#metamour
Adorable poly things
One of my favourite, and adorable, aspects of non-monogamy is metamour interactions. Specifically when they start to pickup little habits of each other. I call these -isms. Little turn of phrases, or body language things. Usually small and mostly humour, but so cute.
Example: Today I made a post linking my wife with a light humoured meme about her introversion. She replied with the typical laughing emojis and a big “Rude!”. She has never done the “rude” before. But it is the normal response for another partner of mine in similar situations.
These little -isms bring me so much joy. The compersion and togetherness it feels to see metamours getting along and adopting each others mannerisms is just too cute.
Side note: watching two partners ignore you to go over makeup and have large discussions on their favourite is amazing.
she said it, not me - 17/12/19
my metamour and I were talking about music and we have VERY different tastes and then she said this
so then I spent like 3 hours distractedly doing this. I probably should’ve been in bed because I’m still not well but…