Hello friends! I’m currently working on cc and making some new sims to put out for you all <3 tomorrow morning im heading back to the hospital so there will be less posting for the day </3
I just need to rant but can we seriously talk about how SEXY a pudgy/chubbier belly is on a woman?! Like OMG its so hot! Why do people not think its sexy?! It’s just more to love! Like seriously thin and curvy isn’t everything most of the time thick and curvy looks SO much better. But that’s just me I guess
TRIPLETS!!! Made a new save because my game has been glitchy… Made a cute little couple to check out the new content (mostly military career and actress career atm) and it takes multiple tries for them to get pregnant… then they fracking have triplets! Triplets in a little starter home that I just extended slightly to fit a nursery
So we just went from a cute little family of three (they have an adorable German Shepard that just aged up into an adult from a puppy a day before she gave birth) to a family of six! SIX! I’m not prepared! I’m done! I’m going to bed now…
So this is a bit of an angry rant because I’ve noticed how seriously annoyingsome people can be when they don’t understand how shy or closed off some people are. I have a really close friend who’s quite quiet, they never say anything unless they have something important to contribute to the conversation. They don’t do small talk. And loads of people always try and get them to say something. Like they’ll make a game of trying to force them to talk and it really ticks me off because it’s making my friend so uncomfortable and they view it as a game. Or they try and make this person smile or frown, I don’t even know how they can find that funny because all it does is annoy me and them because it’s like they’re treating them as one of those toys where you push a button and it spits out phrases. They’re not a toy. They’re a person. With actual flipping feelings.
I also got a text later on asking why my friend wouldn’t frown. I kid you not, who even does that? And I replied with how they didn’t have to if they didn’t want to, they’re a person and I got the typical “Calm down it was just a joke jeez” type of thing. How do people find humour in trying to force a person to smile or say hello? Seriously?
In conclusion, sorry for going on but it seriously ticks me off when people do that because this has always happened to them and it’s so frustrating and I don’t doubt at least someone else out there has dealt with something similar. So can we all just try and have some respect? That’d be great thanks.
Words have power in this world. No matter how much people insist that ‘sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.’
This is never really the case.
Your words, your suffering. Words can hurt and they do hurt. Ignoring this fact, or even using that phrase as some kind of excuse that they were weak isn’t true.
You don’t know their situation. You don’t know what they’ve been thru.
So, kindly shut the hell up. If you want to complain. Complain somewhere else where you can’t hurt anybody. Because behind all this, we are just people, people behind screens and no matter what you say, no matter what situation we are in.
Remember that. Because we may seem special with our talents with writing or whatever we have been given. But at our very cores, we are people. People with lives, and people with feelings.
I just wanna talk about something real quick. I’ve been in college for almost a year and why is it that nobody tells you how different it is? Like high school was absolute hell for me like complete agony, but college is kinda like a breath of fresh air. It’s so much different than high school but in such a good way. And yet teachers say “if you think this is bad wait till college it gets worse” like no college is god sent compared to the lackluster bullshit that is high school.
Like honestly if being gay was a choice I’d be the gayest human in the galaxy. “We cant have gays on tv because it will turn our kids gay” like excuse me but if it was a choice we’d be the gayest of the gays. We are who we are and if that isnt enough for some people than they can fuck all the way off.
I’m having a hard time with people online and in real life that are always saying “you dont need to casually mention you’re gay or wear pride pins or flags cuz if people wanna know they will ask.” Like excuse the fuck our of me I didn’t spend 17 years in the closet to have some straight white guy named Josh tell me to tone it down. I haven’t bought a helicopter to write it in the sky…… yet….. so dont try me you fuckin pasty chicken wing.
Can anyone tell me why people just give up? Like if your going through a rough patch with someone and you both decide to try again and suddenly that person’s like “merry Christmas have a nice life” and ducks out of your life without trying, why are people like this. Like I understand people have free will but why do partners and friends suddenly say fuck it and leave without any driving force behind it?
What in the ever loving fuck is wrong with some feminist. Like some “feminists” bost about wanting equality for ALL WOMEN and yet they bully disabled people, laugh at trans women and belittle poor women or women of color. But they brag about being feminists, you’re not a bloody feminist unless you stick up for all women regardless of how they look. This is an inclusive community and if they arent treating all women as equals then they dont stand for any of us and they’re no better than men that belittle women.
Does anyone just have those irrational conversations that people drag you into because they think their opinion is an absolute solid fact that’s indisputable but in fact they are fucking idiots? I got drug into a conversation about “gays going to hell” at a bloody maccys. Like no sir we aren’t going to hell a clean 50% of us dug our way up from hell just to get some bloody hot fries and to shitpost the other 50% are absolute angels sent from god to keep the shitposters in line. Bloody hell I can assure you you’ll end up their before any of us do so good day sir and piss off.
Living in a heteronormative world is really odd to me. Like we as a society have grown up with predominantly straight couples in shows, movies, and on social media. But if a gay couple is in a movie or even an animation for any amount of time mums and dads alike are raising hell and screaming that “the lgbtq+ community is trying to corrupt their child and they’ll have none of it” so their gonna start a petition that does absolutely fuck all just to show that they are immature bigots. Like I grew up watching straight couples being plastered everywhere up until I was about 16 and look at me, alla that straight influence and I’m still gay as fuck. Like I dont understand this shit and the people that think that we as a community are trying to corrupt people while most of us spend all day shitposting and eat hot chips while avoiding social interaction of any kind.
I dont understand this world at all, people are brought into this world and their automatically forced to be something resembling perfection. Kids being put in a position where they have to be “perfect and socially acceptable” in a world that isnt perfect. “My child is a perfect darling he never acts up and makes perfect grades”. “My daughter is cheer captain with a 4.0 gpa shes the perfect child”. People brag about their good children and because of this idea of the “picture perfect kid and family” parents end up comparing their child or children to this seemingly perfect kid that does no wrong. And then the parents and family wonder why that child grew up to dislike them. What epic cluster fuck of a failed society are we living in if people do shit like that and its considered normal?
Seeing all these pics that have been photoshopped. He doesn’t need a bigger dick, or a bigger ass. This is what’s wrong. Nothing is ever good enough. And the worst part it half of them include links to go to some pay site!
Is Photoshop a fetish now? Like someone lemme know. I’m confused as fuck. I’m not gonna pay for real men, you think I’m gonna fucking pay for fake ones?
So I recently noticed a photo of Jeanette floating around online, mislabeled as a “bisque and wooden doll by DeHors, late 1860s.” Which could really play havoc with people’s research, so I’d like to set the record straight.
This:
is one of my French fashion dolls, nicknamed Jeanette. She has been attributed to Jumeau, not DeHors, and the early 1870s, not the late 1860s. She has a method of neck articulation patented by DeHors in 1867, which may be where the confusion came from, but her face is very typical of Jumeau’s fashion ladies. And to cap it all off, her body is of kid leather, not wood.
(I only wish I had any chance of affording- or someone buying me -a wood-bodied French fashion doll.)
This picture was on a post with clear information, and I’m really upset that someone’s been spreading it under the wrong maker name. And apparently without sourcing, since anyone who actually went to this blog could immediately see that the reposter was wrong about pretty much everything.
If you see anything else like this out there, please let me know.
With more and more states passing anti abortion legislation and RvW almost certainly getting federally repealed, when will feminists deem it necessary to use violence in order to regain or protect their rights?
Anyone got any suggestions for a lighthearted movie where Disabled people aren’t props? Does this even exist is this wishful thinking on my part. Cause I’m so sick of seeing people like me be nothing more then plot points ways to move a story a long. I was watching Work It the other day and I was really looking forward to it cause Sabrina Carpenter but that’s besides the point and the thing is I was really enjoying it spoilers if you haven’t seen it until the scene where these two men are dancing and they’re both using forearm crutches and in the shot you see someone’s wheelchair. And this heavy weight just settled in my chest cause I knew these three actors where just here to fill a quota. And I knew the dancers weren’t here because it’s a fun dance movie and there showing of all kinds of dance they were their to inspire the love interest you could see it in his face the message was clear if these disabled people can dance I can dance with a screwed up knee. And I’m honestly so sick of disability being nothing more than a plot point for lazying writing and I know it’s a lot to ask cause the rest of the world hasn’t caught up but me and every other disabled person is a whole and complete person and are stories are worth telling too.
I like men. I like girls, too, but I really, really like men. I even like your cocks - no joke, it’s true! But, what I can tell you will never win me over in a message here, on Fetlife, or really anywhere, is a dick pic.
Not that I’m looking for play partners anyway. I’m really happy with my Sir. I’m really happy with my lovely rigger. And, frankly, I wasn’t looking for either of them either. But I can tell you a little secret…
If Sir had started out his long-term-rather-obsessive pursuing of me (perhaps we should call it a hunt?) with a dick pic, I would have blocked him. And then where would we be? Definitely not the happy pair we are with his hands firmly fisted in my hair.
And speaking of that, if he’d, perhaps, sent me a picture of his handsinstead, I probably would have responded positively. Then again, that shows that he would have actually gone through some effort to know what I’m interested in. Which meant he started by talking to me, with words, in a conversation. I like words even morethan I like hands.
Not that I’m not interested in his cock. But it wasn’t what drew me to him, and it didn’t even come out of his pants right away. Shock! So, maybe a different opening would be good?
A little smidgeon of friendly advice from a kinky girl, Peps
I was just thinking back on the yelena and clint final scene where clint finally tells her what happens.
And i remembered how clint’s behaviour was because he was blinded by the rage if losing his entire family and went on a massacre rampage.
But Natasha….she lost her sister during the blip. She lost half of her avengers family, Fury AND Yelena.
But she was the only one who was keeping the remaining people in check. She was the one who took charge when everyone backed out to deal with the grief.
She didnt stop trying to bring everyone back, i feel she was the one who kept trying even when others were slowly giving up hope.
And i feel like she’s way too underrated for her efforts. Its not talked about enough , about how much mental strength and will power she had. About all the sacrifices she made.
I love her so much, she deserves so much recognition ;-;
Both U.S. and Canadian governments were both established on stolen land from the indigenous groups, and how the hell do Indigenous people have LESS say in what happens on their land? How can the governments give less of a shit of Indigenous lives?
No. That shouldn’t happen anymore. Change. Happens. Now.
Like, where’s the story here?? She found out her mother kidnapped her best friend and suddenly that’s Rapunzel’s fault?
NO ONE thought little of her, she led the attack against Varian, the attack to save the queen. The kind trusted her to keep his daughter safe- and this is FREDRICK we’re talking about so that’s huge. And yet she’s here complaining about how no one sees her as anything but a maid.
Honestly she cared more about her pride and ‘proving herself’ than actually keeping Rapunzel safe, “Rapunzel And The Great Tree” proved that.
And the things she did? She had absolutely no reason to do them. She really thinks the moonstone is her ‘destiny’ just because she’s Gothel’s daughter. Any 3-year-old can figure out that moonstone is Rapunzel’s destiny because she’s the SUNDROP, Gothel had absolutely nothing to do with this.
If I see one more person comparing her to Varian I’m gonna scream, because this is not the same. Varian is a grieving child that lost the only person who ever cared about him, was just betrayed by the only friends he had (I consider letting him get thrown into a deadly blizzard and never thinking to check on him betrayal, he could’ve been dead), was probably sick, got shunned away by the people and had masked-guards chasing him weeks, if not longer, before he even committed a single crime. And unlike Cassandra, he actually paid for his mistakes, both by serving his sentence and saving the kingdom.
She just walked away without even bothering to help clean up her own mess.
Your 20s are as a confusing time as your teenage years, because you have this realisation of new responsibilities and adulthood but you still feel like you’re a child, and you keep on looking at adults to tell you if you’re doing something wrong except you yourself are an adult now, and you keep second guessing yourself through things with faked confidence while also having a nervous meltdown inside, and it feels so freeing but scary at the same time, kinda like the first time you cross the road by yourself.
I’ve been trying to make a list of my top favorite anime, cartoons, and live action tv shows. This is not going well because every time I get a decent working list, I’ll watch something new and completely fall in love with it and it becomes a new favorite.
