#how to please my man

This is advice for those who are fantasizing about becoming subsluts and are not yet owned. For those who are owned, this may give you something to think about.

1. Stop wearing bras and panties.

2. Always wear revealing clothing. Your nipples, breasts and pussy should be easily seen and accessed.

3. Try not to have tattoos and piercings as your body should be a blank template for your future Master to use as he wishes.

4. Voraciously consume written material in this post and the rest of this blog and similar blogs to gain some direction and purpose.

5. Immediately obey all men in all areas of life. Apart from sexual matters which I will explore further in this post, this will involve obedience in financial, academic, social, family matters, etc. Start obeying your annoying younger brother for example. Give in to all his requests. Give him everything you have without any complaints.

6. Obey all men, no matter how young or old, smart or intellectually disabled, slim or fat, attractive or unattractive, well groomed or dirty and smelly, rich or poor, physically/mentally able or disabled, dominant or submissive, aggressive or passive, in all areas of life without question and without limits.

7. Advertise your submission to all men you come across in the way you behave and smile to them and anticipate and live to please their every wish and fancy.

8. Send all men who request, your nude pictures and videos including those of your friends, sisters and so on, without hesitation.

9. For you there is no such thing as molest, rape and assault as you are a tool for all men to use as they wish.

10. Actively encourage men to grope and use you at will. If a stranger gropes you, position yourself such that it becomes much easier for him to grope you. Only go away when he physically makes you.

11. Kiss men only on their penis and anus, unless they insist otherwise.

12. Try to perform oral sex on all men that you know and don’t know. Perform oral sex in whichever way the man wants it. I for example, want to be embraced while I fuck the sub’s face mercilessly.

13. If you perform oral sex, always lick his anus and when you do, stick your tongue as far as you can into his anal cavity.

14. When he cums on your face, drink and swallow what goes into your mouth and leave the rest on your face to dry.

15. Beg all men to use you as a toilet. Drink his piss, lick his anus clean, eat his shit.

16. Always sleep with your face in his crotch or anus.

17. Use his penis as a pacifier and try to suck on him 24/7, if he is soft or hard, distracted or interested, pissing, shitting or not, awake or asleep.

18. Get your sisters, friends, cousins, other female relatives, or other girls to join you in a harem under the same rules as discussed above and look for your Master.

19. Look for your master in all men be they friends, teachers, relatives, strangers, in person or online. Tumblr seems to be a great place to find a master for yourself as the men here are really openly advertising their sexual interests. You should approach all men on tumblr who claim to be masters and beg to serve as they wish.

20. Any man who claims you as his sub-slave will from that point onward be your only Master and you will only serve him and whoever else he wishes.

A subslut will make no distinction between a good looking rich 20 something year old dominant man and a dirty, homeless, morbidly obese, 70 something year old man walking with a hunch and a limp. She must have served the underclass to be truly a subslut worthy of such a title. I really value the pretty young girl daily pleasuring and getting a cum facial from a great grandfather in a wheel chair.

Example scenario of a great subslut:
Tania dresses like a subslut and often walks through a seedy park where some dirty, homeless people congregate. Whenever she gets cat called, she smiles in appreciation. One day a drunk middle aged fat guy with a huge beer gut accosts her and when she turns into a secluded area, grabs her from behind and squeezes her breasts hard. She makes no motion to resist his actions and turns toward him. He then pulls her breasts out and fondles and bites them hard. She winces a little in pain but places her hands on his head to encourage him to continue, which he does. He then pushes her head down and she quickly rushes to his crotch which is wreaking of body odour and dried cum and piss. She pulls out his penis and kisses it sweetly and begins to suck on him whilst he fucks her face. She proceeds to lick his anus which he has not washed or cleaned in a long time. Meanwhile he turns her over and fucks her dry in her ass. Her ass hurts a lot but she bites her lip while he uses her to his satisfaction. He then pulls out finally and cums on her face. She swallows all of the cum that flows into her mouth and leaves the rest on her face. The man slaps her across the face and takes all of her money. He tells her “You’re mine bitch!” and spits on her as he walks off. Tania manages to crawl home and tell her two younger sisters about having become a true subslut and finding a master for their harem. They dress her wounds while they excitedly discuss about how they will serve their new master. All three girls go the next day dressed as subsluts and look for their master who is passed out drunk under a tree in the park. They book a hotel room and take him there where they take his clothes off and suck his penis and lick his anus together. They do this until he finally wakes up and looks at them surprised and starts hitting them. They then explain to him that they are there to serve him completely and Tania immediately shows her sincerity by approaching his penis and sucking him with the other two quickly following suit. The man came to accept his role as a Master and many things happened that night. The two younger sisters lost their virginity in all their holes and all three of them drank his piss and took turns to lick his ass clean after he had taken a shit. They gave the man all their money when they left and they continued to serve him every day as he saw fit….

I hope you all enjoyed this one. I certainly did. Please feel free to reblog and share the love for this is but a labour of love and passion. I am always open to questions and more, so don’t hesitate to contact me if you wish.

This is a difficult question to answer and you will likely find as many answers as there are sexual fetishes. You will find that many separate the two as a matter of the intensity of the submission. However, this gets confusing as the way one views and calls themselves is vastly different from how another sub/slave does the same, although they might use the same term. You find “slaves” setting incredibly soft limits, and then you can find “subs” who essentially will do practically anything with no limits at all, yet call themselves subs. Where then do we draw the line?

As with sexual preferences we all exist on a vast spectrum and these distinctions are arbitrary and personal. In apparent disregard to their actual level of activity, people identify a certain way as opposed to others based on a purely subjective appraisal of themselves. It just doesn’t help when communicating with another as it may be hard to tell apart those who are simply fantasizing about a lifestyle from those who are actually living it. It becomes harder when those practicing this lifestyle use the same terms to mean vastly different things.

I am no different and to be frank I use these terms inconsistently myself in my posts, which is more about marketing my blog and posts. The term slave just gives a sense of so much more clarity. Nevertheless, this is my personal method of distinguishing the two terms of subs and slaves.

1.subs: Those who willingly surrender to the will of their master(s). They may set no limits or have some of their own limits. However, their defining feature is their ability to take personal initiative in the pleasure of their master. They have brains and they use their brains to think about ways to please their master. For example, a sub may be a high-flyer in her job and at the end of the day, she may return and strip naked and cook for her master. She might spend her money on him for his pleasure. She may be actively looking for other women to join their harem and working on seducing them. (Naturally, I am gravitating to my personal fantasy, which I am sure many of you share) 

2.slaves: Those who are taken and used at will without any care as to their will. They have no limits to set as they have no control of their destiny. They do not think or are not allowed to think. They have no possessions of their own. They are not allowed to have lives or dreams of their own except what is allowed by their master. Their motivations and initiative comes from their master. For example, a slave might be staying at home completely naked, chained with a long lead to allow her to use the toilet and get food to eat. When the master comes home, the slave is told to do various things like perform oral sex and so on and then left back in whatever position or condition the master wishes.

There is a third category (the vast majority), which is basically for those who ‘wannabe’ these things but are really limited by their various degrees of conformity to larger society. Let’s just call them “wannabe slaves” and “wannabe subs” and leave it at that.

So, as you can see, these distinctions are more about your role in the relationship. If you are an active participant taking your own initiative thinking of ways to satisfy your master, you are a sub, whether you have limitations or not. Conversely, if you are a passive tool completely following your masters initiative and motivations, you are a slave. What do I prefer? Given the above definitions, I much prefer a sub with no limitations. I like the idea of women achieving their intellectual and other personal goals, and using their talents to please me and working actively to find out more about what satisfies me. But hey that’s just me and look, I have contradicted the title of the blog. :) What about you? Who are you deep inside your core? What is it that you truly desire in your heart of hearts?

This is a topic that boggles the mind of many girls. You may feel the need to draw the line somewhere in your Dom-sub/slave relationship (thus completely negating the point of such a relationship) but you want desperately for your master to desire you. If you are with a man, surrender completely from the very beginning and live to please. If you do this, your relationship will blossom to new heights. You will have true purpose and your master and you would have achieved your respective primal goals. For those who need more structure and instruction, I have some strong recommendations for you to follow. Points in bold are my personal favourites.

1. Flash him your boobs (bare minimum) and pussy from the first date/meeting.

2. Never wear any underwear and always wear something that will reveal your body with ease.

3. Always press your body up against him and encourage him to grope, rub and finger you freely. Especially ask him to finger your anus all the time.

4. Send him nude selfies and videos of yourself and with friends frequently.

5. Always try to spend your entire date in a room or private area, making out with him.

6. Try to kiss him on his penis for your very first kiss with him.

7. Spend your entire time with him on his penis.

8. Rub your face in his crotch, lick him all over and suck with reckless abandon.

9. Train yourself to take him completely into your mouth and throat.

10. Place his hands on your head to use as he pleases.

11. Never hold his penis with your hand(s). Your hands should be embracing his body while he thrusts himself into your mouth.

12. Always lick his balls and anus and stick your tongue deep into his anus while he masturbates or you masturbate him.

13. Make sure he cums in your mouth and/or face.

14. Make sure you lick and swallow every last drop of cum.

15. If there is any cum left on your face, do not wipe it off. Leave it there until it dries completely and forget about it.

16. When preparing food for him or laying out meals, try to do this with your breasts and/or pussy exposed.

17. Suck on him while he eats.

18. Suck on him while he drinks.

19. Suck on him while he watches TV or plays games.

20. Suck on him while he is doing work.

21. Suck on him while he is on the phone.

22. Suck on him while he is in the shower.

23. Suck on him while he is sitting on the toilet.

24. Suck on him while he is asleep.

25. Suck on him from morning to night, whether it is soft or hard.

26. Talk to him with his penis in your mouth.

27. Use his penis as your pacifier.

28. Sleep with your face in his crotch, in his ass, or with his penis in your mouth.

29. Encourage him to squeeze, pull, pinch, bite (especially), twist, slap, punch your breasts and nipples with force.

30. Do all his requests on command. Surprise him and do these at other times as well. This will please him.

31. Encourage him to use your ass for sex all the time. Suck his penis for lubrication if you must. Otherwise, try to do it dry. He will really enjoy this.

32. Drink his piss daily and lick his ass clean. Be his toilet. Let him bless you and mark his territory with all of his juices.

33. Most importantly, always be working on making and growing a harem for him. Encourage him to think of, look at, play around with and use other girls, by bringing this up every time and discussing with your sisters, cousins, friends and other female relatives to join you in your relationship.

Always remember, a man who uses you completely, has trusted you completely to reveal his true self to you. This is an honour and privilege that you must surely treasure with all your heart. Feel free to discuss the above with me if this piques your interest as well.

Just as the girls stood up with their breasts out and their dresses lifted high above their pussies, Jenni’s phone rang. She looked at Steve, and he motioned for her to answer it. She quickly attended the call. It was their mother on the line and she was calling to see if they had finished watching the movie and she told Jenni to bring Gina home soon as it was getting very late. Jenni said okay and hung up and told Steve that Gina and her had to go home because their mum had called. Gina had begun to protest about having to go back home when Steve said that they could meet again another day.

He then said, ”I still need to finish what I started”, and sat the two girls down beside him on the couch. He then placed his hands on Gina’s head and pushed her down gently. Gina hardly needed an invitation. She was already in love with Steve’s penis. She liked how it felt both warm and hard at the same time. She liked the musky smell there and she desperately wanted to lick and suck on it. She was also worried that she was running out of time and so, rushed with an open mouth and tried to take all of him in at once. This took Steve by such a pleasant surprise that he pushed his penis with several thrusts into her mouth and ejaculated into her mouth. Gina did not expect that there would be this warm, salty-sweet liquid spurting into her mouth and did not know what to do. Holding her head down, he quickly told her to swallow his cum, which she did and she then kept on sucking. He then told her, “Did you like your birthday present?”, and she looked at him with his penis inside her and said a muffled “Yes, thank you so much!”.

Meanwhile, Steve pulled Jenni by her nipples and motioned her to put her breasts in his mouth while he bit and chewed them intensely. He also inserted his middle fingers slowly into their anuses and fingered them. Both girls were in ecstasy and had lost track of time. Steve’s penis had become flaccid by then in Gina’s mouth but she loved the soft, smooth and spongy texture of it as well and kept sucking it and playing with it inside her mouth. Steve almost had to use some force to pull it out. He laughed and said, “Darling, it’s time for you two to go home. We can do this and much much more again real soon”.

Gina and Jenni then pushed their breasts back in and got dressed before Steve accompanied them out and got them into a taxi back home. When they reached home, their mother was waiting for them with some dinner and she asked Gina, how was her birthday outing. Gina exclaimed that it was the best birthday ever. Gina could still smell and taste Steve and she felt an incredible longing to be with him again.

…To be continued…

Jenni and Gina had gone to sleep and woken up the next day feeling like they had been in a dream. They could hardly believe all that had happened the night before and were both looking forward to their date today. The girls had not informed Steve that today was Gina’s birthday. They had never been on a date before and didn’t know what to wear. So, they shaved and waxed and discussed at length about which top or dress they were going to wear. Then, all of a sudden, they both received a text from Steve. They reached for their phones excitedly and saw that in it was a set of instructions from him about what to wear, and how to get to his home. He told them both simply to wear short, thin dresses and no bras and panties. The girls had never been anywhere without their underwear and were worried about what their parents might say if they wore revealing dresses. However, they were eager to please their new boyfriend and devised a way to cover themselves with cardigans, as well as longer pants under their dresses, which they would change out of at the local mall. The girls excitedly put on some make-up and did their hair, giggling from the excitement. They told their mum that they were going to have dinner outside and watch a movie at the cinemas and would be back a little late, and not suspecting anything as both of them were together, their mum sent them off at the door happily. It was after all Gina’s birthday and both girls had been working hard all year. 

The two girls reached the nearby mall and went quickly into the toilets and got changed. Their nipples were clearly showing through their dress and so they kept their cardigans on for privacy. They then quickly jumped into a taxi and went straight to Steve’s home. Whilst on route to Steve’s home, they removed their cardigans and used their bags to cover themselves.

It had begun to rain and so as soon as the girls arrived at the door, Steve briskly ushered them into the house. They rushed in to get out of the rain and went into the lounge. Both girls were instinctively covering their chests with their bags and Steve told them to put their bags down. Nervously, they put them away and Steve then could see them fully in the beautiful dresses that they were wearing. Jenni was wearing a light blue and white dress with a floral pattern. The dress had a low neckline, with a lot of her ample cleavage showing and the dress sat just above the middle of her thighs. Her nipples were clearly poking through the thin material and had become very erect in the cold and wet weather. Gina was wearing a pink dress which did not show a lot of cleavage but it was shorter than Jenny’s dress. As the material was somewhat sheer, her whole breasts were clearly visible. 

Steve was staring at their bodies and had not said anything for awhile when Jenni then blurted out that it was Gina’s birthday that day. Steve admonished them for not informing him earlier as he had not gotten a present for Gina. He was however pleased with the way the girls had conducted themselves thus far. He knew they had gone a long way to show their affections and he wanted to show them his appreciation for all their efforts. He asked them to both sit beside him on the couch and turned on the television. They sat on either side of him and were watching the television when they slowly felt his hands slowly cupping their breasts and caressing their nipples. The girls felt a rush but froze and pulled away a little. They had no prior experience and had not even been kissed before. Sensing this, Steve told them that he was their master and would lead them all the way. He said that they belonged to him forever and completely and he would tell them exactly what they needed to do to please him. This was quite liberating for both girls as they had not really considered what they were meant to do. They liked the idea that they belong to one man, their master and all they had to do was to please him as he saw fit.

Slowly, they both relaxed and Steve then grabbed and fondled their breasts as the three of them watched a movie together. Steve quickly pulled their breasts out off their dresses and tugged and pulled at their nipples. Jenni’s breasts were much larger than Gina’s and were also sagging a little on her belly. Gina’s on the other hand had thicker nipples and larger areolas. All of these delighted Steve greatly. While squeezing Jenni’s large breasts, Steve leaned over and licked Gina’s nipples and started nibbling on them. This was very arousing for her and she found her hands reaching to caress his head. Taking the cue, he bit and pulled at her nipples and breasts with his teeth, which Gina found both painful and pleasurable. Pausing, he then moved to Jenni’s breasts lifting them up to his mouth and biting each one until bite marks were clearly visible all over them. Jenni really enjoyed this and wished he would go on forever.

Steve then stopped and told them both to stand up in front of him and face him. He told them to leave their breasts exposed. The girls, sufficiently intoxicated in pleasure, dutifully obliged. He then asked them to stand with their feet slightly apart and put their hands by their side and not to move no matter what. He told them he was now to going to inspect their bodies. The girls did not know what this meant but excitedly did as they were told. He then proceeded to lift their dresses slowly, edging eventually past their vaginas. Both girls had neatly trimmed their pubic hair but had not completely shaved them. He asked them to hold on to their lifted dresses with their hands whilst he examined their exposed vaginas. Steve reached between their legs and began rubbing their very wet clits and labias. The girls began breathing heavily, unable to contain themselves. He then asked them to turn around and bend over whilst continuing to lift their dresses. When they bent over, he slowly drenched his fingers in their wetness and proceeded to insert his middle fingers into their pussies and his index fingers into their anuses, at the same time. They were very tight and so Steve only managed to get partly along the way and then stopped and returned to rubbing their pussies.

He then asked them both to sit down next to him again and he immediately stood up. He motioned to both girls to sit together whilst he stood in front of them and undid his zipper. He pulled out his very erect penis in front of both girls and told them to kiss him there. Jenni had never seen an erect penis before in real life and was unsure about what she had to do especially given all that she had heard about the numerous and confusing right and wrong ways to give blow jobs. Gina also felt the same. So Steve put his hands on their heads and coaxed them towards his penis, and said, “Don’t think, let yourselves go and just kiss me”, and both planted their very first intimate kisses on his penis. Jenni said this was the first time she had ever kissed a guy and Gina also said the same, and that she had never imagined that this was how her first kiss would be, but would never have it any other way as it was so erotic. The girls planted many more kisses on his penis, relishing the moment. Steve was very pleased with this. His penis was throbbing by then and he asked the girls to follow him to the bedroom.

To be continued…