Some people I’ve seen have the misconception that a polyamorous person only loves at 50% or 33% of how much they could because they’re in a relationship with multiple people. This isn’t true. The capacity for love doesn’t end at 100% - a person who loves two people would be at 200%, someone who loves three at 300%, and so on. Each partner gets 100% of the person’s love.
ThePolyamorous Community still hates Autism Speaks!
A special Pride Month post!
[Image Description: Two images set to the background of a flag with three stripes; the upper and lower stripes are both light red, the middle stripe is a darker red. The first image is of the three striped Polyamorous Pride flag. The stripes are all of equal size and in descending order are navy blue, red, and black pink and they go down horizontally. In the middle of the red stripe, there is a yellow Pi symbol. The second image has the Autism Speaks logo crossed out with a ‘no’ sign. Another image at the bottom reads “TERFs, exclusionists, transmeds, and queerphobes, DO NOT INTERACT! You’re out of touch and we hate you almost as much as Autism Speaks”. End Description.]
Ok so first off THANK YOU! A handful of you are sending story continueation requests and prompts. I see them, and I am going to get to work on them very soon!
Back update! Getting better. Definitely a longer process then I thought. I now function like a normal human. But all my disabilities are hidden now. I don’t walk with a limp as much any more. But I dont have the same strength and stamina I used to. So we are working on building that. But I have returned to work… so … yay?
Hubby and I are still trying for a little one. If I go missing for weeks at a time its because I got my period and that wrecks me mentally. So thank you all for your patience. We are starting to look into alternatives because conceiving has become a struggle.
Annnnnd I have been opening up my poly life since I am now fully vaccinated. So I have been on a few dates with two different beautiful people. I mentioned the girl before. And I have a date with her tonight. (Insert fan girl squealing). But I have also formed a relationship with a non binary person. I have been on one date and I am already head over heels. I have a full date with them on friday. And we plan to bring the party back to my place. (no promises but I may get to send more body pics)
Just thought I would share what’s going on. I can’t wait to get back to writing I have been super horny lately and your prompts are inspiring me. It might take a while but I want to do my best!
I’ve been in the poly scene for about 5 years now and I want to make something absolutely clear to any old timers and up and comers.
There is NO WAY* to do poly wrong.
Some poly centric communities would have people believe there is only one way to do poly.
These communities are toxic cess pools who exist exclusively for sexual gratification.
That is not what poly is.
If you are uncertain about what poly is, allow me to direct you to the following:
Can you form a romantic bond with more than one individual? Then you are poly
That’s it. That’s the whole thing. Anything beyond that is personal preference and open communication.
* Unless of course you’re not communicating or lying. Then it’s not poly. It’s called cheating. And you’re an asshole.
A solid point. Wanted to share and add. There is not wrong way to do poly, only unhealthy or toxic behaviors. These exist in all form of relationships. Rock on my poly folk.
i love people in nonmonogamous/nontraditional relationships
-queer platonic partners who are a throuple and just watch movies and give each other emotional support and forehead kisses
-two guys who are married to each other and also both dating another guy who they invite over for dinner sometimes
-a lesbian and her bi gf who she loves to cook dinner for while she vents about how she’s missing her boyfriend because he’s out of town
-two people who can’t really describe their gender or what their relationship is in “normal” terms but they’ve been friends their whole lives and they helped each other explore their gender and they live together and they’re life partners and they kiss sometimes
life is complex and messy and if words aren’t enough to describe your relationship then that’s awesome and i love you!
A post on my needed outting with my girlfriends Cay and I are moving houses in two days! We needed furniture, so we had to go shopping, but we didn’t want to risk Public transport with the pandemic so our gf drove us and helped out!
Happy pride war month everyone. This tumblr is in support of BLM, we have all donated, signed petitions and done what we can from Australia.
I, Ally, am genderfluid, grey area aro-ace.
Cayden is genderfluid panromantic ace
Meg is Aroace.
None of us would have the ability to say these things out loud, or even be together, if it wasn’t for black lives, black influence, and the trans black community. We thank you, and hope to give you a platform to stand on, we support you all, love you all, and just know we’re here as family xx
