#speculum
I am nervous about my first pelvic exam. I have had a rectal exam before but hopefully the doctor does not give an enema to me this time. The last one I had filled my belly so much, I felt like I was going to explode, luckily my doctor inserted an anal balloon nozzle that stopped it from coming out. The water was however so warm it relaxed my anus. After I used the bathroom in the corner, that weirdly had no divider and the doctor just kept looking at me while I expelled my belly, I went back onto the exam table. Since my anus was so relaxed I could barely feel the large 3 prong speculum she inserted into my anus and the large anal snake she feed into my belly. The snake felt kinda nice. She said it was because she lubed it all up so much. Except when she was like 2 feet in I started to move around because that part hurt, so she said she had to restrain me. She got out these belt looking straps and put them on my legs and arms. I guess I didn’t move much after that. She seemed as if she enjoyed seeing me like that. Idk why but I liked it too. Maybe she will be my doctor again today…
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For patients with a history of sexual trauma, pelvic exams may trigger PTSD symptoms. The techniques of trauma-informed care can lead to an easier exam.
Studies show that trauma survivors want providers to ask about sexual trauma before the exam (that is, while the patient is clothed and seated). During the exam, patients prefer that the clinician listens, anticipates each step of the procedure, and affirms the patient’s control over the exam. For example, giving women the option of self-inserting the speculum has been shown to lower patients’ anxiety and pain.
Clinicians should use the following patient-centered techniques to lower patients’ anxiety:
- Establish rapport before the exam. In some cases, this means doing the exam at a separate visit.
- Invite the patient to suggest measures that will make her more comfortable with the exam.
- Allow a support person to accompany the patient during the exam.
- Allow the patient to choose a female examiner if she prefers this.
- Before starting, inform the patient that the exam will stop if she feels uncomfortable. Assure her that she has control over the pace.
- Tell the patient about each step of the exam right before it happens.
- Keep the patient’s body covered, exposing only the areas being examined.
- Encourage the patient to breathe abdominally in order to relax her pelvic floor muscles.
- Rest the unopened speculum against the patient’s vagina so that she can get used to the sensation before the speculum is inserted and opened.
- Use the smallest possible speculum.
- Use lubricant.
- Offer self-insertion of the speculum.
- Offer frog-leg positioning without stirrups. Call stirrups “foot rests.”
If the patient does not want to continue the exam, the clinician should stop, inquire about the patient’s needs, and proceed only when the patient is ready.
This is how all exams should be performed - we never know who has experienced trauma.
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And here’s something quite different … an orgasming pussy opened to view thanks to a speculum. The contractions are delicious, as are the pearls of moisture that squeeze themselves from the walls of her pussy … so sexy …
Would like my ass fucked with a speculum stretching my pussy out so when they pull out, they can just cum straight into my open cunt
