#gay erasure
That’s between you and the Oxford English Dictionary, which defines lesbian as “a homosexual woman”; defines homosexual as “attracted to one’s own sex”; and defines sex as “a person’s genitals”. So yeah, that’s kind of why this is all inherently about “somebody’s fucking genitals.” That’s just how sexualities work.
You can make up your own definitions for these words or use the wrong label for your sexuality all you want, but don’t be mad at the rest of us for using words correctly.
And there’s nothing wrong with being bisexual and not caring about which genitals your partner has. So maybe stop erasing yourself.
Gay men: *victims of the most lethal shooting in US history*
Gay men: *demonized and oversexualized in media*
Gay men: *currently put in concentration camps in Russia*
Tumblr: uwu gay cis men are the new Oppressors™ uwu… So disgusting and icky… monosexual privilege uwu
