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 Hellian/Infernian: Alternative to infernal- and hell- aligned. A xenic alignment to hell and/or inf

Hellian/Infernian: Alternative to infernal- and hell- aligned. A xenic alignment to hell and/or infernal energies.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors in this flag are commonly associated with demons and/or hell. the color of the skull symbol is meant to be similar to the color of bone.


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 Adorbian: A xenic alignment to cuteness or cute things. i made flags for all of the xenic alignment

Adorbian: A xenic alignment to cuteness or cute things.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors in this flag are loosely based on one of the gendercute flags.


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 Candian: A xenic alignment to candy. i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post bas

Candian: A xenic alignment to candy.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors in this flag are common candy colors.


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 Snowian: A xenic alignment to snow. i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post base

Snowian: A xenic alignment to snow.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors in this flag are meant to be cold.


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 Deifian: A xenic alignment to divinity and divine entities. i made flags for all of the xenic align

Deifian: A xenic alignment to divinity and divine entities.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors in this flag are meant to evoke being above the clouds. the symbol in the center is intended to represent divinity in a nondenominational way.


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 Noxian: A xenic alignment to darkness or night. i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for th

Noxian: A xenic alignment to darkness or night.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors in this flag are supposed to evoke the idea of a dreamy sunset.


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 Cryptidian: A xenic alignment to cryptids. i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this po

Cryptidian: A xenic alignment to cryptids.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors in this flag are meant to be murky and mysterious. the symbol in the center is the loch ness monster.


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 Fablian: A xenic alignment to mythical/legendary creatures. i made flags for all of the xenic align

Fablian: A xenic alignment to mythical/legendary creatures.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors in this flag are meant to emit a feeling of wonder. the animal symbol is a jackalope, a mythical rabbit with antlers.


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 Botanarian: A xenic alignment to plants. i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post

Botanarian: A xenic alignment to plants.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the green is to represent green leaves, and the purple is just to look nice :]


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 Gemmian: A xenic alignment to gemstones. i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post

Gemmian: A xenic alignment to gemstones.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors in this flag are based on common gem tones.


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 Metallarian: A xenic alignment to metals. i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this pos

Metallarian: A xenic alignment to metals.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors of this flag are based on the colors of raw metals.


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 Chromarian: A xenic alignment to color(s). Can be used like tealian, purplian, creamian, etc. i mad

Chromarian: A xenic alignment to color(s). Can be used like tealian, purplian, creamian, etc.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the color wheel in the center is from the colorgender flag.


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 Aviarian: Faunarian aligned with birds.i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post b

Aviarian: Faunarian aligned with birds.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors of this flag are based loosely on the common colors of pigeons.


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 Amphibarian: Faunarian aligned with amphibians.i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for thi

Amphibarian: Faunarian aligned with amphibians.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors of this flag are based on a red-eyed tree frog.


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 Reptilarian: Faunarian aligned with reptiles.i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this

Reptilarian: Faunarian aligned with reptiles.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors of this flag are based on the colors of an iguana and the footprint belongs to the parasaurolophus dinosaur.


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 Felisarian: Faunarian aligned with felines or felidae.i made flags for all of the xenic alignments

Felisarian: Faunarian aligned with felines or felidae.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors of this flag are based on the coat of an orange tabby cat


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 Caninarian: Faunarian aligned with canines or canidae.i made flags for all of the xenic alignments

Caninarian: Faunarian aligned with canines or canidae.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors of this flag are loosely based on the coat of a german shephard.


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 Faunarian: A xenic alignment to animal(s). Alternative term for fauna-/zoo- aligned.i made flags  Faunarian: A xenic alignment to animal(s). Alternative term for fauna-/zoo- aligned.i made flags  Faunarian: A xenic alignment to animal(s). Alternative term for fauna-/zoo- aligned.i made flags

Faunarian: A xenic alignment to animal(s). Alternative term for fauna-/zoo- aligned.

i made flags for all of the xenic alignments for this post based on this equusarian flag so they’re all a matching set!

the colors of this flag are taken from the faunagender flag, with an edited version of the xenogender symbol. couldn’t decide which one i liked best so have three.


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Post surgery musings 3; Our Sad, Broken Healthcare System

Hullo!!!

As you know, I’m 5 months out since my gender affirmation surgery. Healing has been slow and a bit uncomfortable, but wonderful overall.

Regarding some of that uncomfortableness, my surgeon set up a revision procedure to tweak things a bit, and to help with overall comfort and aesthetics. I had that on July 30th.

So now, it’s been 2 weeks since my revision and all is well. I expect to be back living my best life around August the 19th.

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I wanted to share a thing. So, I love my Surgeon. In fact, my wife teases me by referring to him as my “boyfriend.” Between him, his assistant (that is now a good friend of mine), my physical therapist, AND the night nurse from my time in the hospital, I now have QUITE the crew going. These folks have been amazing, and I owe my life to them, literally.

The hospital however. Jeeze. So you’ll recall when they thought I was hiding a pregnancy? Wehhhhlllllll this last time, when I went in for pre-surgery testing, they asked me about the HYSTERECTOMY I had back in March, and how I was doing.

A hysterectomy. Really, though?

I find it TERRIFYING that the hospital – a GOOD highly RESPECTED hospital - people in whose hands I entrust MY LIFE to, can’t seem to agree what a person is there to do, and/or get done. What if I was going in for an appendectomy, and they did a lobotomy? For real, how incompetent are hospitals!? We pay through the nose for quality healthcare, shouldn’t they be better at it?

I considered correcting them, but at this point, I just don’t have the energy. So instead, I said “I’m doing well,” feel “mostly healed” and how I’m looking forward to “getting all this ‘hoo-hah’ business behind me, once and for all.”

The doctor (a lady one) then commented; “I bet you’re excited to not have to deal with menopause, am I right?”

“Sure,” I said.

In a way, this was very validating for me, as they CLEARLY believe me to have been assigned female at birth. Why not roll with it? And ultimately, is it really THAT far off the road from what actually happened?

*facepalm*

And folks wonder why I simply do NOT trust the healthcare system.

These kind of administrative f@#k-ups are PRECISELY how people end up dead on a table and why malpractice is a thing. How is this still an issue in 2019?!

Anyway, that’s my update.

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