#objectification
Tell me what you’d like to do to me.
Always play naughty with your girlfriends for the entertainment of men!
Show real pride and appreciation when a man grabs/smacks your ass when he passes by!
Ready to serve!
boy-cafajeste-deactivated202112:
You know you’ve done something right when this is the spontaneous reaction when a man meets you for the first time
Take pride in being a good stress reliever!
Acceptable reaction when a man enters your bedroom…
Caption by daddylondon
lets say you have a friend.
you also have a coffee maker.
your friend comes over a lot, but they keep talking about your coffee maker. every time, they tell you about how awesome your coffee maker is. they think its a compliment. they hint about how they want you to make coffee for them. sometimes they even come into your house to make themselves coffee. though they assure you it’s you they like, they never spend any time more than necessary getting to know you and spending time with you. it doesn’t take too long for you to realize that they don’t actually like you, they just like your coffee.
don’t let it be harder to realize in relationships. girls, you have a body. you are not your body. you have boobs. you are not your boobs. you have a butt. you are not your butt. guys comment on you on your body, thinking it’s a compliment to you but it isn’t. it’s like telling you they like you because of your coffee maker or your car or your dining room table, or couch or any other thing that you own.
Objectification
Objectification is defined by Oxford Languages as “the action of degrading someone to the status of a mere object.” While I may not experience this as often as women, I do occasionally encounter it and it’s not pleasant even as a man who keeps an open mind and not easily offended.
Why shouldn’t a slave be an assistant? Or a desk? Or a chair?
I mean, even the dog seems truly okay with it, amirite? ;-)
Once everyone accepts their true nature, things are great.