, remember….

You’re wonderful in a thousand different ways, and nothing will ever change that! All you demigirls are lovely. ♡

transsafeuserboxes:

to all agender people: you are an amazing genderless human being who doesnt need a gender to be happy!!

to all bigender people: you dont have to “”choose”” just one gender!! if you identify with both, then you are!!

to all genderfluid/flux people: your gender doesnt always have to stay the same!! it can be fluid!!

to all demiboys: youre not “basically a boy”!! youre still nb and wonderful!!

to all demigirls: youre not “basically a girl”!! youre part of the nb community!!

to all nonbinary people: youre valid and amazin and you dont have to adhere to the gender binary!!

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