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hey guys!!! i havent done this before but this is (was?) me!! (i looked more masculine tho smh @ dress up games)
i’m hayliel, i was a power who fought in the war in michael’s army on Father’s side!! i spent a lot of time training when i was a fledgie and was forced to incarnate when i was stabbed in The War (i was fairly young)
in conclusion hmu if u remember me (pls reblog this im Desperate)
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[Hey everyone, sorry I’ve been kind of inactive. I’m not ignoring your questions. I’m just not really equipped to give any answers right now. I’m hoping I’ll be able to answer all of them in a couple weeks. Thank you.]
Still relevant. There’s a reason I’ve been so inactive. Please try to understand.
concept: me, engaging emotionally and understanding what’s happening. I know who I am and nothing seems far away
concept: seeking treatment for distressing thoughts and symptoms instead of making them relatable posts on the Internet.
Boi I go to therapy and take medication for my disorders, my therapist has a link to my blog and supports me verbalizing my symptoms with a community of people whose experiences are often very hard to describe/remember. Don’t act like you know anything about me, maybe you should seek help for Narcissism™ because you clearly think everyone else’s lives and choices are your business.
I’m glad you are seeking treatment, because people still avoid due to the stigma. The mental illness section of tumblr is filled with inaccurate and easily relatable “symptoms” posts, and teens trying to find ways to differentiate themselves with self diagnosis’ based off those posts. Sure there is likely a smaller community of people with dissociation/derealization disorders that find comfort in your posts, but there’s also people who believe they have every disorder they read about.
PS: Someone with Narcissism Personality Disorder would not give a damn about anyone beside themselves.
You’re not trying to help anybody dude, you’re just angry about things that you don’t understand, and you’ll attack anyone for saying anything vaguely unsettling to you, even though you have no idea what that person’s situation is and have no right to give them your advice about things that you’re essentially just
/assuming/ about their situation. If you honestly think what you’re saying to these people who are probably in a fragile mental state already, is helpful to them, I can honestly tell you that you’re wrong and the kind of things you’re saying to these people does way more harm than good.
concept: me, engaging emotionally and understanding what’s happening. I know who I am and nothing seems far away
concept: seeking treatment for distressing thoughts and symptoms instead of making them relatable posts on the Internet.
Boi I go to therapy and take medication for my disorders, my therapist has a link to my blog and supports me verbalizing my symptoms with a community of people whose experiences are often very hard to describe/remember. Don’t act like you know anything about me, maybe you should seek help for Narcissism™ because you clearly think everyone else’s lives and choices are your business.
[Hey everyone, sorry I’ve been kind of inactive. I’m not ignoring your questions. I’m just not really equipped to give any answers right now. I’m hoping I’ll be able to answer all of them in a couple weeks. Thank you.]
You know when your mind gets all intensely static and your heart starts to hurt and you’re like, ‘this is how I die’? That’s me rn.
[Submit your dissociative suggestions!]
not to be gay or anything but i really want to make out with a cute girl on my lap
How does a potato get a cute gf?
By being spud-tacular
How does a potato get a cute gf?
Wanna find out if someone likes girls without directly asking them? Get their opinion on Hayley Kiyoko’s music
me: *sees a cute girl*
narrator: time for a new season of gayer things
Will I have to delete every last “seeking sugar baby” bot from the earth with my bare hands?
Watch me.
Alright friends, i’m kicking myself back into gear. Again. We’ll see how long this lasts.
i’ll be queuing up the posts we’ve got drafted already and i’ll leave the queue at 2 posts a day until those are done posting. After that, we’ll probably switch to 1 post a day until we really get back into things, and maybe we’ll change it back later. Requests are still closed until we can chew through some of those, sorry! And sorry for disappearing again. Things got a bit hectic for me so i didn’t have time to dedicate to this blog, but (hopefully) i should be able to now! Thanks everyone for your continued support!
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im getting back into poetry and was thinking about sharing some of it here. on a scale of 1-10 how silly is that idea
We’re so excited to show you the little lesson we’ve been working on about systems! Please try to spread this for educational purposes!
The last slide is only some examples of people/ alters personalities that can form!
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hey I’ve started IOP and I’m in the processs of moving out + things with Traumaland are really progressing so I’ve been kinda neglecting this blog, but I’m going to start matching up PALS again today, but as I am pretty swamped, I’m afraid I’m going to have to cap the submissions, until I have a better hold of things.
Posts
PTSD Criteria & Diagnosis
The difference between PTSD & trauma
Changes to PTSD criteria in DSM-5
What is a criterion A level trauma?
Do suicide attempts count as a criterion A trauma?
Trauma from serious physical illness
Can I have PTSD if I don’t have flashbacks?
CPTSD
(see also the CPTSD post, above)
Differences between CPTSD and BPD
Trauma Severity & PTSD
Is my trauma severe enough part 1
Is my trauma severe enough part 2
Is my trauma severe enough part 3
Can I have trauma without having PTSD? part 1
Can I have trauma without having PTSD? part 2
How likely is it that person will get PTSD after losing a parent to suicide?
What if I have PTSD symptoms but no trauma?
Why do some people get PTSD after trauma but others don’t?
Dissociation
(see also the dissociation post, above)
Why do some people not want to integrate their dissociative identities?
Can you dissociate if you don’t have PTSD or trauma?
PTSD & Memory
Is the trauma memory true? part 1
Is the trauma memory true? part 2
Can I recover my trauma memory?
How can I have PTSD if I don’t remember my trauma?
Is it possible that I experienced trauma even though I don’t remember it?
Recovery
Is recovery from CSA possible?
Treatment for PTSD
Critical incident stress debriefing
Do I need to do CPT or exposure to heal from PTSD?
Trauma informed care & cultural competence
PTSD & Working with Therapists
Isn’t it condescending for therapists to guide clients to their own conclusions?
Is my therapist judging me? part 1
Is my therapist judging me? part 2
Does my therapist think my trauma isn’t severe enough?
Do I have to tell my therapist specifics about my trauma? part 1
Do I have to tell my therapist specifics about my trauma? part 2
How should I tell my therapist about my trauma?
Can my therapist handle my trauma?
Can I ask my therapist if they have experienced trauma?
How do I tell my parents I have PTSD and need treatment?
Symptoms getting worse before they get better
Is it selfish to talk about trauma in therapy if my symptoms aren’t too bad?
Feeling worthless because I need help part 1
Feeling worthless because I need help part 2
Working in Mental Health
PTSD & working in mental health part 1
PTSD & working in mental health part 2
Working with perpetrators as a therapist
Flight/flight/freeze response
probably not a new idea but i’ve been having a tough time lately and i’ve only got therapy appointments sporadically and it’d be nice to have a pal to confide in specifically for these kinds of things and can confide in me, and i figured others probably feel the same way.
so i created this survey form to match people with a pal:
https://goo.gl/forms/lnuGPUA2JCjVfres1
tldr; if you want someone to talk to when you’re having a tough day and they can talk to you fill out the survey above !
i’ve started matching people but i’ll keep responses open indefinitely! if you haven’t been matched yet it’s probably because i’m waiting for the perfect match but i’ll find you a match by the end of the week x
if you’re matched up with someone you don’t click with, don’t worry, just shoot me an ask and i’ll find you someone else.
if someone acts inappropriately (harassment, personal attacks, homophobic, racist, ableist, transphobic, etc) report them to me and i’ll remove them from the database.
