Being multigender doesn’t have to mean that you go between completely different genders
You can be female and demigirl. Agender and gendervoid. Male and proxvir. Even if the genders you experience are close to one another, you can still consider yourself multigender
So today I told my sister that I’m demigender and she IMMEDIATELY said “Oh like Alex from the Magnus Chase books? Or similar right?”
Fuckingthis is why we need representation of non mainstream sexualities and genders. Not just so people can see themselves, but so people can see others.
i hope its ok to show ur url, if not I’ll totally take this down, but this is useful information!
1. No, since this is a side blog, I looked through and could not find an option for messaging. It may be turned off as I’m not the sole owner of this side blog!
2. following the same op first, yes its totally fine to have those flags if you want those! There is a demigender flag, but you'dhave to find a like, etsy seller who has it!!
3. currently moodboard requests are closed as I don’t have the time, phone space or energy to make too many of them, I’m so sorry!
hey yall!! same stuff; hope you got some answers in downtime! for the first anon, that sounds like a fluid gender identity, and I hope you found what feels right! 2nd anon, i fluctuated with that for a while! Two very different yet so close expressions and feelings, those are. If you feel you fit the binary, then that’ll answer your question!
Can we admire how ur all really cool?? Like damn you could take down a demon or some shit. If you can take out a monster you can face the hate people give you. Love u have a nice day
So that means today, and every other day, we must remember our beautifully brave and courageous Trans* sisters and brothers, but also our nonbinary siblings as well.
Not all Trans people are binary. Here’s to our enby friends who are transitioning in a way to be more androgynous, or gender neutral.
Here’s to the afab enbies who are transmasc, and amab enbies who are transfeminine, but do not identify with either binary gender.
To those who are not transitioning, because they are happy with their current bodies. Society correlates certain body types and elements with a gender, but your body is not simeoultaneous with your gender. Your decision to not transition does not invalidate you!
To those whose bodies cause them dysphoria, who wish to transition but currently cannot due to certain circumstances.
Any body is a nonbinary body, regardless of how you change it, if at all. There are so many diverse ways to be nonbinary, and each is wonderful and deserves to be celebrated. To all enbies, and to my fellow users who partially identify as nb (hi demi, genderfluid, bigender, etc. friends who encompass being non-binary in their identities!), I love you, and you are powerfully inspiring. I hope you have a wonderful day!
Hello! Figuring out your gender identity can be really tricky and rather stressful at times, and may include a lot of asking yourself, “does this label fit?” One of the things that helped me most was reading the experiences of people with different identities and seeing what aligned with my own feelings!
Being demigender means having a partial connection to a certain gender.
I’m a demigirl that was afab. On any given day I feel a fluctuating level of attachment to femininity. Sometimes I’ll feel comfortable enough as feminine to tolerate my birth name/she her pronouns/etc. However, I extremely rarely feel fully female.
Other times I will be extremely disassociated from it, and feel body dysphoria (where my feminine features make me feel extremely uncomfortable), and social dysphoria (where being labeled with those pronouns and birth name, or being called a girl, feels very wrong.)
When detached from femininity, the feelings that I do have would be best described as nonbinary. Not female does not always mean male, but sometimes something that is outside of those two boxes. “Nonbinary” is used as a term for having a gender outside the two binary genders- male and female.
I hope this is helpful to those of you figuring things out! It’s okay to be unsure of your identity, and to try on new labels as you go along. Or, if you don’t feel like a gender label is a thing for you, that’s perfectly okay too! If you’re questioning and reading this, I love you and support you, and feel free to ask any questions you may have!
[Image description: a photo of various demigender themed items including needle felted hearts, three stickers, a four bottle charms. The stickers each have a Pokemon and a flag. The upper left sticker has the demigirl flag and a minccino. The upper right sticker has the demienby/demigender flag and a jangmo-o. The bottom sticker has a demiboy flag and a carbink. From left to right, the bottle charms contain the demiboy, demienby, demigirl, and demiflux flags.]
happy trans day of visibility, trans fam! I am humbly asking each and every one of you to do something small for yourself today. Life can be hard and you deserve a little smile. I love you!!
[ID: an image of the tri-spiral from Newgrange in the centre of the muted rainbow, aro ace, nblm, nblw, genderqueer, genderqueer guy, genderfluid, agender, demiboy and demigirl flags]
[ID as Gaeilge: pictúir de dearadh na dtrí bhís ó Sí an Bhrú ar na bratachaí bogha báistí, gan-ghnéas gan rómáns, neamh-dhénártha a mbíonn grá acu d’fhir, neamh-dhénártha a mbíonn grá acu do mná, inscne aiteach, leaid inscne aiteach, inscne-sholúbtha, gan inscne, leath-buachaill agus leath-cailín]
I am interested in finding a way to easily show my pride at being Irish and being queer so made these. I decided to use a shamrock, a Celtic knot and the tri-spiral design from Newgrange. I placed them in the centre, large, but also to the top right, small.
Having made them all I think my favourite is the small tri-spiral but I have queued all six designs up so you can use whichever you like.
If you do use my edit for something please let me know - I’d love to see. Credit however isn’t needed.
[Image ID: A flag with nine equally-sized horizontal stripes. From top to bottom, the colors are deep grey, royal blue, turquoise, pastel green, denim blue, pastel green, turquoise, royal blue, and deep grey. End ID.]
Going to laugh in the face of any cis-man who says men have it harder then other genders/sexes.
Try living with having to take your tampon out every fucking time you have to take a shit.
Try having really really bad back cramps, from being on your period (or if you’re pregnant), but not react at all.
Try living with literal cis-men wanting literal control over your body; basically telling you that your right to your own body should be limited.
These are just a FEW examples of what non cis-men go through.
Y’all cis-men either complain just as much as any other genders/sexes, or even more than other genders/sexes actually do themselves.
Telling non cis-men to get over themselves, or to stop being so liberal. Or even giving yourself a literal pity party, by falsely claiming that non cis-men are trying to somehow magically make you lgbtq. Hunny, they are not. But if you were THAT invested / curious, maybe you are. And that’s okay boo. You do you.
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