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Are you wondering if you’re a sissy or not? Should you take the plunge? Some things to consider.

If you know what being a sissy is you may be here for the simple reason that you’re wondering if you are sissy material or if you should take the plunge into becoming a sissy. Being a sissy is a lot more involved than you might think at first glance, and it’s a lot more involved than many "fetishes" and that means that there is a serious commitment. Because of that you need to decide before you ever try to jump in if it’s the right choice for you. This handy guide will help you know what to expect before you dive in to this.

First Time Playing with Someone

PUBLISHED ON July 30, 2017

The first time you ever play with someone might be exciting and nerve-wracking at the same time. As with anything new you must be cautious and make your safety the utmost importance. Even if you know the other person, playing together for the first time means you need to be wary of what might happen and how it might happen. Here are a few do’s and don’ts you might want to keep in mind.

DO: Play With Someone You Know And Is Trustworthy

An important acronym in BDSM is SSC "Safe, Sane And Consensual"

One way of making sure you live by the safe and sane part is to ensure you only ever engage in any form of BDSM with someone you truly know inside and out and who has proven through thick and thin they are trustworthy.

Remember trust is earned and it is earned through a person’s actions proving they are trustworthy. This takes time which means be patient and be selective of who you give your trust to. That is why I suggest to only play with people who you have known for long periods of time as they have taken the time to show you they are trustworthy and you have seen who they truly are as a person. This is essential part for any of the rest of this list to work.

"First Comes Trust, Then Comes Submission"

The same should be said for Domination, bondage, flogging, etc.

Trust should come before any play ever takes place. Trust is when a person’s actions match their words proven over a period of time. It is not earned instantaneously.

DON’T: Play With Anybody You Don’t Know And Don’t Trust

I know the unknown can be super exciting, but the unknown is also unsafe. The reason is since you don’t know this person, you do not know the most important things about them, including whether:

Are they a sociopath or psychopath with little to no empathy for others

Are they trustworthy and thereby will abide by your agreement and respect your limits

Are mentally healthy and stable enough to play

Do they have any anger issues

Do they know what they are doing and understand the safety measures they must follow

It is important for people to not underestimate the dangers they can face being with someone they don’t know. In a BDSM play scene, people are placed into very vulnerable and truly compromising positions with no way of protection other than a safeword which you have no idea will stop the scene when you are with someone you don’t know.

Chances are fairly high that the idea of being tied up naked in the middle of a subway station in downtown New York would be a dangerous thing to do. You are completely vulnerable and at the mercy of complete strangers. There is no telling what kind of danger you could be in.

I hate to say it, but it is just as unsafe to pick one of those complete strangers and go play with them in a private setting. Just because they have nice eyes, broad shoulders, a round ass or seem like a nice person does not mean they safe to play with.

Most dangerous people can hide their true selves over a short period, but over a longer period their true colors will be revealed.

Dominants, you may think that this warning doesn’t include you because you won’t be put in a compromising vulnerable position. However, you must also be careful of playing with anybody you don’t know and trust, because you never know how they will respond to a play scene and the actions they may take afterwards.

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Safeword: Why is it important? What are some alternative safety tips?

Safeword is a pre-agreed word with the sole purpose of stopping the scene entirely. This is the ultimate “no” you can receive and there’s no questioning that “no”. Keep in mind that it’s not just for s-types (submissive, bottom…), D-types (dominant, top…) can and should practice it, too.

In many BDSM practices, safewords are the ultimate consent indicators: person who use it clearly states a situation where they are not able to go on anymore (mentally, physically or in any other way) and the other person has to respect them and end the scene IMMEDIATELY without causing more damage and with a calm attitude.

It is important to check in with the partner and reassure them that you heard them and explain whatever you are doing in order to get them out of this situation. There’s another important thing to keep in mind though.

The key point here is that it should be something that normally wouldn’t happen during play. Many kinksters are familiar with hearing “no” during a scene. It is easy to say “no” when you are getting spanked, because it hurts but that doesn’t necessarily mean that you can’t take it no longer or you are not actually enjoying the scene and it’s just how you deal with pain verbally in this context. That’s why safe words and signals have to be negotiated before the scene itself and be reminded before the scene again. You can’t just say “Oh hey, I know I said NO but I’m actually enjoying this and I want you to continue. Sorry for the misunderstanding!” in the middle of a session. Because of that, a safeword should be an easy and short word with no relation to the scene at all.

Many kinksters use stoplight system where Red means stop immediately, Yellow means there’s something we need to check but not finish the scene, and Green means enjoyment with no problem. Usually people are familiar with the consept of Red but not with Yellow. When somebody uses Yellow sign, you should check in with them while not ruining the mood. Maybe you can incorporate asking what they need into the dirty talk. You can go with an unusual word, too: Pizza, grape, stone, name of your favorite artist… Your choice! Just make sure it wouldn’t naturally come up in the flow of play.

You can also agree upon a “safe gesture” or “signal” while negotiating pre-scene. This is especially useful if you do a scene where at least one of you will be restricted: blindfolded, tied up or gagged etc. Or maybe you’re just not a typically verbal communicator during a scene and prefer signals over words. Depending on the degree of freedom that play allows, you can decide on a specific hand sign (how many or which fingers will move for how many times in what type of motion), blinking (how many times you will blink or how fast), pinching, tapping… Signals can vary.

When a safeword is used, you need to check if they are able to communicate. In my opinion, you should ask them what you can do for them at that moment before doing anything. Here’s why I suggest this: Imagine a scenario where you have been playing with multiple toys or have transitioned a few times from different activities during the same scene. If a partner uses a safeword, you may not know whether you need to cut the rope first because they felt a nerve damage or maybe you used a word that triggered their trauma response and they can’t mentally carry on. By the way, being able to talk and being able to communicate is not always the same thing. One person might not have a physical restriction to talk but can’t form clear sentences. Check that, too.

If they are unable to communicate what the immediate danger is, you really need to do undo everything one by one. Just take the first safety action you can think of at that very moment. ALWAYS DEAL WITH THE IMMEDIATE DANGER FIRST!

The key point in both scenarios is: Don’t panic. Believe me, the person who used the safeword is probably more panicked than you already. I know it’s hard but let’s say you were tying somebody up and they used the safeword you agreed upon pre-scene. Tell them that you heard that they used the safeword and that you are untying them as fast as you can or that you are going to reach for the scissors and you are not leaving them alone. Reassure them that you are present for them every step of the way. If it’s more of a mental play you were doing, like a verbal degradation focused play, you can start by changing your voice to a more calm tone. We can create many scenarios like these but you get the idea.

Aftercare is crucial after a scene where a safeword or signal is used. That’s for another time to discuss.

Lastly, my advice would be this: Don’t make what you read or heard scare you away from a good time. You can safely explore and experience BDSM with partners you trust. It’s better to be informed about what you are getting yourself into, than not knowing at all and doing it anyway. Be risk-aware.

The Top 10 Hidden Benefits of Crossdressing / Being Transgender

If you feel guilty about crossdressing or being transgender, then maybe you consider the whole thing a "curse".

But I believe there are some amazing benefits to being a "two-spirit" person.

In this post, I want to share what I believe are the hidden benefits of crossdressing or being transgender.

Some of these apply more to crossdressers, but the sentiment is the same: Being TG can make you a better person overall – in girl mode AND guy mode.

The Top 10 Hidden Benefits of Crossdressing or Being a Transgender Woman

1. It allows you to integrate the best of both genders into your personality.

2. It motivates you to stay in shape and take care of yourself. (A girl’s gotta look good, right?)

3. It makes you more empathetic towards women.

4. It brings you closer to the people who support you.

5. It’s easier to be faithful when *you* are the other woman (though I hope your empathy towards women would prevent you from cheating in the first place!).

6. It allows you to get to know yourself in a deep and meaningful way.

7. It makes you an interesting person. (Normal is boring!)

8. It gives you more compassion towards others who don’t fit the norms of society.

9. It offers a healthy and non-destructive way to relieve stress.

10. It makes you a more creative, resourceful, and courageous person than you might be otherwise.

So what do you think? Am I missing anything on this list?

deas to explore fetishes related to male submission and female domination as a couple in a female led relationship. Many of these ideas and themes can be combined and modified to fit your needs.

Denial

Caged. Have him wear a chastity cage so he can only get hard and cum with permission.

Ruined orgasm. Stop stimulation just as he cums to deny pleasure and frustrate him.

Luck of the draw. Have him roll dice to determine his fate.

Hands to yourself. Tempt him with your body but don’t allow him to touch.

Visual creatures. Have him jerk off for you but don’t let him see your body.

Humiliation

Little guy. Tease him about his size while he’s trying to cum.

Pretty in pink. Have him wear panties or otherwise dress up in order to cum.

Safety first. He has to jerk off with a condom.

Messy boy. He can only touch himself in the bathroom and must cum straight into the toilet.

Bad dog. He can only cum from humping something.

Domination

No pain, no gain. Give him a price to cum in the form of spankings.

Heating up. Let him jerk off with icy hot as lube.

Point system. Give him points for chores and services and reward or punish him for his total.

Like a girl. Pleasure him only with a buttplug or finger inserted.

Role reversal. Use a strap on to fuck him.

Cum Eating

Clean up duty. He must lick up his own cum.

Own medicine. He must cum directly into his face or into his mouth.

Bottoms up. Have him cum in a shot glass and swallow it.

Cherry on top. Make him garnish a dessert with his cum and eat it.

Made your bed. Have him cum on your pussy and go down on you.

Premature

Like magic. Hold his penis still in your hand or pussy and have him try to cum.

Softie. He can only jerk off and cum while he isn’t fully hard.

Personal best. Give him a time limit he has to cum within.

Nostalgic. He can only cum while making out with you fully clothed and dry humping.

Easy does it. He can only stimulate himself with one finger.

Obedience

On my mark. Give him a countdown.

Past your bedtime. Give him sleeping pills and only let him jerk off when they’re kicking in.

Whiskey dick. Give him shots and make him try to get hard and cum.

Self incriminating. Make him ask to be denied pleasure or punished and explain why he deserves it.

Time out. Send him to time out for unwelcome sexual attention.

Cuckolding

Jealousy. Tease him with fantasies about another man.

The flirt. Flirt with someone else in front of him.

Compare and contrast. Have a threesome but neglect or exclude him.

Warden. Give his chastity key to a lover of yours.

Exclusive. Reserve your body for your lover and deny him.

Forced bi

Self suck. Give him a dildo and do to his dick as he does to the dildo.

Sloppy seconds. Have a man cum in your pussy and have him lick it out.

Conversion therapy. Only let him cum to gay porn.

Teamwork. Bring a guy home and make him help you suck and fuck him.

Showtime. Bring a gay guy home and have him put on a show for you.

Chastity and Keyholding

Chastity has long been my favorite fetish to explore. I strongly believe that every male with a penis should have it locked up securely in a solid steel cage with a Dominant Female holding all the control. No exceptions.

But of course not every boy is a candidate for Full Ownership and sometimes real life doesn’t allow it. With this in mind I have a few levels of control available for boys interested in exploring Chastity with me.

Owned Pet

Becoming one of my Owned Pets is a privilege that not many earn. And yes, it must be earned. Ownership is not something I take lightly and neither should you as a submissive. It’s a long term commitment from both sides and takes effort and dedication. True submission doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time and trust to develop. The bond will grow deeper with each passing day until you don’t know how you lived before you found your Goddess.

Not every boy is a perfect fit to serve me personally and I’m not the right Dominant for every submissive. Therefore, anyone wishing to become one of my Owned Pets must prove themselves worthy before I will agree to take ownership.

To prove yourself you must have already successfully served me by completing a minimum 1 Week Lock up, completed Boot Camp, spent time as one of my Playthings or participated in one of my many games or challenges. If you have successfully served me and wish to make the commitment of becoming one of my Owned Pet I’m always happy to discuss this option!

If you haven’t yet served me then find a way to do so and prove to me you have what it takes to be my Owned Pet!

Locked Boy Chastity Club

I’m always ready to lock up new boys and make you ache for release! There’s not much I enjoy more then giving a creative teasing task then knowing you are dripping and on edge for the rest of the day. Being locked for me is never easy but it is fun!

Club head over to this post to read the details!

Chastity Boot Camp

Chastity is not easy and very rarely does anyone have success just by locking on a cage and throwing away the key, although I know that’s the fantasy. Becoming a permanently chaste boy takes time and training to be successful. And to live out the fantasy you need the right foundation.

More details about this option here.

Games and Challenges

Not ready to make a commitment but interested in taking part in one of my games or challenges? Check here to see if I have anything about to start or follow my Twitter, WordPress or Discord to be sure you hear about upcoming activities before they start!

FAQ

Do you only lock sissies?

Will you physically hold my key?

No, as I say all the time I believe all boys are at their best when they are locked in Chastity. Sissification is not part of every chastity journey. That being said I do expect you to be open to new experiences and willing to try new things if it’s what I ask of you.

I do take full control of Keys for my Owned Pets and Locked Boys. Currently due to the pandemic, I believe it’s safer that you have some kind of access your key incase of illness or other emergency. But that does not mean you will be able to access it easily or without my knowing. There are still plenty of options that I use such as the Chronovault, Ikeyp Safe, Emulock, The Ring Surveillance Camera, etc. The best method of my control will depend on location, experience and length of lock up and will be discussed once a tribute is received.

What tasks can I expect?

As if I’m going to tell you those details before you’re locked. Tasks vary from boy to boy and depends on my mood, the season, or even something I might have seen or read that day or something I need done to make my day easier. The only way to find out is to submit and find out for yourself.

What about Limits?

Everyone has limits. Limits are always discussed at the beginning of any controlled lock up and putting t into writing before I take ownership of anyone and are always respected.

Will you expose me if I don’t do what you ask?

No. Exposure is not something I’m into and if you ask for it I will know that you haven’t done your research about me and I will not lock you.

Dont forget to lock your cliff

God dammit I’m so fucking horny for no reason and I can’t do anything about it; I’ve just been rubbing my thighs together and wiggling my ass at every chance I get.

How do I keep unlocking new kinks/slight kinks every solo session, this literally stemmed from me slightly peeing by accident while I was cumming and all I can think about is being degraded the entire time

“Aw did the little cum slut piss herself over my throbbing cock? It’s okay baby boy I know your can’t control yourself, release everything on my thick cock; let yourself go baby”

Submissive bicep curls

I love these summer jammies

I love weekends when I get to be girly

a good, deep, lazy fuck is what a lot of boys need. take it slow, draw out the foreplay, use alot of mouth and fingers and really make him ready for you. get him in a comfy position, one he can be in for a long while and ease your cock inside him. listen to his low, whining moans and fast breaths, fuck him so slowly that he’ll start to push back but hold his hips because he needs this even if he doesn’t know it. when he cums without being touched, he will thank you.

A link to my hypnotized session

Don’t play with mommy

I love things panties

Mesmerizing

Too hot for you don’t come playing with me!✌️

I woke up almost spanking someone hehe

Inside

Outside️

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Don’t state too much

Kinky!

Too clean

What a night