#reprogramming
This story was submitted by someone who wishes to remain anonymous. I was going to slip it into my queue for next week but I really enjoyed reading it. Let me know if you enjoy it too!
Christina had a reputation for being no-nonsense, she ran her software programing team with an iron fist. At only 24 she made senior director by leaving a trail of programmers in her wake. Other directors had buddies; she had workers, and was notoriously hard on anybody who made a mistake.
It came as no surprise to Dan when Christina barged into his cube one day, “What kind of sloppy-ass code is this!”, she demanded.
“Oh hi Christina, we haven’t really been introduced. I’m Dan” he said unfazed by her curtness.
“I know who you are Daniel, I’m not your friend, I’m your boss, and I want elegant coding from my programmers, not whatever you call this crap. I don’t know how you got on my team..”
Mid sentence, Dan interrupted by raising his hand, which brought her anger to a whole new level. “Let me turn my screensaver on and we can talk about what you don’t like”, with a quick keystroke Dan’s screensaver kicked in.
Christina being very observant noticed the unusual screensaver immediately “that isn’t our companies standard screensaver” she said, anger almost bubbling over.
“Yeah, it’s something I threw together. The colors and patterns are nice, aren’t they?”
“Great, a fucking hippy! Christina fumed.
Dan offered her a chair with his back to the monitor, Christina threw herself into the strategically offered chair. “I bet he starts crying before I’m done tearing him apart”, she thought smiling inwardly.
“First of all, I don’t know how you got on MY team!”, her eyes darting to the screensaver. “I don’t, um” the words were drifting from her mind like water through her fingers. “like, uh,” she tried to press on but the patterns on the screen were too captivating.
Christina snapped back when she heard Dan say “Well thank you for being so honest with me Christina, I will certainly try harder. I appreciate your understanding”.
A little dazed and wobbly Christina stood up, mind coming back into focus.
“Straighten up Dan or you’ll be off my team”.
Leaving his cube, Christina’s mind was firing on all cylinders again, as she was walking briskly past her drones she was saying to herself “I’ll talk to HR about open offices for Dan, so he can work more efficiently”. Never noticing she no longer called him Daniel.
A few weeks passed and everything was normal. Everybody avoided Christina’s gaze, just the way she liked it. Until one day, going through the logs, Dan’s code flagged a report, she sent it to the printer, almost knocking it off her desk as she lunged for the paper before marching to his office.
“What the fuck Dan!!! This is the second time I’ve had to talk to you about your code!” Dan calmly hit the keystrokes that triggered his screensaver
“Please come in and let’s discuss this, you better shut the door, so we can have a private conversation”.
Christina thought to herself “I’m going to fire this jackass for talking to me that way” as she closed the door behind her.
As she sat in the chair she couldn’t help noticing Dan’s screensaver, this time couldn’t get a single word out before she felt her thoughts melting. “Ummm” is as far as she got.
When her brain came back into focus she was fucking Dan’s cock with her mouth, as she opened her eyes they were locked onto his. Within a few seconds she felt him cumming in her mouth, down her throat.
After she’d sucked his cock clean she stood up, straightened her skirt and walked out his thinking “that taught Danny a lesson he won’t forget”.
The next few weeks went without incident. Whenever she saw Dan, her brain felt like it was filled with cotton candy, but just for a second. Christina would find herself doodling and this mostly happened whenever the screensaver Danny had installed on her computer was running.
She didn’t remember asking him but, there it was, so obviously she forgot asking for a copy. Looking at the paper she would often discover her name written over and over by the end of the page having morphed from Christina to Crissy and finally sissy, next to Danny turning into Daddy with big hearts drawn by his name. Angrily she would throw the paper away and find an excuse to make somebody’s life miserable.
Over the next few months Christina realized she loved wearing pink, giggling when trying to remember why she used to think black and grey outfits were better. It was so obvious once she slipped on her first cupless pink bra and crotchless panty set she found in her desk drawer, laughing at herself for not remembering when she bought them.
On the outside nothing else had changed, Christina made everybody’s life miserable whenever she got the opportunity.
“I’ve finally got you!” Christina roared bursting into Dan’s office. “This isn’t the color palette the customer wanted, you gave them orange when they clearly asked for umber!” triumphantly clenching the audit in her fist.
“Looks like you are right, maybe you should shut the door, so we can work out what to do” he said, in a calm tone that made her want to do something to remind him she was in charge.
As Christina turned around from the shutting the door her eyes immediately locked onto the screensaver. She didn’t last a second before she was completely entranced, papers falling unnoticed out of her hands.
“Have a seat, but before you do take off your clothes. You don’t want them wrinkled” Dan said. His hypnotized slave mindlessly did as she was told.
When Christina’s brain finally came back into focus she was riding Daddy’s cock like a good girl. After she meticulously cleaned his cock, she is after all a stickler for details, she proceeded to get dressed and left his office thinking “that taught him I mean business” as she headed to her office to insist he get a raise for all his hard work.
And then maybe watch that amazing screensaver just a little longer.
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What do you want? For me to be an obedient, eager to cook and clean, baby-wanting mistress of yours? PUH-LEASE! I’ll never wear an apron! Or high heels. Or a mini skirt! You want a slut, a baby-having slut! You don’t want a woman with her own mind or a cause to fight for or an opinion! You want me to be at your beck and call, to…
…what? You have what for me? What’s this? An herbal supplement? Is it organic? Is it natural? Oh, all right then. That’s the sweetest thing you’ve ever done for me. A gift? You’ve never… well, I won’t bother you then. Go back to work, honey.
I’ll leave you alone in your office. What? Oh, I must not have called you “honey.” You know I wouldn’t do that…
Uggh… I’m going to lie down.
…
Honey! It’s really, really urgent!
It’s more important than that stuff you’re doing with those letters… or words. Are they letters or…
My head kinda hurts…
Ugh! Stop making me think!
I need your opinion on my titties!
Like, my bra strap is showing. Is it slutty, or is it sexy?
I know, you’re my boyfriend. So I have to look respectible, but also, like someone could just fuck me?
‘Cuz then, it makes you look good!
And that’s why I’m here, right? You buy me things so I can make you look good!
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Incorporate lifestyle into little things…
I work in an industry with a lot of password protection, requirements to change frequently, etc. Add a little reminder to your everyday and make a D/s password. It becomes another act or acknowledgment of submission.
Examples:
subwife2SIR
babygirl4HIM
Kneeling@SIRsfeet
You get the point. Then you get to type it a million times a day too.
Devotional Training: Everyday Reminders.
Okay, so this is not a wholly original idea. Still worth discussing, though.
1. Take your female subject, strip her, and then strap her tightly to a frame, including immobilizing her head. Face up or face down doesn’t matter that much.
2. Immediately in front of her eyes, position a small screen so that it completely fills her field of vision.
3. Wire her tits, cunt, and perhaps ass for electricity. Then position a vibrator against her clit.
4. Run a continuous feed of hardcore porn into the screen she’s watching. It’s crucial that this contain two basic varieties of smut. There should be some - but not too much - of the boring, “vanilla” variety, in which the female or females are handled gently and lovingly, caressed, given pleasure by the men, and shown as much respect as a girl can hope to receive in a porn shoot. The other kind, which should constitute the majority of what she is shown, is of course the much harder, dirtier genre … in which females are used as exactly what they are, inferior cunts whose only purpose is to give pleasure to men. Instead of being gently caressed, the cunts are slapped, spat on, thrown around, fucked until they cry, verbally abused, and beaten.
5. Now, here’s the important part. Every time a “gentle” scene is shown to the cunt, the electricity shocks her, burning her breasts and holes with fiery pain. Optionally, take the opportunity to whip or cane her body at the same time. But every time she sees a cunt used properly — hurt, debased, or otherwise defiled — then the vibe between her legs activates and forces pleasure through her body.
6. For best results, continue this long-term. Start with a continuous 24-hour period, perhaps, and then repeat as needed. (Obviously, it will be easier if the system is automated. No need for you to lose sleep just to keep a cunt’s training going. This takes a bit of work, but a computerized system can be rigged up to synchronize the video track with the electricity and vibrator.)
If all goes well, the cunt’s brain will start to twist … she will learn to instinctively associate gentleness and tenderness with pain and shy away from them, while her mind will tell her that rough use and abuse brings pleasure. In extreme cases, it is possible to train a cunt to orgasm spontaneously as soon as she is slapped across the face. Good luck, gentlemen!
i think i kind of did this to myself. not as harshly (unfortunately?) but i started out a ‘feminist’ and then when i found real porn, women being properly used, i kept playing with myself while i looked at it.
i didn’t have the negative reinforcement for vanilla porn, but still…
That’s a good cunt. Now go out and invite your former feminist friends to do the same.
Devotional Training.
There are some things I feel as though I’m not meant to say in relation to my relationship with Mister, at least, not publicly, not outside the sanctuary of the world that exists purely between the two of us.
For all we share and write about, there are some things which seem to fall into an unspoken category of “you’re not meant to say that” in the D/s and BDSM community.
Or perhaps I just don’t see some things written about because it’s truly taboo, maybe there are aspects of the relationship dynamics that Mister and I share that are simply frowned upon or not acceptable to the outside world no matter how fulfilling we find them ourselves.
For the most part, Mister and I keep these things to ourselves, we don’t really share the things that are harder to explain or we feel people won’t understand or we feel fall into that category of “you’re not meant to say that”.
I want to start changing that a little. For our own sake as well as for anyone who may need to read it.
I will preface this by saying I speak only for Mister and I, and not the community at large or for any other D/s relationships either generally or specifically. I would also ask that before you respond, or before you send hate mail if you’re so inclined, that you read this in full and try to keep an open mind before reacting.
So, with that said…
Mister intentionally manipulates me, and not only do I allow him to, I want him to.
I know most people hear the word manipulation and it’s automatically associated with abusive behavior. Generally speaking if we talk about manipulation we’re referring to an act of consciously coercing an action, behavior or mental state in someone else without their knowledge and more often than not with some form of malicious or selfish intention behind doing so.
While I absolutely do not, and would not ever, condone abusive, maliciously minded or intended manipulation in any way, shape or form regardless of the relationship dynamics involved I do believe that when used in the right way and with the right person there can be such a thing as positivemanipulation.
Mister and I talk a lot about what we both want from our relationship, what we’d like to accomplish as well as where our limits are, not just in terms of the sexual or physical activities but also where the lines of independence get drawn, where the mental and behavioral lines are drawn and where the absolute necessities are in relation to how we work together and how we operate or function in the world outside of our relationship.
We discuss the goals or concepts of what we want to achieve in great detail, but once we’ve discussed it and agreed to work towards it I tend to hand over the planning of how we accomplish it to Mister.
When it comes to physical activity or behaviors I’m often highly aware of what the plan is - learning to crawl up and down the stairs, being able to deep throat him in a single stroke without flinching, walking flawlessly in heels, increasing my pain tolerance…all of those things had a clear learning path and a clear plan that I was consciously aware of and an active participant in.
The mental and psychological goals are harder though, and sometimes the most effective way for Mister to be able to help me overcome mental barriers is to do so in a way that I’m not explicitly aware of at the time.
I trust Mister completely, and I genuinely want to be owned by him in mind, body and soul. It’s through his leadership, control and ownership that I am becoming the best possible version of myself, and I believe that happens just a little more each day.
There are some things that he simply can’t accomplish through his command and my consent alone, though.
I am able to let go and be vulnerable in front of him not because he told me to be vulnerable but because he showed me that it was safe to be vulnerable with him. He used the tools at his disposal and his knowledge of my mind, my fears, my insecurities and incorporated that knowledge into activities carried out in a safe environment that would make me feel vulnerable before him, a little at first and then gradually building over time. I learnt it was safe through action and reinforcement.
I know I can turn to Mister when I need help or when I encounter problems because he intentionally created low risk or no risk scenarios (such as moving our favorite mugs out of reach) that would make me turn to him to ask for help, because as much as I would love it if he could have simply told me he would help me when I needed it, asking for help is hard, and because of a history with people saying they would be there and not following through the words alone wouldn’t have been as effective as showing that he would help when I asked for it. It’s because he showed me through the small things that I trust in him and have enough confidence to turn to him when it comes to the big things.
There are a lot of things that are part of our relationship that are generally considered to be forms of manipulation and behavior modification. Sometimes I’m consciously aware of them, I know for example that Mister rewarding “good” or desired behaviors makes me more eager or comfortable to repeat those behaviors in the future, even if the reward is as simple as being told that I’m a “good girl” or hair ruffles.
But I’m also aware that there are some things Mister intentionally does to encourage or create certain behaviors and beliefs that aren’t explicitly stated, and that sometimes those things are subtle enough to fly under my mental defenses - and while I might not be able to tell you exactly what those things are until after the fact, I can tell you with absolute certainty that they are done with good intent and designed to achieve our mutual goals and desires.
Sometimes the best tool Mister has at his disposal in training me and guiding us towards where we want or need to go is beyond my conscious mind. To speak to something beyond the place within me bound by previously learned behaviors or perceptions forged through societal expectations and the fears and doubts left by less well intentioned people who came before him and instead work with the subconscious mind (no pun intended, but it’s a happy accident).
Our destinations are negotiated, but the path to get there often isn’t.
In order for Mister to lead, I must first be brave enough to follow and trust in him enough to choose our course.
Sometimes that means my conscious mind follows blindly, knowing that it’s safe to switch off under his care and his command.
~Wyn xx
I am so proud of you, Pup.
You submit to me with grace, dignity and mind blowing self awareness - even when it comes to accepting or even embracing concepts like manipulation and mind games.
You say I make you the best version of yourself. The same is true in reverse.
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Trust is earned….. An beautiful testament to what Dominance and submission can look like. Bravo.
This ^^^ is well worth reading. I had a submissive once who had a brilliant insight: “So your Dominance is basically Skinnerian behavior modification.” It was a sharp observation, and spot-on. We Doms do manipulate our girls. And they allow it, even embrace it. When a submissive says “My one big problem is impatience” or “I hate how I’m so fidgety and can’t just be still” or “I wish I didn’t hate my body so much,” our Domly antennae perk up and we immediately think “Area for focus.” And we begin a focused, planned, unapologetic process of manipulating our girl to help her to come to terms with these areas, and eventually to rise above them. It’s a large part of why we Doms exist.
Devotional Training: Truism.