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Here’s one of Mel, from a Sunday in May, for SwingersExtra.
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We’ve been using adult dating sites for ten years now and have met a lot of people through them, so we have a bit of insight into why we ourselves and other swinger singles and couples are not responding to your messages.
Being involved in the lifestyle requires sharing your deepest desires with your partner, and giving each other space to talk openly about your darkest fears, but in order to be able to share these things, you will have to embark on an exploration of your self. When exploring on your own it’s easy to get ahead of your partner, and forget that your discovery came as a result of some personal insight that might not be immediately understood by your significant other. But for us swinging is just another way for us both to better understand what it is to be a human being, so it’s important to share these personal insights so we can grow together as a couple, and as far as possible ensure that we’re both seeing with the same eyes.
Here’s a few tips to help you and your partner on the same path.
If you are just starting out on your swinging adventure, or are at the stage where you have your own coffee mug at the local swinger club, you would have already picked up on the important concept of boundaries.
Having now have been a part of the lifestyle for nearly a decade, this website has recently given Al and I a great reason to reflect on our experiences. We’ve crunched the numbers on just how many people we have had sex with (we’ll keep those details for our subscribers!), rerun fantasies that we had forgotten about, and recalled scenarios both funny and illuminating that, in retrospect, were obviously turning points in our relationship, values and beliefs about sex, love, intimacy, and swinging.
Read Five things I wish I knew when we first started swinging on SwingersExtra.com.
Mrs Cayenne and I are at a lucky age, her in her late twenties, my just having turned thirty. We can still relate to people in their very early twenties, and have always been able to relate to people older than us. Some of our closest friends are older than our parents. But is the same true of our playmates? Is age important when it comes to swinging?
Ten years ago I wouldn’t have even known where to start in thinking about my sexuality. If you’re a newbie to the lifestyle you might be feeling the same way. Or maybe that is one reason why you are taking the plunge. Swinging and it’s many opportunities for sexual exploration is a great way to get to know your own sexuality, and that of your partner.
Almost by definition swingers defy societies norms, and are almost impossible to stereotype. Every person has different reasons for participating in the swinger lifestyle, so their rules for playing will differ too. However there are some broad categories you can use to help identify compatible playmates, and although there are always exceptions, some assumptions can be made about the people that fit into these categories.
Our first ever video upload. Enjoy!
