A group of 10 teenage girls come into the restaurant.
“What time do you guys close?”
I say, “We close at 10:00pm”
She replies, “table for ten please”
A little frustrated (because I’m not a fucking hostess/server) I seat them and inform them that a server will be with them shortly. I have to go to the back and retrieve a server who just got her tips from the day and is packing up to go home.
“_____, we have a table of ten for you..”
She started to cry because she had been there since we OPENED that morning and hadn’t seen her babies that day.
Obviously she’s angry too, and it shows. But she’s still attentive to the young ladies.
They don’t get up from the table until almost 11:00 and come to the front to pay.
“Our server was a bitch” “Our server was mean” “Our server didn’t like us”
“Your server just wanted to go home an hour ago,” I say.
“It’s her job, she’s getting paid, so what?”
I let them know that she’s worked hard today and wanted to be able to see her kids before her husband tucks them in bed.
They pay, leave no tip for her, and leave the building.
The moral of the story is that it’s not “cute” or “cool” to go to restaurants late at night right before they close. Workers want to go home. Workers want to see their families. Workers want to get sleep so they can do it all over again tomorrow.
It doesn’t matter if you’re rude or polite.
When we say that we close at 10:00pm, we would really like to ACTUALLY close at 10:00pm. And even if you leave RIGHT AT closing, that server still has to clean up after you. Make sure the table is clean, make sure the floor is clean, make sure the dishes are clean and put away, make sure they have their tips, and get a manager to walk them to their car.
We don’t care about your $3 tip. We want to go home.
reminder that servers/workers are people too and they have lives and the majority of them have families. dont forget your humanity
I work in fast food and I can confirm this is the most tedious and frustrating thing.
Big wall of text incoming under the cut because there is a LOT to cover here, but we ask that first of allnone of you send hate,death threats, etc to the individual in question. It’s not constructive and will just give her cause to view herself as a victim. Simply block her accounts and move on. Hate is never okay, no matter how disgusting or horrible a person is. Please be the better person and spread awareness, not hate.
Call out culture is generally harmful but as the Jojo fanbase has a lot of young fans we felt we had to give a warning because this person is becoming genuinely dangerous. Preying on kids online ain’t cute. And although the Jojo fandom is her main space she is also a fan of Minecraft,Pokemon,RPG Horror(Yume Nikki,IB,.flow, etc) among others so even if you’re not into JJBA please keep an eye out!
A complete list of all known accounts of this person will be listed at the end of the post but it is safe to assume that she will abandon every single one of them by the time she sees this so please continue to be wary of anyone who seems suspicious just in case.
Oh, and if this person or any of her friends sees this and decides to come after anyone who contributed evidence/testimonies/etc then don’t even bother. We’ll know who you are and at the end of the day are you really willing to defend someone who hits on 14 year olds after being told to stop? Is THAT the hill you’re willing to die on?
And before you call us out for bullshit, we have proof. We have witnesses. And we have testimonies as stated above.
I don’t wanna edit the whole text post but an anonymous mutual has informed me she changed her blog name from torisshuuna to unastrish
Please be cautious if you stumble upon them
Update 2:
She’s deactivated all of her blogs. So there’s one victory! But our mutual friends are on edge because she may pop up again.
But fear not, we’re going to be around the clock gathering new names where ever she pops up. So be sure to track this post as I’ll be adding to it.
I won’t stand anything bad happening. Not after all of this.
But anyways, thank you for your continued support and make sure to spread this around. You all deserve to be safe in the fandom that has united us.
Much love.
Update 3:
Hhhhh sorry for the flood of updates today but now she changed her Twitter to @/ieroshimark
Block her if you can. Thanks.
Got another update for everyone.
I thought we were done. I really did. But I was wrong. Our mutual friends came to us freaking out. So uh, here’s the new things.
One of our mods is pissed as fuck because they are in the JJBA Search History community and now she’s there too!! So please please please spread the word!
Newest Blog (Probably deleted already) @/ Lucysearchhistory
Discord:
Another Update. Jesus fuck.
Tbh us mods were really excited to see Trish gone for months, which felt like for good but they’re starting to come back again.
Granted, we would have no proof it was her if she didn’t well… Y'know… Block us on Twitter for no reason. Cuz none of us are popular enough to get blocked for no reason.
I know it’s probably stupid oming back months later. But myself and the other mods made a promise to always update you no matter how long its been since.
So here is Trish’s new Twitter. New year, no pedos. And I’m not sorry. We’ll also continue to look for any other accounts she may have brought back.
Please remember to block her and spread this around again. We want everyone to be safe!!
I’m going to quickly dismiss any type of assholes arguement of “not everyone wants porn on their blog” because not every naked photo is considered porn. If all you want to do is make an excuse for yourself to spam like someone personal posts then dismiss yourself from my account you are no longer welcome here
And if you have minors following you and THATS the reason why you can’t reblog my shit then you shouldn’t even be here anyway what the fuck
Autistic people should be allowed to hyperfixate on things. That’s obvious.
I’m sure plenty of ppl on here know I go through fandom phases where I just hyperfixate on a specific pairing, cartoon, game, whatever. I have ADD and I’m autistic and I have ‘odd’ not fandom related interests people who aren’t autistic would think are weird probably. My example would be my interest in the hymenoptera family of insects (bees, ants, and especially wasps!) which i’ve had ever since I was a very very young child lol
But hyperfixation doesn’t automatically make it ok for you to create and share content that can endanger children, survivors of abuse, perpetuates racism, etc
‘but I can’t help it, it’s my hyperfixation! you’re ableist!’ please get help.
Draken chokes on his drink, almost swallows it down the wrong pipe but he at least has the decency to not spray it out like they do on tv. You instantly recoil into yourself and tug the sleeves of your sweater over your hands. It could have been worse, you tell yourself in consolation. He could have started laughing so you guess silence is better than that.
But is it really better when he stares at you so intensely with such a stiff face that you know is only placid through sheer determination so that he may not humiliate you any further?
“Hmm?” The blonde pounds at his chest. Two beats resound until he gives a throaty cough, “S-say that again?”
You frown, an impish look with a puff of your cheeks. “Don’t make me do that. It’s embarrassing.”
“What’s so embarrassing about it? It’s just a kiss.” Draken tries to feign nonchalance by taking another sip of his cold soda and ease his throat and nerves. It’s a futile attempt from the one he basically inhaled prior.
You flick the can in his hand. He yells in surprise but it fizzes out when you start reprimanding him. “Oh, don’t do that either! You just choked on your drink! Of course it’s a big deal.”
“You just said if out of nowhere is all.” Draken says. In reality, of course he’s surprised. He’s sworn you’ve had your first kiss by now. How could you not? You’re so lovable and nice. He can’t be the only that sees it. But what you need right now is an anchor so he settles himself down and leans his weight back onto his hands. He lifts his face to the sun and stares at the horizon. The sun is setting in sherbet hues. “You told Mikey?”
“Pfft. Of course not. I’d never hear the end of it.”
He chuckles in agreement. “What about Mitsuya?”
“No. He’d give me such a pitiful look I don’t think I could handle it.” And when you say that, you turn yourself to the sun too, absorbing its warmth like a field of sunflowers while your legs swing underneath you.
“So why me?”
“I don’t know.” But you do. Draken makes you feel safe. He’s home and with him, you feel whole. It doesn’t matter if you’re hugging his waist on his bike going 80 in the pitch black of night or if you’re here in the grass, near a riverbank at sundown. And call you a hopeless romantic but you’ve always imagined it to be with someone like him, someone you trust. “Maybe because I— I want—“
You tug at your sleeves once more. They twist in your fingers as you try and find any outlet to rid yourself of the fish bone that you can’t hack out of your chest.
“You want it to be me?”
You graciously nod, more than thankful that he finishes the sentence for you.
“You sure?” He’s bewildered. “Me? There are nicer guys out there.”
“You’re nice too, Draken.”
“Nicer than me. I’m a good for nothing—“
“Shut up and kiss me.” Draken almost smirks at how eager you sound, but fuck, when did you get so close? Last he saw, you were over there, but now you’re near enough that, if he wanted, he could count every single lash that graces your lids. And how you simply sparkle in the sunset. And Draken doesn’t consider himself much of a romantic, but damn, these sherbet skies feel like it’s a fairytale.
So he presses his lips against yours, a soft tentative touch on both your ends, like treading water for the first time. It’s cozy and warm he can’t help but drown himself in the feeling by moving his lips even further.
But you pull away. Disappointed for only a moment, he revels at the dreamy look in your eye that is buffered by the shy way you bite your lip to hide your grin.
“Th-thanks,” And the smile breaks. “That was a cool first kiss.”
“What about a second?” He takes his hand to the back of your neck and pulls you in. “And a third?” Another kiss.
Guys, Stoya just basically put everything on the line here. I really admire her courage, and I know what’s ahead for her is going to suck like crazy.
It’s scary to me that people can hide behind pretending to be progressive and feminist, can use these labels as a disguise for some fucked up stuff. I’ve encountered two people in my kink experience that have wound up to be rapists masquerading as feminists, and it’s not only fucking terrifying, but it’s even harder for survivors’ experiences to be viewed as legitimate. It’s also profoundly fucked up that people, like Deen, use feminism as a tool to get victims to trust them.
So I stand with Stoya.
I stand with Stoya.
I don’t reblog anything with Deen in it if I can identify him. That guy can go fuck himself. And if anyone reading my blog has a problem with that - y’all can go fuck yourselves too.
no, i’m not watching little women (2019) because i’m anxious about my future and career in a tough industry and wishing that i could feel the warmth and joy and security of my childhood, it’s on netflix now ???
