#im pissed
can we stop fucking interpreting freezing as inaction and start seeing it as a trauma response? idk why but i just came across a tik tok of a person explaining that claims that freezing = putting the pressure on everyone else and downplayed it by equating being triggered with being “uncomfortable.”
no. if action needs to be done, let them unfreeze and process the situation and then have them do their part. if you are overwhelmed and feel like all the responsibility is on your shoulders, leave the room and get some rest. there are other ways around this that doesn’t involve downplaying or making assumptions about other people’s trauma response.
fucking do better. i should not have to see ableist nonsense like that in my goddamn spare time.
So fucking tired of…
Seeing all these pics that have been photoshopped. He doesn’t need a bigger dick, or a bigger ass. This is what’s wrong. Nothing is ever good enough. And the worst part it half of them include links to go to some pay site!
Is Photoshop a fetish now? Like someone lemme know. I’m confused as fuck. I’m not gonna pay for real men, you think I’m gonna fucking pay for fake ones?
Done.
the fact that a text post has a word count is atrocious argue with a wall
According to my coworker (who is like 30 years older than me) he said I’m a dumb bitch for not taping the walls to his standards even though I fucking ASKED him if it looked okay and he said yes fml
trigger warning: potential invalidation/misinformation on two-spirit people, homophobia, and colonization
okay so i was reading the Two-Spirit page on the new wiki. And it seemed a little… odd? One thing that stood out to me was this:
“In modern times, Two-Spirited People are gay,lesbian,bisexual,transgender, third or fourth gendered people, who are described as “walking carefully between the worlds and between the genders.” Moreover, because of colonization and Native people’s experiences, the role of Two-Spirit people has been lost “to consciousness”, with many Native people adopting the homophobic attributes in today’s society. Luckily, the Seventh Generation Two-Spirits are reclaiming their traditional roles and beliefs.”
which, like, idk, that just seems a little….. odd? overall? idk, reading the page in general there seemed to be misinformation, and i know i have no authority over this but i hadn’t seen anyone talking about it so i wanted to open a door to talking about it, if you’re Native and/or First Nations and you’re interested in reading the page, i was wondering your opinions on the page? because I just got a bad vibe reading it the way they kept comparing it to western terms and referring to it only vaguely and as only a gender identity.
additionally, they discuss colonization without any sort of trigger warning, which is kind of inappropriate and unsettling.
here’s the page: https://lgbtqia.fandom.com/wiki/Two-Spirit
i apologize if i’m overstepping i just hadn’t seen anyone talking about it.
As a two spirit who just read the basic portions of the page.
This isnt accurate info and its not shocking that the page has zero sources.
Two spirit can decribe ones gender but this page dosent mention that two spirit can also cover orientation and that it can be the equivalent of “queer” in that gender nor sexuality is cishet for that native person. It also dosent state that its a north american native exclusive identity. It isnt something non-north american natives can use.
Further more, it only mentions one gender type of two spirit which is having a male and female spirit. It excludes the other gender varients or even specifics per tribe. Its very obvious this page was either written by a white/non-native person or a uninformed native. Its not accurate nor through.
The page just screams what it seems every white lgbt person sees twospirit people as. That being just lgbt natives which isnt the case and every two spirit person has a different opinion on wether we as a community should be an inherent feature of the lgbt/mogai communities.
If you needed any more reason to not support fandoms new lgbt wiki, heres another. They bastardized and diluted the definition of two spirit into something that sure, white people could understand but dosent even begin to truely scratch the surface of its actual cultural native definition. Im furious.
Next time i see or hear about these gross toxic fetishizing ships imma punch these fangirls lights out.
You don’t know venom,you dont know brock. You dont know the character and you never fucking will.
Your not a fan.
I dont care. Get mad. Fuck you!
im just having a mental breakdown in my car cause one patient just punched me in the mouth 3 times and then another threw tea in my face and i had break up a fight and the nurses i work with arent doing shit about it. after i came into work feeling like death already .
If this blog ever disappears, sue European Parliament and whole damn EU. This is getting out of hand and ridiculous.
My drawing software is now fucking awful, it went through an update and now everything sucks ass, if I so dare to change the color of the background I can’t undo anything without having to watch as it goes through EVERY SHADE OF COLOR BETWEEN THE ORIGINAL BACKGROUND AND THE NEW ONE WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCK
