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Anonymous asked:Hello. 1) Do you think there are behavioral, verbal, etc “signs” that hint that a woman is submissive? 2) While talking online with someone I haven’t met in real life, whenever I bring up sexual subjects or ask about their fetishes, I feel they are intimidated and think I’m “creepy”. Do you think it’s better to ask/talk about your/her fetishes/desires at the “online phase”? I have a few more questions but I’ll send them later.
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Hi. Thanks for the questions.
1) I think there are plenty of behavioural signs that someone is naturallysubmissive. If they have a tendency to do as they’re told, without protest. If they enjoy caring for others. If they avoid eye contact etc. However, this is not necessarily a sign that they want to be submissive in a BDSM context. Quite often, it is those who are not naturally submissive who enjoy that role behind closed doors.
2) If you are talking to someone, whether online or in real life, unless you know that they are comfortable talking about sexual and particularly fetish subjects, then I’d suggest not doing so. The fact that they think you are “creepy” for doing this implies to me that you are raising these subjects too soon or outside of a designated sex/fetish chat environment. If you are in a vanilla environment, keep to vanilla subjects.
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Buy Me a Coffee☕Originally asked on the masterpandy blog
Its first encounter with its new owner. It’s mind was beginning to have second thoughts, but its front cunt was dripping uncontrollably.
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It’s early days as #R55 still has its hair and doesn’t yet have its assigned ID tattooed on it. It must wear a sticker for the time being.
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I came across this comic strip some time ago on a now defunct blog. The caption was implying that the girl was somehow hypocritical because she got pissed off with the sexism and cat-calling in society but then enjoyed the “same thing” in the last frame.
The difference, of course, is consent.
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Anonymous asked:
I’m a staunch feminist but I love your blog. Is that wrong?–*–
Absolutely not.
BDSM is not anti-feminist, or misogynistic - though it certainly seems there are lot of male so-called doms out there who see it as an excuse to be so.
Feminism means women are free to choose how they live their lives. If their choice is to live as a slave, a domme, a little, a masochist or as a 50s housewife then, so long is it is truly their choice, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.
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Buy Me a Coffee☕Originally asked on the masterpandy blog
A cellar is a place to keep things you may want at a later date. Those things may, however, get forgotten.
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Anonymous asked:
I really want to make this girl i know my slave but she doesn’t like me that much. how can i blackmail her or hipnoltize her or both so that she dies whateva i tel her?–*–
I think you need a lesson in consent - otherwise at best you’re risking losing respect from your peers and at worst a rape allegation, a restraining order and/or a jail sentence.
Forcing someone to do something against their will is not only illegal but also morally and ethically wrong and certainly not in the spirit of BDSM.
If this girl doesn’t like you, move on - there are plenty of women out there who do want to be slaves. Take some time to meet people who are into BDSM - join FetLife, attend munches and events. If you’re into blackmail and hypnosis, find someone who wants to engage in that. Ultimately it will be far more rewarding for you as well as her.
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Buy Me a Coffee☕Originally asked on the masterpandy blog
I do like these plug gags - really dehumanising and objectifying. That hole is nothing more than a drain.
Definitely need one of these!
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