#how to please my master

This is a difficult question to answer and you will likely find as many answers as there are sexual fetishes. You will find that many separate the two as a matter of the intensity of the submission. However, this gets confusing as the way one views and calls themselves is vastly different from how another sub/slave does the same, although they might use the same term. You find “slaves” setting incredibly soft limits, and then you can find “subs” who essentially will do practically anything with no limits at all, yet call themselves subs. Where then do we draw the line?

As with sexual preferences we all exist on a vast spectrum and these distinctions are arbitrary and personal. In apparent disregard to their actual level of activity, people identify a certain way as opposed to others based on a purely subjective appraisal of themselves. It just doesn’t help when communicating with another as it may be hard to tell apart those who are simply fantasizing about a lifestyle from those who are actually living it. It becomes harder when those practicing this lifestyle use the same terms to mean vastly different things.

I am no different and to be frank I use these terms inconsistently myself in my posts, which is more about marketing my blog and posts. The term slave just gives a sense of so much more clarity. Nevertheless, this is my personal method of distinguishing the two terms of subs and slaves.

1.subs: Those who willingly surrender to the will of their master(s). They may set no limits or have some of their own limits. However, their defining feature is their ability to take personal initiative in the pleasure of their master. They have brains and they use their brains to think about ways to please their master. For example, a sub may be a high-flyer in her job and at the end of the day, she may return and strip naked and cook for her master. She might spend her money on him for his pleasure. She may be actively looking for other women to join their harem and working on seducing them. (Naturally, I am gravitating to my personal fantasy, which I am sure many of you share) 

2.slaves: Those who are taken and used at will without any care as to their will. They have no limits to set as they have no control of their destiny. They do not think or are not allowed to think. They have no possessions of their own. They are not allowed to have lives or dreams of their own except what is allowed by their master. Their motivations and initiative comes from their master. For example, a slave might be staying at home completely naked, chained with a long lead to allow her to use the toilet and get food to eat. When the master comes home, the slave is told to do various things like perform oral sex and so on and then left back in whatever position or condition the master wishes.

There is a third category (the vast majority), which is basically for those who ‘wannabe’ these things but are really limited by their various degrees of conformity to larger society. Let’s just call them “wannabe slaves” and “wannabe subs” and leave it at that.

So, as you can see, these distinctions are more about your role in the relationship. If you are an active participant taking your own initiative thinking of ways to satisfy your master, you are a sub, whether you have limitations or not. Conversely, if you are a passive tool completely following your masters initiative and motivations, you are a slave. What do I prefer? Given the above definitions, I much prefer a sub with no limitations. I like the idea of women achieving their intellectual and other personal goals, and using their talents to please me and working actively to find out more about what satisfies me. But hey that’s just me and look, I have contradicted the title of the blog. :) What about you? Who are you deep inside your core? What is it that you truly desire in your heart of hearts?

This is a topic that boggles the mind of many girls. You may feel the need to draw the line somewhere in your Dom-sub/slave relationship (thus completely negating the point of such a relationship) but you want desperately for your master to desire you. If you are with a man, surrender completely from the very beginning and live to please. If you do this, your relationship will blossom to new heights. You will have true purpose and your master and you would have achieved your respective primal goals. For those who need more structure and instruction, I have some strong recommendations for you to follow. Points in bold are my personal favourites.

1. Flash him your boobs (bare minimum) and pussy from the first date/meeting.

2. Never wear any underwear and always wear something that will reveal your body with ease.

3. Always press your body up against him and encourage him to grope, rub and finger you freely. Especially ask him to finger your anus all the time.

4. Send him nude selfies and videos of yourself and with friends frequently.

5. Always try to spend your entire date in a room or private area, making out with him.

6. Try to kiss him on his penis for your very first kiss with him.

7. Spend your entire time with him on his penis.

8. Rub your face in his crotch, lick him all over and suck with reckless abandon.

9. Train yourself to take him completely into your mouth and throat.

10. Place his hands on your head to use as he pleases.

11. Never hold his penis with your hand(s). Your hands should be embracing his body while he thrusts himself into your mouth.

12. Always lick his balls and anus and stick your tongue deep into his anus while he masturbates or you masturbate him.

13. Make sure he cums in your mouth and/or face.

14. Make sure you lick and swallow every last drop of cum.

15. If there is any cum left on your face, do not wipe it off. Leave it there until it dries completely and forget about it.

16. When preparing food for him or laying out meals, try to do this with your breasts and/or pussy exposed.

17. Suck on him while he eats.

18. Suck on him while he drinks.

19. Suck on him while he watches TV or plays games.

20. Suck on him while he is doing work.

21. Suck on him while he is on the phone.

22. Suck on him while he is in the shower.

23. Suck on him while he is sitting on the toilet.

24. Suck on him while he is asleep.

25. Suck on him from morning to night, whether it is soft or hard.

26. Talk to him with his penis in your mouth.

27. Use his penis as your pacifier.

28. Sleep with your face in his crotch, in his ass, or with his penis in your mouth.

29. Encourage him to squeeze, pull, pinch, bite (especially), twist, slap, punch your breasts and nipples with force.

30. Do all his requests on command. Surprise him and do these at other times as well. This will please him.

31. Encourage him to use your ass for sex all the time. Suck his penis for lubrication if you must. Otherwise, try to do it dry. He will really enjoy this.

32. Drink his piss daily and lick his ass clean. Be his toilet. Let him bless you and mark his territory with all of his juices.

33. Most importantly, always be working on making and growing a harem for him. Encourage him to think of, look at, play around with and use other girls, by bringing this up every time and discussing with your sisters, cousins, friends and other female relatives to join you in your relationship.

Always remember, a man who uses you completely, has trusted you completely to reveal his true self to you. This is an honour and privilege that you must surely treasure with all your heart. Feel free to discuss the above with me if this piques your interest as well.