Honestly? I’m just really ready to be pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen making bread for my family and wiping jam off my childs face and kissing my husband good morning and harvesting fresh tomatoes in the garden iS THAT TO MUCH TO ASK?
I truly love taking care of a home so, so much. I love cleaning and keeping things tidy. I enjoy cooking and knowing that everything is nice for my family when they come home everyday. I get so much pride out of it, more so than I have out of any job I’ve had so far. I just wish I could do this all the time, but I know that’ll probably never happen.
I, too, am finding more joy in keeping my home than I ever thought I would before I started really putting in this much effort.
1. Kitchen appliances. Especially new ones that have neat features - a girl who cooks will love it!
2. New washer/dryer.
3. A nice vacuum.Bonus points if it’s a Roomba.
4. New cookbooks.
5. New cookware set.
6. Makeup.
7. Sexy lingerie.
8. Pretty clothes.
9. Jewelry.
10. Sex toys.
Feel free to add more ideas on!
I need all these things <3
I agree.. I need all of these! Ok, maybe just new makeup??
I’d love new girly dishes or a kitchen aid mixer or new cookbooks, there’s a few on my list, maybe some new dresses I want for much but I only need little.
“I want masculinity back. I want men who are not afraid to lead, to embrace the world with open hands and change it, men who aren’t afraid to protect the weak or those who are important to them. People often confuses masculinity with violence, but those are only men who never learned how to love…”
quick reminder that being soft doesnt mean youre weak.
you dont have to let the world make you hard and rough. you dont have to let apathetic and uncompassionate people make you see the world in a negative view.
you are someone who sees the good. you are someone who fights fire with kindness. you are someone who has gone through trials and tribulations and struggles and pain but hasnt let it make you become hard, defeated, and pessimistic. you are someone who remains vulnerable and hopeful, knowing that you could be disappointed or hurt. you are someone who is soft, not weak. do not let people who are miserable try to bring you down.
there is bravery in being soft. and you, my dear, are brave.
I love that there’s a subculture centered around kindness, sweetness, nature, and cherishing the little things. I really believe the world was needing this. It’s softness as counter culture, and keeping your softness can be difficult in a hard and cold world. I’m so proud of us all!
I can’t tell you how much this tradfem group inspires me. Whenever I feel in a funk or need some motivation in regards to my home needs I always find it here. It reminds me that it’s ok to put on “people clothes” instead of my sweats, clean something, and do a little cooking. Thanks for the inspiration lovelies!
