#open relationship
Let’s be honest, as females we’ve all though about or fantasized about being the center of attention with more than one man. If you have a friend that claims otherwise they are lying and scared to admit it. A few of us are lucky enough to be in a relationship where our man is confident and open enough to allow us to explore and participate in a MFM 3 some. I’ve come to a realization that , there is a big difference between making love to someone and fucking. They don’t have to go together. My husband and I make love together and are very emotionally attached to each other. When we realize we can enjoy sex without an emotional attachment, it opens a whole new world for us but only if your man also realizes that love and sex are not one in the same. Fortunately most men already know this. They don’t need an emotional attachment to have sex.
So I’m curious, if you’ve had or are trying to have a 3 some. How did you decide it would be okay? What are your thoughts on the subject? If you haven’t tried it yet, why not?i’ve been dating my boyfriend for 8 years (since we were 15) and just about 3 years ago i began to question my sexuality. i was raised in a religious household and because of this the idea of being queer legit never crossed my mind until i moved away for university. just about 4 months ago my boyfriend and i opened our relationship up so that we could explore different things that we have always wanted to. unfortunately, the open relationship has been working for me but not really for him and everytime i come back from a date our conversations usually end with him in tears and me feeling guilty and sad about everything. after sleeping with some women i now know for sure that i am bisexual and that i really enjoy being with women but i am feeling so torn about my relationship and what all this means. also, i have been way more sexually attracted to women than i am to men and i just haven’t been feeling it with my boyfriend but i also am dealing with a lot right now so it kind of makes sense i guess?? i just don’t know if we are meant to be or if i am hurting both of us by trying to make it all work. i have no one in my life who understands or can relate to this so any advice would be so helpful!!! thanks so much
Hey, I know it’s been tough being in a relationship, especially if it’s open. You enjoy being free and discovering this new part of yourself; you’re changing, while your boyfriend is probably feeling left in the dust.
It’s natural to want to hold onto relationships even when they’re dead weight. If you seriously want to work on your relationship, make it a closed one for the time being and begin to heal with him and grow with him. But if you’re just not feeling it anymore with him and don’t think that will change then cut your losses now for his sake as well as your own.
I feel so Horny tonight! May I hook up with someone new at the Bar?
I got lucky enough to find not one, but two really great guys. Yes, they know about each other and are okay with it. Poly life fucking rules man